Twin Flame Hidden Meaning

by Sweetsoul

I met this man and felt like I knew him already. I felt this “energy” in me and it was something I have never felt before. It was an experience I have always kept to myself.

Five years pass and I saw him again. I immediately felt the same “energy” I felt previously. This “energy” has always made me question if there is a hidden meaning I am not understanding.

A few months ago I went to an angel card reader to find out what my career had in store for me. The last thing on my mind was my love life.

The angel card reader immediately told me that I met my “twin flame” and told me he was unhappily married. She told me it was a “business marriage”, and he still thinks about me. She said that he has to get the courage to move on with his life.

I never mentioned anything about my “energy” experience with that man, so I was surprised that she could accurately describe his personality. I left a bit taken aback by the experience, but I took it with a grain of salt and carried on with my life.

Since that angel card reading I have seen “signs” that are making me wonder what is going on. I opened the newspaper and saw an article about a friend of that “energy” man, and underneath it read in capital letters, “Never Give Up”. Again I didn’t want to interpret too much into this article.

A few weeks later on the front page of the newspaper that same article appeared again. I felt sick to my stomach. I thought what is going on? Then further on in the newspaper an advertisement read, “Don’t Give Up.”

My question is, I thought if your twin soul is paired up with someone else then there is no chance of pairing up with your twin flame in this life time. What are the “messages” being sent to me?

Thank you for your advice.

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Mar 31, 2017
Life - Kindred Spirits
by: Anonymous

Please find me, I miss you, where did you go?

I wish I didn't leave and now you left too. It's crazy how I saw you at just 15.

I remember you walked into that damn science class wearing a blue sports shirt, I think and I watched the wind outside and saw you looking at me, really seeing me like you knew who I was.

Later I forgot about that then I remembered trying to piece together what was going on. It's so crazy you're a stranger, but you're not.

i felt that ______ crazy shit and couldn't explain that to anyone. I love you Paddy, I love a stranger. We couldn't be friends with the circumstances, but i still miss you everyday even if all we did was stare at each other.

I love you, I knew I did when I was 15. I don't know where you are now, but I hope its not too bad for you.

I love you.

Oct 10, 2016
I Didnt Feel The Spark? HELP!
by: Elena

I met my twin 2 months after he moved very far away. Turns out he lived 5 mins away from me at one point, and I have never seen him before, up until I met him on April 2013. I had a deja vu that day. We have only been together in person two times.

The second time around, we kissed and I had a lot of fun even though I was really nervous.

The thing is that I never thought of having a relationship. I thought relationships weren't for me as they were great lived inside my mind, but on the other hand, I always thought, in person, I wouldn't be able to be as romantic as in my mind.
I didn't feel much when we kissed, it was just a kiss. We were just children. I wanted to forget everything, and I was even "happy" he would move away since I thought I had made a mistake on giving away my first kiss when it wasn't even close to being as romantic as I always pictured it being in my mind. Hurts my soul to even say this now. Now, of course I love the memory.

Then he moved away. We didn't talk for almost a year. I felt guided not to give up on him, and I didn't. Still to this day, I don't know what moved me.

The summer he went away I can almost guarantee that I cried every day. I have never felt such pain up until then. This burning love took over me right after he moved away, and I felt like something inside of me was taken away. I tried to contact him a lot of times till one day he responded.

We started talking, and I knew if he got to know me, the real me, he would love me. I was right. The summer of 2014 was the best and the worst of my life. We dated for a month, and he couldn't do it anymore. We broke up.

Up until some months ago, the runner chaser phase has been going on. I am such a better person now.
I learned a lot about myself and he triggered a lot in me. I cleared a lot of energy. He changed too, he changed so much, for the better of course. He even says that L turned him into a man.

Nowadays, 3 years later, we still talk. Just recently, I was looking at his picture and as I was alone at home I heard a voice saying, "Its him".

