Is This My Twin Flame?

My story is complicated to say the least.

I first met this man whom I hope is truly my twin flame about 10 years ago. He was going through a divorce and I was married at the time. I was just drawn to him for some unknown reason. I didn't push the relationship/friendship at all at that point. I did have some rather intense, unexplainable to me, feelings for him.

As time has gone on, I see this man at family gatherings and am always drawn to him. Since we have shared many conversations, I can loose track of time when talking to him. Conversations are so easy with him and I feel as if I can talk about anything. I have told him many things that I won't talk about with others and he gets it. I am still married so we don't talk about intimacy with each other regarding our relationship. I am on the brink of getting a divorce, but it has nothing to do with this man. He actually is supportive of me staying married. He is not influencing this decision.

I am currently in a relationship where my spouse is very controlling and somewhat abusive. I find myself wanting to make this man happy, he's a single dad and has done quite well raising his son himself. I have feelings for this man that I have NEVER had for my husband. I find myself thinking of him all the time. I am able to pick up on his emotions and I have asked him to confirm they were accurate. They were.

I am having a personal struggle with my desires for this man since I am still married. I don't want him to be my "escape" from reality of the situation I am currently in. I also don't want any blame being thrown on him. The reasons for me wanting the divorce are self sufficient.

I have not been intimate with this man or anything of that nature. I really have a strong desire to be with/near him and see him happy. Weird isn't it?

I have asked God for lots of help with both of my issues at hand...the divorce and possible twin flame. The thought of being with this man is very appealing to me, but again not the basis for the divorce. I will carry that out whether or not we are actually twin flames.

I had visions when I was about 10 about meeting someone...this man fits that vision. I am scared, excited and I feel many other emotions I didn't even know existed.

Please help me figure out if this man is really my twin. He is spiritual, but I have not brought up the twin flame theory to him. He knows that I can communicate with his deceased father and do. I pass along messages to him.

What do I do? Thank you!