My Twin Flame

A few years ago I met my twin flame even though I never knew what a twin flame was, but when we met it was an instant recognition filled with the most calming peaceful feeling. Nothing had ever felt like it.

We began dating and I began having even more spiritual experiences than ever before. I had always been more in tune to these experiences, but I had only once before ever heard a voice in my head.

However, not too long into our relationship, when we said we loved each other a presence came over me. It's hard to explain exactly, but it was like the "me" in my head was not there. Instead there was a presence and it spoke, but it wasn't to me, it was to my partner.

At first, it was a happy presence and it said "finally" then it was very sad and said, "I've missed you, where have you been?"

Then it repeated, "I've missed you," three times and the presence slowly left me, after which I was so overcome with emotion. All I could do was cry and I honestly do not know why or what I was feeling.

Over the years when we were together my partner would have experiences as well such as visions or dreams from a loved one, always with us together, but always with a futuristic 'how things could be' tinge.

My partner is not very in tune with spirituality and is a very afraid individual who is not open to the truth. Our relationship had many obstacles to overcome and in the end our love was not enough to overcome life.

We parted horribly. We do not speak. We have been apart for a year now, and it's still hard to believe. We had parted before, and each time I would receive a sign, either a dream of a passed love one of us together in the future, or a message not to give up.

One particularly poignant time I had been very down, and not knowing how we would ever overcome everything (he was with someone else, an age gap, different life goals) I had gone to compose myself in a public restroom.

When I looked up from the sink, there was a picture that stated "Never, never, never, never, give up". All of this, combined with the intense feeling that I had from day one that no matter what, everything would be ok, is hard to reconcile with how things are now...and how it ended.



Yet a year ago, when we parted again I received a comforting message from a loved one who had passed on who suggested to hold onto hope.

I still have experiences with my ex, vivid dreams, sometimes he is trying to get me back and I am just so angry with him. Other times he is crying and remorseful and says things where I knew how scared he is.

The only time I have run into my ex was not 24 hrs. after I had dreamt the exact scenario the night before.

How can we be so seemingly connected, yet so far apart and tearing each other apart on this plane?

We shared such an intense love that it seemed that something wonderful should come from it, but instead I find myself barely hanging on and he is back to his self destructive tendencies.

It seems we both actually suffered from being together! In many ways I am doing a lot of tough life learning, but what did I do to help him?

As I mentioned at the beginning of this that a few years ago I never knew what a twin flame was. After the break up I began to re-embark on my spiritual journey (looking for answers) and things started to fall into my lap...one was a little book entitled, "The Journey of Little Crow" by Angelina Heart.

It was like reading about my relationship, and it triggered a new journey that has led me to discover the realm of angels, guides, twin flames, and the like that I never knew about before.

So in a sense, meeting my flame has been for the best and it has spurned me to grow as I am now. But, it is difficult to fathom.

I suppose if I could fathom I wouldn't be on this journey, but it is difficult to know how I can move on with my life without my flame?

Am I to adhere to those never give up sentiments, have we missed the boat along the way or, is the way back to my flame away from him?

I know I can't change anyone. I know that in the end we will be together whether it is in this life or another, but it is hard to let go...and even harder to know whether I am supposed to...

Do you have an advice/insight?

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Mar 20, 2014
Twin Flame
by: dorkflame

I've posted here before. It´s been a while so I´ll give an update.

It's been a roller coaster ride with my so called twin flame. I still love him but I've let the idea of having a relationship with him go.

This experience has taught me so much about self-love. My priority is to love myself and take care of myself. I love my twin very much. He´s always in my heart and I wish the very best for him.

Sep 16, 2013
I'm Tired of All These Emotions
by: Tanya

I've never express my feelings on social networks or express to anyone so this is hard for me, but I'm gonna make is short as possible and hope I can get some positive feed back.

I truly believe I've meet my "Twin Flame" back in 1993 or 1994 in college, and oh my God it happened so quickly with the eye contact and the notice. I remember this day like it was yesterday.

I was getting off the elevator with some classmates/friends and there he was to my right with a friend. They both were reading the schedule on the bulletin board and I spotted him wearing black jeans, white t-shit and a black jacket. He was so attractive, the kind of guy I like, but I wasn't rude or anything I just spotted him, and then everyone else had vanished. He quickly spotted me, looking as if he felt my presence. Then our eyes locked, longer then the 3 min. rule stare, I smiled as if I knew right away like "OMG! Where have you been all my life?"