Ive been through a lot of signs and had synchronous things happen, and read a lot about twin flames related to all of that.

I am just confused because I didnt feel that spark when we met, even though I know inside he is my twin flame.

Any advice?

Aug 27, 2016

by: Tanya

Hi Kimmy,

Yes, I do believe that he is your twin flame. but, as you know even though twin flames are meeting at this time, it does not mean you will be together. Each twin needs to complete his/her life lessons before coming together as a twosome. You both need to be clear in order to do the work you have both agreed to do as a couple.

The best thing to do now, is to work on yourself and learn through him things about yourself.

Sending light and love,

Aug 19, 2016
I Felt Comfortable
by: Kimmy123261

I have always had a deep interest in astrology, numerology and have currently been reading about opening the chakras, spirituality and most importantly have started having bible studies and learning about God and loving the Lord for all that he has done and continues to do, i.e. washing away our sins.

I split with my previous partner about 1 year ago after 8 years of a turbulent, up and down relationship. I have 1 daughter from a relationship prior to my my previous relationship I knew from the start that he was not right for me, but I went into it anyway, hoping that over time gongs would calm down and we would learn to love each other the way a loving relationship should be. Things calmed down, but we grew apart and I left him.

I'm currently living with my parents, saving to buy a house for me and my daughter.

This year and the next, I pledged to myself, would be healing years where I just work on myself, connect more with myself, achieve some of the goals I want to achieve and buy my house.

I began working on myself from a spiritual point of view and started to love myself for once in my life.

I am very happy with who I am now especially since I left my last relationship, my daughter is happy also. I feel like I am healing myself every step I take and I'm not afraid to walk the road alone i.e. I don't want or need a partner to make me feel whole. I feel whole right now.

Basically, in April this year I started a new job for a company that I saw encompassed creativity and big business. I met a man there who I think may be my twin flame...from the moment he saw me he was staring at me and I looked at him with this feeling of "do I know him" "he looks familiar". Anyway, some time passed when we saw each around the office, but didn't really speak at all, which I thought was strange as he speaks to other women in the office.

He started to try and get my attention by standing behind my chair in daily stand up meetings, he sat next to me, and I've heard he had my pen in his mouth, etc..some comments were made which made me take notice. So we weren't particularly on the best terms, but it wasn't said to hurt it was to stop someone from playing something inappropriate at work.

Anyway, a few weeks ago (it was his 20th anniversary at the company) we had a big party for him, he brought in sweets and cake, which I love...then we were in a big full office meeting and he came and sat nexr to me. I could feel his energy it was like everything went quiet and we were communicating on another level.

I said in my head "It's you" "but you can't touch" as he is married..he heard what I said.

I think others sensed that at that moment he liked me. It was all a bit different from anything I have ever experienced.

But to sum up:

On two occasions we have communicated via telepathy and I have come to believe he is also psychic and can read people's he has secretly let me know that he knows what I've been thinking.

I instinctively know what he is doing, where he is going (on occasion) and strange things like that, I have fallen in love with him too, but as I've said he is married and his wife is sick. She is possibly his life partner, but anyway, me and him are definitely connected.

I spilt my drink in the exact place where he was standing. He operates in a similar manner as I have in a number of jobs.

I've had conversations about him and then I see it happen before my eyes, a few days later. He has also started getting healthy and fit, as I pride myself on this.

I am 35 he is I would say about 50..he seems to know when I'm coming, etc.

He does love his wife, but as a friend I think not as an everything. I just know things about him and we've barely had any conversations. I suspect he knows things about me, too.

Do you think this is my twin flame, as I do..

Jun 15, 2016
Reply to Sweet Soul
by: Anonymous

Sweet Soul,

I am not an expert, but I think my experience can help. My twin flame is with someone else currently. Just because he is in a relationship doesn't mean he won't end up with you.

