Do certain persons create anger triggers within you?

If so, it is important to know which people upset you and why.

You could be triggered by a characteristic in someone's behavior. Without realizing it, you probably have the same behavior within yourself, but you are not aware of it.

When you don't like a particular flaw in someone else, you really have to go within and observe your own behavior.

In this practice, it is important to observe all the people you interact with daily because they are your mirrors.

When you like someone, it is usually because you have similar behavioral patterns, and often times you see yourself in that person, hence the mirror.

Mirror Behavior

Furthermore, when your anger is triggered, it is usually by someone you like or have a personal relationship with, there's also a mirror image happening. It could be someone that you see every day in your work environment.

It takes close introspection to observe your own behavior and to uncover and face your distasteful behaviors. You could also ask someone who knows you well and who can be honest enough to give you a non-threatening criticism of your behavior without hurting your relationship.

On the other hand, if you constantly get angry when someone else is angry, you are carrying a lot of anger within yourself and his or her anger is triggering your own. When you become aware of this pattern, it is very important to start releasing your own anger.

If you are totally unaware that you are carrying anger, it is probably repressed.

A very important part of the healing sessions I do with clients is cognitive releasement which is a releasing of negative emotions. You can read about this technique in letting go of anger.

You don't want to carry your anger; it becomes heavy baggage. Moreover, it is very toxic to be continually angry in your relationships. You can find out more at anger in a relationship.

The anger in an intimate relationship could escalate and be destructive unless you address it within yourself. At this point, it is also important to stop blaming the other person for anger that you feel within yourself.

Once you become aware of negative emotions which are ruining your relationship, it is easy to let them go through cognitive releasing. An important part of this therapy is to know what has caused the buried emotions.

For more information on cognitive releasing of negative emotions especially anger triggers. contact me at online counseling

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