He smiled back as if he knew what I was thinking, it was do perfect. We both were speechless and went on our way. So the next day in college I didn't see him, but I wanted to see him ASAP, but had this great deal of fear if I did see him.

So finally we did meet up again and he could not take his eyes off of me, he would watch my every move. He told his friends "OMG! That's her" and blush.

His attitude, poise, manners everything was a mirror of me and that to me was scary, so when ever he sees me he makes it known that he's watching. But, as all of this is happening, we never got the chance to converse.

So one day a friend of mine who knew about my feelings for him introduced me to him. We shook hands with a first name basis and we locked eyes, and I saw "sparkles" in his eyes as he asked if I would have a seat next to him. I got so freaking scared and ran I could not breathe...and I knew it hurt him to the core cause it effected me the same way.

The next couple of days I could not face him. I was too embarrassed, but when I did face him he looked sad because I messed up a perfect opportunity.

He was just as shy as I was and I never got the nerve to talk or even look at him even though my feelings are still so strong you can cut them with a knife.

It's been years since then and I've been in relationships and have 2 beautiful kids, but their father is now deceased, so I've hit rock bottom and am slowly getting it together. But in the mean time, I can't get "Ray" out of my mind.

Am I crazy or what? Was this my twin flame?

I'm so confused I've even had dreams about him and see his name everywhere. I feel like I've been cursed I just can't shake it!

*Help*




Aug 14, 2013
My Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Foxie,

I understand that you feel frustrated with your twin flame relationship, but this connection is the most important relationship in your life.
Here's why:
- he's your twin, your mirror because you have similar issues,
- you will learn more things about your inner self than you will with anyone else
- you have both agreed to come into this life time together to help one another
- this relationship teaches you about true, unconditional love - a spiritual love that exists between twin flames

This is for everyone who has a twin flame/twin soul in their life.

Once you learn to accept the twin flame relationship and why it exists, you will have an easier time with it.

In the meantime, work on your inner self. Write down all of the things that you would like to see in your twin flame and then work to have those qualities within yourself. When you do this, you will see your relationship improve .

Make sure that you are not carrying any emotional access baggage left over from prior love relationships. You need to purge yourself from all the hurtful and negative behaviors, and release the emotional triggers from painful memories. You must do this before you are ready for unconditional love.

As you do this inner work, you will be developing an open heart with balanced emotions and this is what others will notice about you rather than superficial qualities such as money, possessions, etc.

And you have to practice forgiveness which means as you cleanse the old negative emotions and thought patterns from your heart, your emotional and all other levels of your being. Forgiveness starts with yourself for carrying all the painful memories and extend it towards the ones who hurt you.

You have to cleanse and release all the painful emotions in order to transform your heart into a place of love, You also have to cleanse and monitor your emotional thoughts of negative and destructive thinking. As soon as you have a negative thought towards anyone or thing, delete it immediately.

Just as you delete outdated stuff on your hard drive you need to do that with your mind and cellular memory where there are patterns of behavior that no longer work for you .

Use any technique that works for you. What is important is your intention.

In order to cleanse your mind, you need to be very diligent by observing what you think, then realizing why, and you cannot believe everything you think because you are programmed since a child by your parents or caregivers and your teachers.

You also need to be careful what you watch on television because without realizing it, this is the time you relax and are in an alpha state where you can be programmed.

You need to keep doing this work until you no longer feel any pain when the memory comes up.
To learn more about my releasing technique, read releasing anger.
Sending healing vibrations,

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya

Jul 14, 2013
My Twin Flame Connection
by: Foxie

I sometimes feel like this connection is one-sided and that I am just in some sort of disbelief that the relationship is over.

We broke up a year ago but, he comes close to me, runs for days and weeks, and then comes back and runs again. I hate this cycle so much.

We started becoming intimate a few months ago, and I wondered if that made things worse. Yet, he still does the same running behavior if I sleep with him or just meet up.

I love this man and have tried my best to move on, yet I cannot. The connection prevents me from trying to connect with other men. No one measures up, my heart just longs for him.

He says he can't be in a relationship right now and he has given me all the same reasons as to why we can't be together as the day we broke up. Nothing has changed, those reasons still exist.

I feel I am in a better place today. I love myself, I have goals for a career and I know I am ready now, but he is not.

