After the (difficult) pregnancy of my wife, I have not had a regular sex life with her, like we had before. It has been 4 years now. (my birth astrology chart has mars in the 8th house, which makes it even more difficult for me)
My pendulum says, I should have a sexual relationship with another woman, if she is "sexually compatible" - and that I - at the same time - should not leave my wife.
My wife (at least to some extent) agrees that I am allowed to do that, but she believes, that our marriage would break up if it should ever happen.
I find it difficult, because of society, too...
Recently my wife agreed, to a partnership therapy too.
Can I trust my pendulum?