Intense Separation Pain, Is He My Twin Soul?

by Meili
(Indian Ocean)

Hello Tanya,

I met someone during a group trip last year in November. I was attracted in an unusual way to him. I loved his voice and when our eyes met it was extremely magnetic - something which cannot be expressed in words.

After four days we returned to our country and my heart was looking for him during each minute.
We finally met on Face Book after two days and he seems to be sharing the same intense feelings as mine.

For the past seven months I have lived so intensely and his thought was always with me. It was like living in a floating balloon.
We met each other, chat on Face Book...

However I am happily married with someone else and have two kids. I have never thought that i
will live such a relationship with another one.

We can converse for hours on any subject ranging from food to meditation. We are so at ease with each other.

I am a spiritual person and meditates regularly. I am also a student healer doing advanced healing courses. After meeting me , he also has started meditating. We share so god.

However after his recent vacation to another country, he told me that he has met a girl and that he thinks he will proceed with the relationship since I am already married and not available.

He said that he has feelings for her. He once said that he does not want to break my family.
He pleaded that we remain good friends since he said that the connection he feels with me, he will ever feel with another girl.

But I refused his proposal. He said we keep our friendship but without the physical touches.
We have never had sex but we cuddled a lot.

I have realized that my love for him is not unconditional.

Today after my meditation session,i felt that it would be good to have him as my best friend...and on the other hand renew my affection with my husband who loves me loads. But, I am still not sure. The pain of separation is sometimes unbearable, but am trying to heal myself.

Can you please tell me if he is my twin soul or a karmic soul mate? Kindly advise if I can go back to him as a friend or it will be better to keep my distance from him.

Awaiting eagerly for some words from you. Thank you.

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Sep 13, 2015
Help! S.O.S.
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


Meeting your twin flame was necessary for you to go within and do the inner work that you are meant to do. The twin flame connection provides the spark for you to wake up and realize that your inner cleansing is important.

For you to understand more fully this concept, read Father God's message to me about Twin Flames.

If you need help with your cleansing, contact me.

Sending healing vibrations,

Sep 13, 2015
Losing Your Twin Flame
by: Aurora

I know exactly how you feel.

The circumstances where I met my twin flame are different, but the pain you feel when you're losing your twin flame is equal for everyone of us. And you're right. The pain is excruciating and that's even an understatement. I've always been the kind of person to get back on the horse really fast after I fell down. But this time, I just can't. I can't get back up.

I try to keep myself busy too, but it's not working. I work in health care as a nurse and I have no idea how I will be able to help my patients next week when all I want to do is break down and cry.

I can't function without him and there's no way for me to go to him and kiss him hard since we live 6500 km away from each other. I'm from Europe, he's from Canada.

I would have to take a plane to see him and I have this feeling he wouldn't even want to see me. But at this point, it's all I want to do. Just book that flight and go see him. Tell him I love him, that I miss him so terribly much. To give us a chance, to start our life together. Even when he shuts the door in front of my face. I need him to know that. Because right now, he won't listen.

So I do understand your pain, and I know it's hard. It's the worst pain I have ever felt in my entire life and I've been through a lot of sh*t in my life, I can tell you that. But nothing compared to the pain I'm feeling now. It's like I lost a part of my soul, a part of my heart, a part of my entire being. I felt him breaking our connection last night. And I don't ever want to feel that again. Hell sounds better than that kind of pain.

Feeling how your twin flame is giving up. There's a saying that says they always come back, that you can't escape the twin flame connection. But what if you can? It's the thing that I keep thinking about. What if it's possible. For him to walk away and never look back? I'm praying for the two of you.

Good luck.

Sep 13, 2015
Help! S.O.S.
by: Anonymous

I'm new to the whole 'twin flame' idea. I met him in high school about 3 years ago.

I'm quiet and shy, and was terribly so in his presence, so not once did we have a conversation. We were both too aware of each other. I never spoke to him.

Back then I naively ignored all of what I was feeling, thinking it far too irrational to be real. Back then I'd say to myself simply "it feels as though we are secret friends"(because of the looks he'd give me, and the smiles he'd give me, and the strange, profound connection we shared. Because it seemed as though it was unnecessary to speak- we never had to. What we shared was beyond language.)

Nothing came of it, save this horrid pain and longing. I feel as though I know him, that I have forever, that he's always been there...(I was even given a vision that told me so)

It's too difficult to put into words. But I imagine if you're on this page, you understand already. Of course, I'm still inclined to call myself insane. I just don't know what to do with myself.

He graduated over a year ago, and even before that, he seemed to have just forgotten about me one day. One day he'd look down at his feet whenever he'd pass me in the hall, and the next he was walking easily past me, not aware that I was there. And that kills me, because I still don't understand how that's possible. He seemed to hold such a permanence, you know?

It just felt like he would always be there no matter what, and then suddenly he was gone. And as it turns out, he'd found himself a girlfriend. They're still together, I presume.

The point is that I just don't know what to do. I feel like I'm going insane. What's worse is that I literally can't picture myself with anyone else! I try! There's even a cute, friendly boy that I feel, had I not met this damned twin flame, I could easily like. But my soul doesn't want anyone else, even when my head does! It feels numb to everyone but him. It's driving me bonkers!

He's gone and, after reading through all these comments from "Twin Flame Separation Pain", it doesn't sound like he'll be coming back any time soon, or any time ever (which evokes a horrible, horrible feeling).

How am I supposed to get on with my life? How am I ever supposed to be happy the way my soul is begging me to be happy? I feel awful about this whole thing, and what if I'm wrong? What if he isn't even my twin flame? What the ---- is going on?

Aug 30, 2014
Update On Intense Separation Pain
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Meili,

You have to respect your twin soul's wishes and allow for him to heal. We cannot force our expectations and wishes onto others.

Whether or not he will return depends on him. The connection between twin souls is very strong and that connection may bring him back to you. Remember you can always communicate with each other telepathically.

Keep praying and meditating and working within cleansing yourself. That is the best thing you can do for the both of you

Sending healing vibrations,

Aug 27, 2014
Update on Intense Separation Pain
by: Meili

Dear Tanya,

My twin soul has shut me out of his life. He is suffering also, but does not want to keep contact for the moment. He said that we must let time do the healing before we can talk again.

I have immersed myself in meditation and Prayer. However his thoughts are always with me.

Do you think he will come back one day? Is he the runner as they call it in other internet posts? Is there something I can do for him to return to me?

Aug 08, 2014
Thank you Tanya
by: Meili

Dear Tanya,

Thank you so much for your words. They helped a lot.

I thank existance that there are people like you who help others without even knowing them.

Aug 07, 2014
Intense Separation Pain, Is He My Twin soul
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Meili,

Yes, this man is your twin soul, and he sounds very evolved. He does not want to break up your marriage.

Twin souls come together in a life time to help one another and then to help humanity as much as possible once they have done their spiritual cleansing and learning.

You need to stay with your husband and family and resolve things with your husband, until the time, if it comes, for you to move on. I can't tell you when that is or if it will be.

It is up to you, what your intuition tells you to do whether or not you should remain friends with this man, if you can do that.

Trust in your intuition, I cannot tell you what to do, but it appears right now that you need to be with your family.

Sending light and love,

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