He essentially befriended me again the other night when I let everything out and told him I still love him, and knew when I met him that we would be together.

I pray everyday for God to remove him from my life if he isn't meant to be, and yet he is still here. I pray this isn't one-sided.

I do not make the contact first. I leave all first contacts to him. Sometimes he ignores a text message and I just leave him and then he returns days later.

I hate this connection, yet sometimes it is the most intense thing I have ever felt.

Jul 13, 2013
Love andTtwin Flames
by: Karma

Hello.

I can relate with a lot of what you all are describing. I am with my twin flame, finally at last.

I have made self love and healing a priority for a long time, and I would like to re-state that this is so important. I might have been terrified of this kind intense energy had we met 10 years ago. I am blessed that we can enjoy each other energetically and live blissfully. We do have our moments(!) but we keep personal time a high priority.

I am very fortunate that he is 19 years older, wise and evolved. We can look at each other across the room and know what the other is thinking. We don't even need to say anything.

I believe in all of you. Tune your energy to be beautiful and kind and bright. It's not hard. Take care of yourself, love yourself and let the universe work it's magic. xx

Jun 10, 2013
Meeting My Twin Flame
by: kdiva

Yes, when we first look into each others eyes it was so powerful and intense and I just could not get him off my mind. In addition I started having dreams about twins and I want to learn more about what my dreams meant to me.

My twin flames is 23 yrs younger than I. When he looked at me I felt it was in an unconditional way.

He is a runner and now I am going through this separation issue, I believe he senses I am not ready. Besides, I am in a relationship that I have to deal with in regards to karma.

I love this man so much that I have a journal in which I write to him. Before I was aware about the subject of twin flame love, a lot of things I wrote pretty much match this subject.

Jun 04, 2013
Eternal Flames?
by: Jamey

I saw my twin flame again two weeks ago (he's always entered and re-entered my life in May).

It had been two years since the last time I saw his face in person. He came to my front door asking for my boyfriend. I could see emotion (anger, I think) in his eyes and my own surface was hard and cold. I didn't invite him in. I closed the door and felt better than I had in weeks (somehow rejuvenated). I literally turned music on and danced.

Unfortunately, I have hurt my twin soul and he too has hurt me. Yet, I have never loved or admired anyone more. Indeed I am grateful to have met him (even after bitterly long nights of grief). I had come to terms with the idea that situations may never be right for us.

Then last night, during a meditation session, I heard a voice louder than my quieted thoughts.

"Matrimony and a son," it stated. I instantly felt "him". His essence, which has always felt in some way like myself. I saw a vision of him (yet not him) in a green suit. I was filled with joy. Now I'm just confused.

Any thoughts or advise?

May 17, 2013
Dorkflame continued
by: Anonymous

Although I really want to unite with him, I still accept his path in life. We all have our own path, and he has the right to be left alone to do his work.

Maybe the problems that I think he has are my own projections. Maybe he´s just a guy who is living his life. I have no right to interfere and ask for anything. I can only look within and try to be the best I can. Try to regain my passion for life and to heal my emotional wounds.

He is a miracle, a reminder from God that I am never alone, and I am safe and loved. I thought I had no capacity to love anymore because of the painful experiences I had with men, but it´s not true. I always have love to give.

All is well. Thanks for letting me share, and good luck with your twin flame process.

Much love.

May 17, 2013
dorkflame
by: Anonymous

I met my twin flame two years ago. We work together and see each other every day.

I remember when I first saw him I stopped, like I was in a trance. But then I just continued like normal. Then we started talking and when I looked into his eyes I freaked, because I saw myself, all of my family, my life, my essence. It was scary. But I just kept my cool. He kept his cool too, but I could see in his eyes that he was terrified too.

Shortly after that we started avoiding each other and running away from each other like our lives were in danger. We were so afraid of each other. But of course, being forced to meet every day, we fell in love. We still never talk, because of the fear, and I suspect we never will.

But I know that I love him forever and that he loves me the same. I think my twin flame is highly sensitive and has abandonment issues. He has pushed me away every time I tried to get close to him, and I have done the same. I don´t know him, because we almost never had a real conversation, but I know his essence. He has some kind of emotional problem.

We can´t be together right now. I´m just worried about the fact that maybe we´ll have to be reborn in order to ascend together in the next life time. I was really hoping that this will be my last life-time as I´m tired of living. I´m only 29 years old, but I have been through so much, and my only wish is to unite with the person I need to in order to go to God forever.