Twin Flames are meant to be together. It is very rare to share this 3D experience with a twin flame in the same lifetime. Twin Flames have a soul mission to accomplish together as a couple. He may have some Karmic lessons to learn before being with you. Hence, he is unhappily married. He needs to learn to leave situations that no longer serve his highest good.

With Divine timing twin flames WILL be together when both individuals are ready. It is all about learning unconditional love. That's why twin flame relationships are challenging in the beginning. Twin Flames are here to serve humanity; to elevate global consciousness.

Jun 14, 2016
Second Meeting with Twin Flame
by: Alice

Hello Tanya,

I wrote here before when I met my twin flame the first time.

We saw each other on the street, he realized who I was, but it took such a short time like 15 min. because of his friends and then he went back his country...

After he left, I felt so empty, angry, lost and I had so much pain even though we didn't have any romantic memories. After 1 month, spiritual awakening started, angels gave me signs with numbers like 1111 and so on and I felt energy on my crown chakra. 

I worked a lot but I couldn't focus and I quit. I was so angry, but I was loving him so deeply. I felt his anger and love at the same time. I was angry because he made me lonely. He should have written me because he had my number.

Then I heard that he couldn't sleep at nights because of emptiness and regret. However, he didn't write anything to me directly, just send me some signs indirectly.

For a while, I started to feel nothing like I didn't have a soul and I was so negative in spite of meditations.

I tried to connect on social media, he refused, but he gave me some clues that he read me. And I went to his country for a language course and also I was hoping to see him on the street or some cafe like before. Because we are located nearby. But our ways were blocked.

Some days I was crying, I was feeling that pain. However, after so many negative feelings, I suddenly let him go. Because I was tired and I didn't know which one of us was actually running. I was so afraid to hurt him.

I knew his company, but I changed my way not to see him accidently. But yesterday, I waited for him and finally I saw him. He was with many people as usual, but he saw me and he said hello. We were looking into each other's face so closely that I felt similar feelings and I was hypnotized again like the first time. I didn't wanna show other people what is going on so I said hello quickly, and I started to run in other direction like a child.

I was ready to talk to him, but he was with his workmates and it could be have been dangerous and caused a bad  reputation. Now I don't feel the emptiness, maybe because we are still in same the country. But, I don't have the anger too, I'm so full and whole again.

I don't understand which one of us is the runner. He is not writing to me actually because of life conditions, but I didn't go to see him because his presence is a little untouchable, it's so hard to reach him, and I know because of that he didn't write to me.

I've learned there are 6 stages.

Could you please give me information on which stage we are in?

Thank you and take care.

Apr 07, 2016
I Need To Know
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


I cannot answer your questions.

Just have faith that if you are meant to be in each other's life, you will see her again. If not, you won't.

the best thing to do is to live your life daily and go within yourself and work on the things you need to do.

Sending light and love,

Apr 07, 2016
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


Since this fellow has such an intense impact on you, there is something there you have to deal with, especially your emotions. Your reaction should tell you that you are carrying emotions that have to be released.

Perhaps there is a past life situation that has left you traumatized and you are still carrying the memory that is locked in your cellular memory.

Read about cellular memories.

If you would like to know what happened in the past lifetime to give you some closure, contact me for a session.

Sending light and love,

Apr 06, 2016
I Need To Know
by: Anonymous


I met my twin flame back in 2011. She did recognize me first. I didn't realize until maybe a couple weeks after. I did have a vision of her which was something new since I realized and she had awakened me. I had to see her again and when I did it was only at her work.

We talked for as long as she worked there, and then there were days I wanted to see her and there were days where it seemed like she didn't want to see me, I felt like kinda being ignored.

She was not there anymore and not a day goes by when I don't think of her. I just want to know if she knows of me and what's going on.

I have tried to contact her, but nothing happened. I just feel she is running and is scared, but I still wait patiently to see her again.

I just need clarification if we will cross paths again. I promised myself I would tell her how I feel and leave it at that. Just so she knows...

