Talking To Loved Ones Through My Pendulum
I'm really confused with the use of my pendulum.
I lost three relatives in a short time. When the last one passed away I witnessed someone use a pendulum to ask her questions. The night before her funeral, one of the other passed relatives was in my dream holding my hands really tight and looking into my eyes. I told the lady who used the pendulum about it and she said this person was around me very strong and was there looking out for me in a tough time.
I decided to try to use a pendulum and it would only work to talk to the relative who was in my dream. I was convinced I was talking to her.
Then strange things started happening such as objects around the house being moved (I live on my own). Each time this happened I used my pendulum and it said I was talking to a loved one who had passed - it was like they all gave me a sign so I would talk to them and they could each let me know they were there. And I could feel them, it was like they all gave me a different feeling and I could ask them questions without using the pendulum and feeling them.
I did start noticing around that time that I couldn't talk to the first relative as well with the pendulum, it was like it wasn't as strong, but I thought maybe its because the others wanted to talk.
They told me about a certain situation involving future love and had the same answers. When that time came it didn't happen the way I was told and it got me thinking. Was I actually talking to my subconcious and not my relatives?
Was my mind getting in the way and telling me what I wanted to hear? Did it just want me to think I was talking to them to get through a tough time? Was it really them in the begining to help me and now they've moved on and its my subconcious I'm talking to now?
I still can't explain the moved objects but how do I know if I was really talking to them?
I have tried using it again but it doesn't seem to work and I don't know if now its my mind getting in the way because now I have huge doubts.
I hope you can point me in the right direction :) Thanks.