Apr 07, 2013
My Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hi Cherries,

If this is indeed your twin flame, the road is not easy until you both have done the work within that you are here to do.

You can learn much about yourself through your twin flame - you are both here to help one another. Perhaps you will be together in this life or maybe not, it depends on both of you.

It you are fighting, you are both not ready to be together. Twin flames are here to help not only each other but humanity as well, and you cannot do that if you are always in conflict with one another. You both need to be on the same page, so to speak, otherwise yes, your life will be unbearable together. On the other hand, when you are both ready, it will be a relationship like no other on earth.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya

Apr 04, 2013
Twin Flames and Pain
by: cherries1974

Hi
My twin flame is 18 years younger than me and he lives at the end of my road, and I was a good friend of his mum's.

We met after not seeing each other for some years and as soon as we saw each other, we both felt the biggest attraction and had a four year relationship. But our emotions and possessiveness drove us to argue and fight a lot.

I don't understand how much two people can love each other yet hurt each other so much. We kept breaking up and found it too unbearable to be apart, but carried on hurting each other.

He's the only person with whom I felt I had a spiritual connection. Even our sex life was the most intense, just like our arguments and fights, but I couldn't bear the fact that we just kept destroying each others dreams and hopes.

I'm devastated because no one will ever compare to him. He read my mind and finished my sentences, but I can't understand why we can't make it work no matter what we did.

Please can someone reassure me as I feel so down and confused. xxxx

Apr 01, 2013
My Opinion - Got My Soul Mate Now Sod The Twin Flame!
by: Anonymous

I thought I had met mine, but we split and I am finally with my soul mate and think looking back my ex was a really bad experience overall soul mates are much better and who fits with us the best.

I am now engaged to a guy I wish I had met years ago, but know that everything I looked for in someone is now finally him yay!

We are trying for a baby and have two adorable Shih Tzu dogs as well as my own older kids, so we are on big happy family!

Mar 31, 2013
I Believe In Twin Flames...
by: TJ

I believe in Twin Flames because I met mine. But we no longer communicate.

I've learned that Twin Flames and romantic relationships are not always meant to be. They can be too unstable. And by the sounds of the comments on this article, there's a lot of heartbroken sufferers who have been struggling with this for decades. Twin flames cheating, leaving, coming back...I say, STOP DOING THIS TO YOURSELF!

Let them go.

You can have peace knowing you met a twin flame and knowing that doesn't mean a romantic relationship is required. And that is okay.

One year later, I am no longer heartbroken and am dating someone else. Couldn't be more at peace. My twin flame was a great mirror whose reflection is still teaching. And that's enough for me.

You can trust God/the energy of the universe (I do), but you also need to take responsibility for your life and for your choices. It's going to be okay even without your twin flame in your life.

Oct 04, 2012
Still Love Him
by: blondie

Never heard of anything like that before. I started my new job and this guy came straight to me. To be honest, he was everything I hate, but he asked me out for a drink. I said to myself, "never again", but I gave him a chance, and we end up seeing each other every night.

He took me out for Valentines day (my first) and I wanted more, because I knew that it was him - the one I always loved from the past, and will continue to love in the present, and future.

We both had feelings for each other. People said that we are so similar. We love the same things, but in different ways. But, he decided not to go any further...so I left. But I miss him every day every night, and dream of him so much.

I tried to move on, but signs of fate are everywhere...the memories, the good times. It's more than 4 months and we haven't spoken or seen each other.

It's a long story. He is 19 and I am 31 ...as i said he was is in every way an opposite match with me...he is straight and I am gay...and now love is gone and he is the one who's living and I am dead...sad...I just want to tell him how much I love him and miss him....

Oct 04, 2012
Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

Wow, I totally feel all of your pain. I am in the same situation, still in love with my twin flame from 16 years ago.

When I first saw him walk into the bar where I was the bartender 16 years ago, my heart stopped when I saw him and I just knew he was the one for me. I even told my co-workers, "That guy is going to be mine."

I just knew in my heart and soul we would be together. It was love at first sight, apparently for him too. We started talking that night and from then on were inseparable for the next year. He would tell me every day that I was the love of his life and that I made him so happy. We were going to get married.