Apr 02, 2016
by: Anonymous

This might or might not be published, either way I feel I need help understanding something terrible that just happened to me! Just right now! First of all, I wrote the March 30th Twin Flame comment below. And just now I got what might be considered a very, very strong signal from the man that I think is my Twin.

The message: STAY AWAY! as I am typing this, I think the message might not be from him, but from an angel or a spirit guide...

You see lately I have been asking them to help me with this. I need to stay strong so that I can stay away from my twin and stop chasing him. Tanya, if you get this please let me know what you think.

Here's what happened. I was in my room. I live at home due to health issues. My Mom came in because she was doing spring cleaning and she asked me "Do you want this?" she held up an article of clothing and to my horror, It was the shirt I was wearing when my ex dumped me, almost 9 years ago.

OMG! HOW? I thought I got rid of that horrible shirt many years ago. What was it doing all of the sudden in front of me? Why did she have it? How is it still in this house? I couldn't breathe.

All I could manage was to choke out, "I don't want it."

I don't know what this means, is it a message saying "Stay Away from him!"? I think so.

Please let me know what you think. I have not contacted him at all in almost 2 months and I know he wants nothing to do with me. Is he not my Twin? Or does it mean he might still be, but I must definitely, and on no uncertain terms refrain from contacting him ever again?

Mar 30, 2016
Can't Stand It
by: Anonymous

To make a very long story short, I'm a middle-aged woman who thinks she met (and dated) her twin many years ago. (He is younger than me)

I have only started reading about Twin Flames in the last 2 months...and I was just floored by how much it sounds like my experience with this younger man. However, it's been 3 years since I have seen him and 2 years since we've communicated. I understand that at this point I must enter the "Surrender" stage because there is nothing left for me to do, and I no longer want to chase him.

At first, I felt so much Peace realizing this. I was close to feeling liberated after all these years, but I'm missing him again. And it hurts so much.

I feel like I NEED to see him, even for a few hours like we did 3 yrs ago when he came to me when he was on the rebound. But he won't talk to me and he has a girlfriend. So, I know I have to surrender. But how can I get on with anything when ALL I do is think of him?

I dream of him almost every night. My feelings for him are as strong as they were 9 yrs ago when we first met. And the very worst part of this all is I don't think he thinks of me, if he does it's very negative.

What if he's not my Twin at all and I'm just crazy and delusional? Even the runner is supposed to miss their Twin, am I right? Because this guy sure doesn't miss me.

How can I be at Peace when I can't spend time with the one person who ever made me feel happy?

Mar 10, 2016
Yes in The Same Boat
by: Anonymous

Yes, I am in same boat you are.

There are periods where things are good and there are really happy times. I love my twin deeply so when there are painful events or he pushes, it has felt like hell.

I dream of him when I least expect it. It's a weird dynamic and like I said no matter what, just trust the process and be happy with yourself.

Mar 10, 2016
Twin flame Runner
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


If you are seeing 1's or any combination of 1's, your spirit guide is trying to reach you, so be aware of that and try communicating with him or her.

Take some quiet time, meditate, focus on your breathing and start asking questions to your guide, or even your Higher Self which knows all the answers.

Know that whatever is in your life is important, and is part of your learning and spiritual ascension.

It is time to focus on yourself now rather than on this man. You have work to do, try to release all the pain you are feeling. The pain is negative, it is wearing you down and taking all your energy.

If you cannot release the pain, then take a session with me and I will help you and show you how you can do this daily with my technique.

Sending light and love,

Mar 10, 2016
Re: Twin Flame Runner
by: Anonymous


Thank you so much for your reply. You said that you couldn't be sure if he was my twin flame, but that we'd had past lives together. Thank you.

Reading through other people's experiences,I feel like maybe I wasn't explicit enough about how I'm feeling or the level of emotions that ran between us.

