Pendulum and Soulmate
1 - My pendulum often gives me wrong answers. sometimes they are correct, but they're often wrong, so its a like a 50/50.
Also the direction can change in the middle of using it, so "yes" goes from clockwise to anti-clockwise and I'm not sure why.
I ask that I run the correct polarities for my body, but this still happens. Would appreciate your opinion on this.
2 - Not sure if you can answer a question on a possible soulmate or twin flame, not sure which. He and I have so many obstacles between us, and he seems to be emotionally unavailable. He was pushing for us to get together, (we're in different countries) but now he's pulling back.
I love him dearly and have accepted him back after one bad incident where we didnt speak for months. Now he is backing off again. We are so compatible on so many different levels, though we have lots of massive differences (country, religion, etc). This doesn't matter to me, but his behaviour does, even though I understand his history.
I would love to get married and start a family, and he said he did too, but now I'm not so sure what he wants anymore, and I worry about his faithfulness once we are together. It's really strenuous for me, as I'm just starting to recover from a bad depressive phase.
I would like to trust my pendulum when I ask these questions, but as I said, it's wrong so often, I'm not sure I trust my intuition anymore.