Then all of a sudden right before our 1 yr anniversary, he decided to leave me for some girl he worked with. He would not face me or give me any reasons he just left and moved in with her. I was completely heart-broken and devastated.

I cried every day for over a year until one day over a year later on my birthday, he called me out of the blue and started pouring his heart out to me telling me how sorry he was for hurting me and begged me for another chance. I decided to give him another chance, but it just wasn't the same and within 6 months he left me again leaving me heartbroken all over again.

This time I was strong and told myself he's not worth it, so I pulled myself together and like a year later I hooked up with my now husband. In my heart I was still in love with my ex, but I knew that I needed to move on and my new boyfriend was so sweet and treated me like a queen and I knew he was the one I needed to be with.

Well fast forward about 12 years. I was on the verge of divorcing my husband due to his cheating and I found out that my ex was now divorced from his 10 year marriage. So I decided to send him a message on Face Book to see how he was doing. We started texting and ended up meeting up and it was as if 12 years never went by.

Sparks flew and it was just like when we first met. He acted like he couldn't get enough of me. I thought finally we will be together again although I had my reservations, since I did not want my heart broken all over again. He insisted that he would be there and heavily pursued me for 8 months.

The sex was off the charts. No one else has ever made me fell the way he did. Then one day he dropped a bomb on me by texting me that he couldn't see me anymore as he was seeing someone else!

I just died inside and here I am 4 months later again totally devastated and heartbroken. I have cried every single day and feel like I will never be happy again. I am 44 years old and I know I will never feel that way about anyone else again.

Sep 17, 2012
I Don't Know How To Move On.
by: Anonymous

I really feel like my ex is my twin flame.

Just today, I actually, discovered what a twin flame is. While reading about it, I knew it was him.

I remember the first night we met he asked me to marry him. Then, at one point, he told me, "I love your eyes so much. They are like looking into mine." I feel like he knew something too, though he wasn't really sure of exactly what it was.

After 3 long years I still think about him every single day. He broke up with me saying I was "too emotional." I would ask him every night to not leave me, and he promised every single night that he never would.

It's also amazing how we met. I was working at a video store and his friend worked at the same chain, as well. My boss asked me to go to the sister store, where my twin flame's friend worked, to cover a shift and I agreed. He was on his way home from an out of town job and just decided to stop by to see his friend.

I knew whenever I heard the truck rumbling that whoever was in that truck was "the one." I haven't seen or heard from him in over 3 years and I still have great love for him.

I've been in other serious relationships and I've ever since had a child, but I miss him so bad it hurts. I wonder if he misses me too.

Aug 11, 2012
On And Off For 26 Years!
by: Michelle

I was 19 when he pulled up across the street from where I was living. I was talking to a friend on the phone and she said that I said, "He's the one".

She told me that I kept saying it over and over again. I had no idea who he was, but I was sure going to find out.

I was 19 and he was 29 and we did start seeing each other and became intimate. His friends all told me that he was dating another girl, but I knew that we were meant to be together so I kept seeing him.

One day, many years later I called his job and they told me that he took his wife to dinner. He never told me that he got married, but was still seeing me. I said, "His what"! and they asked who I was and I said, "Obviously, his mistress"!

I didn't speak to him for quite some time and he called to meet me to explain - he stood me up.

She eventually threw him out and he came back to me. She found out that he was seeing me and wanted him back and planed on getting pregnant, which she did. She had complications and had to have a hysterectomy and things were never the same between them after the baby was born.

I moved on, got engaged and had a baby of my own, but he continued to pursue me and call me. One day while cleaning I felt something on my neck, sort of like a kiss which caused me to sit down. A minute later my phone rang and it was him and he said, "Did you feel it"? I was speechless.

When my relationship broke up I started seeing him again, knowing that he was married. He told me that she knew about me and didn't care. He's good at telling me whatever I need to hear to keep me at his side. When we are together it's like magic and the sex is electric!

Now that his daughter has graduated college, he tells me that they are finally getting a divorce. He bought me a ring and has referred to me as his girlfriend, BUT something in the back of my mind is telling me not to trust him. I get the feeling that he doesn't want to be divorced because she comes from a lot of money. I think he likes his lifestyle with her but wants the sex with me.

I am so tired and done with this but at the same time I have no interest in anyone else and every relationship that I have tried to have has failed because they don't compare to him. I've moved to Utah to get away from him (he's in California), but he still wants to fly out here to see me. I have a hard time saying no to him. He gets close to me and I become weak and just melt into him.