Since it was long distance, he found it too difficult and just started to withdraw. As I said to you, he went quiet for a while until I brought the subject up; at which point he was extremely angry with me, and I'm still not sure why, and feel hurt and confused when I think about it. We cut off contact for a couple of months and then I got in touch at new year.

Now, it seems like even though he's still withdrawn, he's confused at the same time...being very sweet on occasion, then withdrawing and being moody again for a while. I sense that his ego is in the way and he can't see past his own nose!

Since we separated, I have gone through absolute turmoil, which in a strange way has been the best thing that's ever happened to me...I have realized what I want to do for a career, I have decided to become healthier, I'm in touch with old friends again - not to mention the spiritual journey it's taken me on.

I'm not sure what the significance of the number 1 is, but I go through spells of seeing it everywhere. I look at the clock and it's 1.11, my phone battery is 11% every time I look at it, little things like that which makes me wonder if I'm falling prey to magical thinking and just going crazy.

I could be thinking anything when it happens, I haven't found a pattern yet...thinking positive thoughts about him, thinking negative thoughts about him, or thinking about other things entirely. But I have noticed it for sure.

Friends and conventional advice tell me to cut contact and that the right person is 'out there', but this just isn't working. He has hurt me, but I am loving him more anyway.

I have prayed and prayed, and have a gut feeling that I need to just keep loving him quietly, wait and work on myself. But, then of course too many thoughts get in the way and I think I'm just mad. It's all so confusing.

I feel like my heart is bursting out of my chest for him, just longing to be with him and take care of him and his soul.

I have also been dreaming of him constantly...usually just in mundane settings, but he's there. There was one which stuck out - we were with family in a huge open building, I with another man...he saw me, and with a look of crushed heartbreak walked out and then I woke up.

I feel like I'm in upheaval. He seems confused and detached while I'm trying to reach out.

Mar 09, 2016
Trust and Surrender
by: Anonymous


Yeah, you are receiving messages from your angels not to give up. I know my twin flame in person who lives near me. We're both married to someone else. I often see reminders, "syncs" related to him, sayings he has said to me and his birthday a lot and his name.

Sometimes it makes me feel crazy, but these are to remind us to be positive and to surrender.

Mar 07, 2016
Advice on Painful Separation, Please!
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Amy,

I know this is not an easy situation for you.

At this point, I cannot say if he is your twin flame, but for sure you have had past lives with this man.

From my own experience, I've had to review a few of my own past lives with my twin who I had met before I really understood our connection.

And I've reviewed many past lives with my partner who is now deceased. Our relationship was extremely complicated and not what I had expected from a relationship.

Unfortunately, I did this review after his death since I was not familiar with working with past lives while I was with him. If I had known the things I now know, our life would have been much different. But I was aware at that time, even though I wasted to leave him but couldn't, that he was very important in my life. And it's true, knowing him has changed my life.

Another thing that is important is that he was not a twin flame, but a soul mate that I had many past lives with.

One needs to be aware that we have to look deeper into relationships with people who touch us, trigger us on a very deep level, even though it may not feel good at the time.

I am not telling what to do, you need to trust your intuition in knowing what to do and to think with your heart.

The time I had met my partner, in spite of our difficulties, I trusted my intuition.

This man has triggered emotions and memories deep
within you and now is the time to work through those emotions. This could be the reason why you have met again.

Everything that happens to us has a reason, I don't really believe in chance or luck.

If you interested in going deeper within yourself and working through your emotions that are surfacing, contact me to schedule a breakthrough session with you.

Sending light and love,

Mar 07, 2016
Advice on Painful Separation, Please!
by: Amy


I am in need of help and hopefully comfort. I'll try and keep the story short!

I met a man I believe may be my twin flame. And this is a difficult thing for me to say as I'm not even sure I believed in that, until now.
I knew him - only to say hello to - as a teenager. Now both in our 30's, we reconnected online.

Needless to say the connection was indescribable. At first, I thought it may just be me not being terribly experienced with matters of the heart, but when he confirmed he felt the same way and since he had been married and divorced I was sure something more was happening.

