Is it mutual?


I have used my pendulum in the past and sometimes it is right and other times not so much. I have a personal problem and would like to understand what actions I should take based on the current circumstances.

I have a "friend" named Nick and we liked each other for a long time without knowing. Just when I was about to tell him, someone stepped in the picture and lied about numerous things and the rest is history.

Three years have passed, and I surprised him at his hockey game. He was ecstatic to see me, he stared and stared etc. Every sign he did but when I try to hang out with him he doesn't pick up or call back the day of our plans.

He has a girlfriend and based on what I saw at the game, he still has feelings for me. Please give me a clear answer since my pendulum does not, about what is going on with him. You are very kind to do this and God Bless.

Thank You,

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Apr 15, 2009
Is It Mutual?
by: Tanya Tkach

Hello Amanda,

Thank you for the lovely photo and your question.

Again, I want to emphasize that when you work with your pendulum it is very important that you and your pendulum are cleared and protected.

The other very important point is that when you ask a question, your question needs to be clear with no ambiguities; you also need to clear your mind and have no expectations. It is the same as in meditation. Otherwise, whatever is going on in your mind, can affect the answer from your pendulum.

Working with a pendulum is a very good exercise for clearing your mind of all thoughts, (as in meditation) and once you put the question out there, be patient.

Now about your friend Nick, he needs to work on his issues with the friend he now has in his life. Remember, everyone that comes into our lives is there for a reason. We agreed to have the relationships that we now have before coming to earth this time.

Nick has feelings for you just as you have for him. We can love many people at the same time; we are here to learn how to love unconditionally. We may not accept each person?s behavior but we can still love each other on a soul level.

Amanda, you need to get on with your life, and if it is meant that you and Nick are to be together, it will happen. But you cannot put your life on hold for that time to come. You need to live in the 'now - read Eckhart Tolle's book "The Power Of Now". What is past is past, and you cannot live in the future, or on dreams otherwise, you will miss what comes into your path. It is important to observe and be conscious of all that is around you on a moment-by-moment basis.

Sending you love and light,
Tanya Tkach - Webmaster
Spiritual Counselor

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