What the heck do I do!!! I don't want to be 60 years old (I'm 45 by the way) and still sitting in my house alone on a Saturday night.

Apr 08, 2012
My Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Sevenforest,

I just want to shed some light on your comment regarding twin flames or any soul mate relationship.

One can't possibly have any conscious memory of past life relationships. The mind is merely a tool for dealing with every day life, it does not encompass who one is. It is necessary to look into your soul to find out about one's self. Anything on the soul level is timeless, and what happened then is now. This may be difficult to grasp, but I do not have the words for describing timelessness.

All past life memories exist in the cellular memory. But one thing for sure is that one will know intuitively when you have met your twin soul - he or she is the other half of yourself.

Meeting your twin is an exciting experience that leads to self discovery.

With light and love,

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor



Apr 02, 2012
Time Is Fuzzy With Twin Souls.
by: sevenforest

It feels that being together with him opened up memories from past lives. Memories from past lives must appear in dreams or experiences that you feel, but are not you. This is because experiences from past lives are probably not stored in your brain in the same place as memories from this life. That is why it appears like voices,(I don't know were they are stored) or strong sensations that are familiar, but at the same time it feels like someone else.

The reason why it comes up is in my opinion because time is not acting in a normal way when twin souls meet or are together. There is this timelessness...

It feels that the both of you have many unresolved issues from past lives and in this liFe.

The most difficult thing to grasp when meeting a twin is to start resolving your part in it. It is the best you can do for now and for all times when you were and will be together.


Dec 22, 2011
MY TWIN
by: Anonymous

You are lucky. I spent 6 yrs with my teacher about 20yr older than me in the same campus without knowing anything.

We had some days together where I found how much harder it was to relate. Now after leaving the place, I read about twins (souls). I even remember being embarassed when I saw a golden umbilical cord between us when I stood to face him opposite in classroom and I criticised myself "didn't go this far".

I am shattered, but I will go on.

Nov 22, 2011
Listen To Your Heart
by: Helen

You've described eerily similar circumstances to what I've gone through myself with my twin flame (t/f).

He called me a month ago - I thought I'd never hear from him again, and was doing my best to move on and let go because it ended so horribly. It was scary, intense, beautiful, too much too soon. So when he called me, we were like 2 teenage schoolkids on the phone. I swear, he could've heard my heart beating on the other end of the phone it was racing so fast - no one has ever made me feel like this. We were both so nervous & shy - he called to say no hard feelings which I know was hard for him. It really meant a lot to me.

We haven't seen each other, but I know we will when we're both ready. T/f's are perfect mirrors of each other so anything that's "lower self" is acutely amplified by your t/f. It's very confronting! Don't be sad that you're apart, everything happens for a reason & have faith that you will reunite eventually.

Twin Flames are 2 sides of the same coin - everything you feel, he will also be feeling and there's no way known he could ever forget you.

Trust God, trust your twin, trust your heart, trust your own soul.
Never stop believing in love.

Sep 30, 2011
My Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

I too met my twin flame (t/f) over 20 years ago and we had an instant attraction, but we were both married. The attration was so strong that we had an affair. After a while I left my husband and ran away and never said goodbye to my t/f, though I knew he would be able to find me one day if he wanted to and always hoped he would.

Suddenly out of the blue 15 years later, I got that call. I couldn't believe my ears. It was like a bolt of lightening and a wake-up call as I was in another marriage which was a disaster. I knew I had to meet my t/f. Once we met met it was just like time had stood still. His marriage had just broken up (30 years) and I knew that things would still be raw for him which they were.

After 3 months or so he became very, very distant and went into his cave. We fell out and never spoke for months and months and I pined for him day and night.

Im divorced again though this time with a daughter. I'm a lot happier in myself. My t/f is still in constant contact and we see one another and text a lot. He's been damaged by the ex-wife and went through a very bad time.

We still have that very strong connection, but whether we will actually get it together - God only knows. There will never be anyone else for me. I'd rather live alone than with someone who wasn't my t/f.

Jul 11, 2011
I Feel You...
by: Mystical

For us to feel emotion and be able to have understanding and control over it...If we never felt yearning or sadness, we would never know that we had met our twin flame.

My heart and love goes out to all twins in these circumstances, be strong, even if you have to be strong for the both of you until your twin is ready to join you.

