So Upset

by Anonymous
(US)

Hello All.


I too met my twin flame 7 years ago. We were both married and we connected immediately. He became very dependent on me. I helped him in anyway I could.

When we would meet, it was amazing and very hard to say goodbye.

I was very true to him but he did run many times.

He asked me to leave my family but I just couldn't do it. I am more traditional and didn't want to hurt my family as much as my dream was to be with him night and day.

Three years ago he left his wife, he told me to leave him alone. He found a new life, dating, freedom, women. I didn't understand how someone who was so close could change so much. What happened to the person who begged me never to leave him, what happened to me being his "Life Forever?"

I know he's been seeing other women, he is a singer and has women after him all the time.

Last year he stopped communication for 5 months without warning or explanation.

He finally emailed me asking me if I was going to a mutual friend's birthday. We started talking again.

I saw him a few times in his little studio. Things were not the same. We continued to fight a lot. He would tell me he's with his male friends but I know he was with other women.

Throughout all this he emailed me EVERYDAY with a simple "good morning" without fail.

We get close but then he runs. We have the 11:11 connection, our emails arrive in the inbox at 11:11 unintentionally.

I called him last week, he texted back saying "he can't talk now"... knew he was with another. It hurt me so bad that he didn't put me first and go to another area to talk for a minute.

Four days ago he posted on his Facebook photos of him in Vegas. He looked happy and obviously he wasn't alone.

This killed me and I blocked him off Facebook. He texted me yesterday with a simple "happy thanksgiving" from Vegas.

I am so confused and upset - I can't breathe. I am unhappy at home and my family can feel it. My husband is confused as to why I am upset and depressed sometimes but happy other times. My Twin Flame effects my mood.

I think about him EVERY SINGLE MINUTE...I can't go on like this.
I have so much to be appreciative about... gorgeous lifestyle but inside an empty shell without him.

Please help me... I've lost focus.

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Nov 29, 2016
So Upset About Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Well said Shay.

You would do well at marriage counseling.

Sending light and love,
Tanya

Nov 27, 2016
So Upset About Twin Flame
by: Shay

I like to first say that my response is going to be totally out of compassion and care, so don't take it wrongly please.

"The person whom you think is your twin flame is not the person whom you would want to surround your soul with, for if truly a person was that close to you, they would not act or speak in such ways of breaking a heart."

I feel that there is unhappiness within you or within your current marriage, and for this reason it is easy to look outside to find things/people whom you interpret as making you happy or that your soul is close to. Don't run away from the challenges of the current relationship and family you are in, relationships have their ups and downs, but if we stay on top of them things work themselves out. Your husband and children love you, for this reason they have stood with you in past and present.

I encourage for you to get to know yourself, see what your needs are and what you and husband can work on in order for those needs to be met in your marriage. The other side of the fence may seem green, but it is not as green as it presents itself to be. Don't waste something that is good for you in chase of something you really don't know, or assume.

Remind yourself of all the things you loved about your husband and why your soul agreed to marry him, you see sometimes the universe delivers what we need rather than what we want for greater reasons. It is now time for you to focus on you, time to grow as a person, as a woman and with better self confidence you will not be strayed easily by a person who is only out for their own good, with no respect for you as a woman.

It may help to get some counseling with an older Therapist who can be of guidance for you, in order to once again realize who you are otherwise you will be looking at other people to tell you who you are.

You have confused yourself but you can work on the confusion you created in your heart, mind and soul. I have faith in you and know that you will think better for yourself in order to work on your priorities.

I have experienced exactly samething in the past and I write this out of heart for you. I had to remind myself of honoring the choices and contracts I have made, while loving myself also. You can too.

Nov 25, 2016
So Upset About Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

Meeting your twin flame, is your wake-up call. Now it's time to do your inner work - your spiritual cleansing.

It's time to stop focusing on him and to start working on yourself and your marriage. You are exactly where you need to be at this time.

I know it looks greener on the other side, but it's not. You both have work to do, and without doing that work, you will never be together - it would not last.

You need to start meditating and to find answers within yourself for the issues you are going through.

Thinking about him and wishing to be with him is running from yourself and avoiding the inner work you need to do.

Read all the other comments regarding twin flame relationships. You will find that it is about learning to love unconditionally, especially yourself.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya

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