Is The Man I Met 10 Years Ago My Twin Flame?

My story is complicated to say the least.

I first met this man whom I hope is truly my twin flame about 10 years ago. He was going through a divorce and I was married at the time. I was just drawn to him for some unknown reason. I didn't push the relationship/friendship at all at that point. I did have some rather intense, unexplainable to me, feelings for him.

As time has gone on, I see this man at family gatherings and am always drawn to him. Since we have shared many conversations, I can loose track of time when talking to him. Conversations are so easy with him and I feel as if I can talk about anything. I have told him many things that I won't talk about with others and he gets it. I am still married so we don't talk about intimacy with each other regarding our relationship. I am on the brink of getting a divorce, but it has nothing to do with this man. He actually is supportive of me staying married. He is not influencing this decision.

I am currently in a relationship where my spouse is very controlling and somewhat abusive. I find myself wanting to make this man happy, he's a single dad and has done quite well raising his son himself. I have feelings for this man that I have NEVER had for my husband. I find myself thinking of him all the time. I am able to pick up on his emotions and I have asked him to confirm they were accurate. They were.

I am having a personal struggle with my desires for this man since I am still married. I don't want him to be my "escape" from reality of the situation I am currently in. I also don't want any blame being thrown on him. The reasons for me wanting the divorce are self sufficient.

I have not been intimate with this man or anything of that nature. I really have a strong desire to be with/near him and see him happy. Weird isn't it?

I have asked God for lots of help with both of my issues at hand...the divorce and possible twin flame. The thought of being with this man is very appealing to me, but again not the basis for the divorce. I will carry that out whether or not we are actually twin flames.

I had visions when I was about 10 about meeting someone...this man fits that vision. I am scared, excited and I feel many other emotions I didn't even know existed.

Please help me figure out if this man is really my twin. He is spiritual, but I have not brought up the twin flame theory to him. He knows that I can communicate with his deceased father and do. I pass along messages to him.

What do I do? Thank you!

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Apr 07, 2011
Thank You
by: Anonymous

I believe my gut is telling me that it is him. My heart agrees.

I do agree with needing time alone to heal myself. I have been trying to figure out why I've stayed so long a lot lately. I used to think the illusion of a happy family was very important and that marriage was til death do us part. Now, I am looking at it differently, part of me feels like it has already died.

I am afraid to open myself up to anyone and let feelings in/out. I am working on this, the man I speak about asks me to take my armor.(off?)

I have been seeking spiritual growth and the past several years, I know I have grown. I feel that time is very near for my marriage to dissolve. We have two children too and that is another reason I stayed, thinking that the children needed to be with their father. I now see that differently too.

Thank you very much for your input. I will move forward following my intuition.

Apr 06, 2011
Is This My Twin Flame?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


The man you describe definitely sounds like your twin flame.

You need to follow your intuition regarding your relationship with this man.

But first, I advise you to do what you need to do to end the relationship with your abusive husband. Once you have terminated that relationship which appears to have lasted a long time, you may need a little breathing space before you jump into another relationship. You may enjoy being alone for awhile.

Every relationship is a learning situation, and you may need some time for yourself - to understand why you have remained within an abusive environment. You also will need to let go of some toxic behavioral patterns in order not to repeat them.

If you need help with this, you can book a session with me at online spiritual counseling.

Sending you healing vibrations,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

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