With love and light...mysticalfaery xox

Jun 24, 2011
My Twin Flame
by: Tany Tkach, Webmaster

Hello,

No, you are not looney.

This is a soul mate with whom you have come together during this life time to complete your karma. You left him a past life time just as he has left you in this life time.

There is a difference between soul mates and twin flames. Read my pages on definition of soul mates and karmic soul mates.

Forgive him for leaving, forgive yourself for leaving him in a past life time and release him. You have completed what you came here to do with him.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Jun 22, 2011
My Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

I will try to keep this short.

Eighteen years ago, I was with a friend and we were walking on campus. I saw this guy. I stopped dead in my tracks and said, "Oh my gosh, who is that guy?"

My friend told me his name. My response was, "That is who i am going to spend the rest of my life with!"

My friend called the guy over and the 3 of us decided to go hang out the rest of the afternoon. After that, this guy would come over to my house and hang out. We never 'dated' but were very close friends - friends with benefits.

I wanted a relationship with him, but was afraid he wouldn't so I never pursued that. After about 6-8 months, we were put into a situation that I had to let him go. I knew he didn't want a relationship and I did. So I prayed and asked for strength to let him go. I felt if he loved me, truly loved me, he would be back one day.

I remember saying the words aloud to myself. I remember saying, "It could be 20 years from now, but I know he will be back."

Well, flash forward 15 years...one day, I received an email. I didn't recognize the address, but something told me I needed to read it right away. When I opened it up, I saw who it was from. It was from that guy - from 15 years ago!

I was so excited! I immediately knew he loved me and we were going to be together forever. In his email, he said he was so excited to find me. He had always thought about me and missed me. He said that I was the most influential person in his life. We spoke for about a week via email, and then we both said that we loved each other, we always had and that we think we are soul mates.

I moved to the town he lived in. In going through my boxes, I found my baby box. On the outside of it, was his name. I called my mom to find out why that name was on my baby box. She said if I was a boy, that is what my name would have been. Also, inside of the box, was the local newspaper. On the front page, was a picture of trees and a local landmark. The property in the picture belongs to this guy's family. We were both blown away by this and just reconfirmed the fact that we were meant for each other - we both felt this.

Now, 2 years later, he has left. I am devastated. I feel like I have lost my other half. I feel like we are meant to be. I am severely depressed. When I get really down, something inside me says not too, that our relationship isn't over, that he will be back, oneday.

I know I have to move on and become a better person through all this, but in my heart and head I keep feeling this isn't the end with him. I feel like we were meant to be together. I feel like we were made for each other.

It has been a little over 18 years ago that I first saw him. From that moment on, I have felt like he was my soul mate - my twin flame. It was instant and that feeling has never left.

Am I looney, or are my feelings accurate?

Apr 14, 2011
Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

Hi,

I have also split from my twin flame who I only knew for three months, but the sense of peace I would feel when next to him was what amazed me when we first met. We had so much in common and had such a strong connection on many levels.

He has got bi-polar disorder which caused him to say he couldn't handle being in a relationship in the end, but still wants us to remain friends seeing as we did get on so well.

This ending has started me on another spiritul journey, and I have given up drinking, and meditate a lot more, and now go to a spiritual church.

I miss him so much, but I know we have to have time apart to each grow, and I hope that one day we are able to make a go of it.

Feb 19, 2011
My Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello,

Yes, it is definitely a twin flame experience that you have described. It is a very rewarding yet daunting relationship.

In order for twin flames to be together and stay together, they need to have completed their personal work (life lessons) that they have come to do in this life time. Once they are completed, you will be together, but not before. That is the reason why you are not together.

This is the time for you to concentrate on yourself and do what you need to do. Meditate, go within and find out what you are here to learn. Learn how to dowse and to use a pendulum so you can ask questions. Check out my pages on dowsing for beginners and using a pendulum.

I suspect that the voices you heard where from yourself in a former life time.

I have gone through similar experiences with my twin flame where in certain situations, I reverted back into a former life time where my behavior towards him was different from today. It definitely was a mind-blowing experience. At that time, I felt as if I was losing my mind.

Fortunately, I have my guides to help me through that relationship plus experiences that are difficult to fathom.

You are exactly where you need to be at this time. Renew your spiritual relationship with God and have faith. If you are meant to be together in this life time, you will be.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor


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