The thing is, that he lives thousands of miles away. It was exciting though - constant communication, phone calls etc, trips planned and even talk of having a baby. I have 2 already.
So probably not an uncommon theme here - he stated pulling away. And then went silent.

It finally ended after he didn't talk to me for a month.

So now...we are back in touch. Of course, it was me who initiated contact, and we talk maybe every few days. It's always me who messages first.

I'm so confused. I am still in love with and connected to this man, and all conventional advice would tell me to stay away...but that doesn't sit right with something inside me.

I am confused about him seemingly having no feelings at all, after everything we went through. He says he thinks I'm 'lovely', but is also talking of dating other people, and not objecting when I suggest I might do the same.

Last night, he said something along those lines, and it was like I'd been punched in the stomach - the final realization that he has no romantic feelings at all...they just left one day - and that the time will come when he has another girlfriend.

I have told him how I feel about him, and he avoids the topic altogether.

I cannot shake this gut feeling that something's not right about this entire situation, like it's off center. I don't know how I'll cope with this, so I think I need to cut all contact again, then I feel as if I should just keep going, keep in contact for some reason and that it will all be okay.

I really just need to find peace within all of this. My heart feels as if it has been ripped out, and I need to find a way of rising above my own thoughts.

Feb 11, 2016
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi NM,

I remember you.

It really is not possible for me to give you an answer without talking to you on the phone.

You could listen to your intuition, ask your Higher self or dowse using your pendulum.

Or contact me with your phone number and time zone plus good times to call you.

Sending light and love,

Feb 10, 2016
by: Anonymous

Hi Tanya,

We have communicated previously in the past. However, now I am not sure if the man in Florida is my twin or the man here in Nevada where I presently live.

The man in Nevada hired me over the phone when I lived in Florida. When we met finally there was an instant connection. I know he felt it too.

I would see him in a scene with certain clothes on in a dream. The next day at work he would have the clothes on.

The man in Florida and I experienced all the twin flame symptoms, but now I am not sure.

Please advise. NM

Feb 09, 2016
How do I know?
by: Samantha

Hello Luna,

I, too, think I've met my twin flame. We met in a very unconventional way. He seemed to just appear in my life. We had an instant connection. He wasn't who I assumed he would be. He was the one who wanted to begin a relationship. However, as we grew close he began to withdraw from me. He would be dating other people, which always made me really upset.

I have not been the same in almost 6 years. However, I still feel very connected to him and I know he does to me. When we text, its like we have a twin telepathy thing going on. I can sense his underlying emotions.

Friends have told me that he would say how he needed to pull back from me. He was too scared.

How do I know for sure he is my twin? The pain of watching him with someone else is almost unbearable.

Jan 28, 2016
How He Knows Me?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Luna,

I have not heard that males recognize the twin soul first, and it really doesn't matter because you have been both male and female throughout your life times. It depends on who is more spiritually evolved to recognize the twin.

Yes, you do communicate through your dreams and meditation because that is when your soul is free to do so, the mind is not trying to control you at that time.

So if you want to communicate with your twin, do so in meditation, you can also try to communicate through telepathy.

Sending love and light,

Jan 28, 2016
How He knows Me?
by: Luna

Hello Tanya,

I realized my twin flame 3 years ago thanks to my friend. However, he didn't see me and he is far away.

After he came to my country, I saw him on the street. When we saw each other face to face, he looked at me like he knows me. He looked at me around 3 minutes with a shocked look in his face.

I know when you meet with twin flame this reaction is so normal because I was shocked too.

But, is it possible that he realized me spiritually before, by connecting with me somehow in dreams or meditation? I don't know.

Could you please explain if it is possible because I watched a video and it said that male genders realize their twin soul first.

Thank you so much.

Jan 12, 2016
Am I Delusional? Time To Give Up?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Jim,

Thank you for your heart felt submission.

