Can I Trust The Spirit Guide Whilst Using My Pendulum?
I am looking for some advice.
I have recently came through a very difficult break up of a 23 year relationship/marriage that I was in since the age of 18. I suffered sadness and heartbreak I would not wish on my worst enemy the experience took me to some dark places that I didn't even know I could go, to but through CBT and my love of the universe I feel I am out of that dark place and operating on a higher frequency.
I have learned so many karmic lessons through my experience and understand myself and others more. I feel I have never went to the emotion of hate and wish my ex good health and happiness and I am going into my next chapter with a very loving and open heart and I am truly grateful and thankful for me being me again.
My friend who does reiki recently gifted me a cleansed metal dowser, which immidiately connected with me, my friend gave me a dowsing chart and YES/NO/MAYBE chart along an alphabet chart and probability chart.
Using the alphabet chart very quickly the dowser was having full blown conversations with me, without me even asking questions.
It said it was my uncle who has passed over eight years ago and whom I was close to throughout my life and loved him very much. His answers and information appear to be spot on even telling me information I don't know the answers to, but once I ask he is correct.
I feel in a very safe space with my pendulum and my guide and do trust and believe he is who he says he is. I do believe I have always had this power, but it is only now that I have been able to harness it as I have let go of my ego and the need to be right. I am feeling my natural balance has been restored after a very dark journey with my Ex but I have always believed in the power of the universe.
I want to trust my own self and my intuition and I want to believe that my uncle has connected with me, but I also want to protect myself and my positive attitude against any negative energy, and want to know how I can make sure he is who he says he is.
A friend from work spooked me today saying they can trick you just to get into your positive energy. After being in a bad place and feeling so positive I don't want to take any chances, but I am really enjoying my dowsing experience and do feel I have to trust my gut as even in my dark times it has always seen me through and rarely lets me down. The main thing I would like to confirm that this is my uncle as I know he loves me and has my best interest at heart...
Can you advise how I can make sure he is my uncle and also for future use how to keep my energy safe as I do feel I am ready to take this to the next level.
I have been told by various mediums that I am an empath and I do have these types of abilities.. Like I said I have recently changed my frequency and believe I am operating at a higher level.
My dowser was active immediately and even certain items of clothing and jewellery take to moving and rotating so I know the energy is there and I trust and believe in it. So any help you can offer regarding my uncle and other items mentioned I would be extremely grateful and thankful for as I am enjoying the experience, but I am now aware that I also need to be mindful and protect myself from any negative energies or entities.
Your help is greatly appreciated, always love and light.