I love your site. I found it through google search - because I wanted to understand the accuracy of pendulum answers. I love my pendulum. It is clear on "yes" and "no". And I test it with basic questions such as do I have green eyes? Regarding these questions, it always answers correctly.
Now on to my issue.
About a month ago, I asked my pendulum if I should stay with my husband (J). It said "yes". I also asked it if I should be with another man (his name is R). It said "no".
My feelings: the truth is, I know what my heart feels (to be with R). But I am on an "awakening" path. I do not necessarily look for fulfillment in objects or relationships. And honestly, my vedic chart reading says that I will find fulfillment in the Self it also says that in previous lifetimes, I have had deep, spiritual love connections of which I became attached to. But this is the lifetime that I must look to the Self to find fulfillment. This is disappointing, but at the same time it makes sense to me.
For the past month, I have been focusing on the divine and imagining and truly feeling that my Lover is the Divine (pure consciousness) itself.
Tonight, I asked my pendulum about my husband (J), if we should we be married and unlike before, it said "no". I asked if R and I should be married, and unlike before, it said "yes". I began going through each year to find out when R and I should be married, and it responded yes to 2015.
My question is if I can I trust the answers from my pendulum?
At the time of asking, I (for as honest as I can be) felt that I wasn't intending one way or another. Yet and still, my heart wants to be with R. But my mind says I should be with J. Why J?
Because I believe I cannot find fulfillment through any phsyical being, because I feel that the trama of break up is more detrimental than the postiive of being with someone my heart desires. Because R and I are both married to other people, who love us, and to leave them would cause them much pain. I never want to create such pain in another's life in order to feel "happy or benefited" in my own.
Would you be willing to ask the following questions: if I should be with R? If so, what year? Should I stay with J? Are either one of these relationships going to last the duration of this lifetime?
If you need more clarity, please let me know.
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With divine love and gratitude for your service,