I know it is painful to see your twin flame with another, but it is her journey. She needs to learn her lessons before being with you, in other words she is not ready for you and you cannot change that.
the change needs to come from within her.

I know the road is difficult especially when you see someone that you love hurting.

That is a lesson we all need to learn - to allow our loved ones to do their journey. It's called unconditional love.

Many twin flames are not ready for this intensive relationship (I often question this within myself)

We need to learn to love our self and others unconditionally.

Imagine what a world it would be if we all did this! John Lesson's song comes to mind - it was prophetical.

The time is now, and that is why many are meeting their twin flames. (aka twin souls)

You need to continue your journey and go within to do your cleansing work, it is never finished.

We all need to learn love, compassion, acceptance and forgiveness for we cannot change anyone, but our self.

Sending light and love,

Jan 11, 2016
Am I Delusional? Time To Give Up?
by: Jim

Four years ago, through a beautiful series of synchronicities, I met my Twin Flame. She was completely NOT what I was expecting, but the emotional connection was amazing. In our photos together, she looks so relaxed and happy.

Suddenly — when we were as close and intimate as we could possibly be — she ran away.

I persisted in expressing my love for her and she ran further away, never responding to any communication. Eventually, through a mutual friend, she asked me not to contact her at all. That was two years ago. I complied.

She put herself into a relationship with a needy man with not one iota of charisma, humour or vivacity. The photos show her looking tired, stressed, uncomfortable, even emaciated.

The Universe keeps throwing us into each other’s presence occasionally. I recognise this as synchronicity when it happens. I act cool, so as not to spook her again (and to not seem pathetic).

The Universe has given me many signs about her, her name, and so on. (Or is it simply that I am more attuned to seeing her name and spotting apparent ‘signs’?)

I KNOW that she is my twin flame and I know that I have to trust, surrender and let her be.

But I am also riddled with doubts. What’s the difference between faith and delusion? Between Love and obsession? How do I know what I think I know? Am I just deceiving myself?

I’ve tried to fill the void she left, but I’ve never felt the same.

Recently, she’s been appearing in my dreams (this was never the case before). Nothing really happened — she’s just been there.

But one night last week I spoke angrily to her before going to sleep. She came to me in my dream and spoke directly to me with love and respect. I could feel her presence, I could feel her in my arms. But I don’t know what words she spoke; I could just feel a calm, mature reassurance from her.

Now I’ve just learned (through a ‘chance’ meeting with a mutual contact) that she’s planning to marry that man.

Am I delusional? I don’t know what to do. Just let it go?

I would be grateful for any insight that you can give.

Peace, Love, Light,


PS: I was inspired by her to write this prose below. No-one else has/can inspire me to write like she does. She makes the writing flow out.

I waited until you had your assignment chosen and firmly booked, before I went to negotiate my own placement.

What they offered me made no sense.

"But that’s not even in the same country!" I protested.

"Don’t worry!" they laughed. "We can arrange ANYTHING. Remember that anxiety is your problem. Just TRUST and SURRENDER. We will take care of everything."

So, reluctantly, I crossed the River of Forgetfulness, and my memories washed away.

I landed in a rainstorm in 1962, confused and afraid.

I travelled all over the world. So did you. I was always alone, my whole life. Sometimes, you were so close – maybe in London, maybe in New York – I could feel your presence, but I didn’t know what it meant.

It was nearly fifty years before they decided I was ready. Then they moved me to your country so suddenly and swiftly, it took my breath away.

I was completely relaxed and not expecting anything … when I met you.

And in that infinite moment, I remembered everything.

Jan 05, 2016
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

The numbers 111, 11:11 are spiritual. Your angels are giving you these numbers, you can ask them to tell you what they mean. Ask before you go to sleep for them to reveal the significance in a dream.

If you are seeing 111 constantly, you need to monitor your thoughts and think about what you want. Do not think negative thoughts. The universe if is manifesting your thoughts and opening a door for you, that is why I'm telling you to be aware of your thoughts.

