Dating Difficulties

by Inna
(Roswell, GA)

Hi, Tanya.


My question is perhaps beyong the scope of the pendulum but I thought I would ask. I am dating a man who had lost a love of his life about 2 years ago. He started dating me thinking that he is ready to move on. But he is not, he is still in pain.

It is difficult to be with him, partly because he does not treat me very well (wihdrawn and disrespectful at times) and partly because I know he is in pain. I tried to end our relathionship, but always come back because I know he needs help.

Will it be wise to ask pendulum questions on how I should proceed? Thank you.

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Jan 28, 2011
Response to Dating Difficulties....
by: Anonymous

All things Tanya said plus....why don't you think highly of yourself as a woman.

Your partner and man whom you choose should honor, protect and love you. Not what you are describing.

Why is an abusive person attracting you? Is this how you were treated in your own home growing up?

Listen...you have to have respect your own self, in order to get respect from others.

Come on, it is 2011 now, we have come a long way in our footsteps, and you know better. You know the kind of life you would want, the kind of husband you would want, the kind of house/home you would want/...and currently what you are describing is all against your own beliefs.

If you don't think high of your own self, how do you expect others to?

Find your own Self, find your spirit, find your greater mind...and begin to love yourself...Don't be so desperate to think that this man is giving you love or you are helping him...come on..stop this cycle...

Jan 26, 2011
Dating Difficulties
by: Tanya Tkach, webmaster

Hello Inna,

Yes, you could start using a pendulum, and before you do that, read my pages on dowsing.

You need to also ask yourself some questions.

Are you trying to rescue this man? Are you trying to help him for himself or does it make you feel better to do so?

You said that he is withdrawn and disrespectful at times. His behavior is very hurtful. You are in for some difficulties when you know in your heart that this man is not ready to move on. You need to consider your own needs, and what you expect from this relationship.

You could also just follow your intuition, it will not steer you wrong because your higher self speaks to you through it.

Let us know what happens.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor, author of "That Damn voice Again, Communication From Beyond"

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