I've been working with a pendulum for years. Occasionally, I ask about my husband's faithfulness. It has always said he has been faithful, until about 2 months ago. It also said I will never get proof of an affair.
I have searched email and phone records and anything else I can search and have found no evidence of cheating. I did ask him if he has been faithful. He says he would never do that to our family and the thought of it repulses him.
We've had a lot of financial difficulty in our lives in the past year and a lot of stress. We went a long time without being intimate. The first time, I asked him for sex, he said he was tired, the next night, he said he had to shower first (which is rare for him). So things have been strange.
After a few months of the pendulum saying he has cheated, it is now saying that he is not cheating currently, but has in the past.
I'm just confused, he is not the "type", he is not a player, he is a "nice" guy. I just want answers because I feel like I'll never know the truth after searching and praying for it.
Please help me.