Are you pleased with your thoughts? If not change them into what you want. If you need help with controlling your thoughts, ask your spiritual guide to help you.

Jan 05, 2016
by: Anonymous

It has been 3 years since my experience with my twin flame phenomenon. I think of him, but not often.

I, however, still see 11 constantly every hour on the hour. I also see 111 and occasionally 11:11.

I took a selfie and in the background is a image of an angel. I showed it to my friend and she saw it also.

The 11:11 I experience, does this mean my twin is thinking about me?

I met another man and I felt we have a connection, but nothing what I experienced with my twin in 2013.

Please advise

Jan 03, 2016
Need Help ...Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

You can continue to be his friend if he wants to have that kind of relationship with you.

I say this because you can learn so much about yourself through having a twin flame relationship. Not all twin flame relationships are necessarily romantic. Yes, you have great feelings for him but that is because he is the other part of your soul. You are like twins, so you are going to feel a strong connection.

Take this time to go within and do your inner spiritual cleansing, as I'm sure he has triggered many things within yourself.

Read the comments by others to find out how they coped with similar feelings, and read my page at
twin flames.

Dec 30, 2015
Need help.....Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

I met my twin flame, but never heard that term until I was researching the overwhelming experience I was going through.

I am sure he had feelings as well. However, we met In a situation where it would be inappropriate and selfish for me to bring up what I felt was happening.

I did discuss slightly about the synchronicity I was experiencing. How I heard his name 4 times in row and explained different spiritual signs and symbols. That was 11.10.15 and I began experiencing 11:11 , and it hasn't stopped. The only thing I thought of doing was just discussing spiritual terms and beliefs. Then I gave him books to read on spiritualism, in hopes he would speed up his intuition.

He left without me telling him a word. He left me a card and I was heart broken. I looked him up on Facebook and he has a girlfriend.

What can I do now?

Dec 30, 2015
I Feel Like I'm Going Crazy
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Rx,

It sounds as if this man could be your twin flame. I don't know enough about your relationship to know if he is truly your twin flame, only you will be able to know by reading the other stories and comments regarding twin flames.

Please read my page at twin flames.

Meeting your twin flame is important in finding out about yourself.

You cannot wish him out of your life, if he is your twin flame, he is your twin - the other part of your soul.

Go within and do the work you need to do on yourself.

Sending light and love,

Dec 26, 2015
I Feel Like I'm Going Crazy
by: Rx

I don't even know where to start. I met a married man about 3 years ago. I've been in an on and off relationship with him for about 2 years. He is 11 years older than I am. I believe he is my twin flame.

During the last 2 years I have learned so much and I've become a better person. I've become successful and I don't think I would be where I am without the pain our breakups have caused me.

We recently ended our relationship. In the past we've always left off on bad terms. This time it was different. We both agreed it was for the best since he is married and I can't stand the thought of him being with his wife (I know I have no right to feel that way). Problem is I feel like my connection to him is much stronger this time.

I've always felt his "sadness" when we were apart, but I always tried to block it and tell myself I was delusional. This time, I feel like my heart is literally about to jump out of my chest. My heart and chest hurt so bad, it feels like a heart attack. I feel like I'm going insane. It's like my body is weighing down on my soul and my soul is just trying to find a way to jump out and hug him.

I've asked my Angels and God to please get him out of my head and to remove him from my life, but it's like no one is listening and I just can't deal with it anymore.

I'm loosing myself and I don't even know if this is real. Please help...I need to know if he is my twin flame or if I'm going crazy.

Dec 26, 2015
Trying To Figure It Out
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi John,

No, you are not crazy. You are receiving messages from the spiritual realm, take them seriously.

Many are meeting their twin flames, and it is kick starting their spiritual growth which is very necessary now with the new changes coming in on earth.

I know there are many terrible things happening on earth now among different races and with Mother earth, it is her way of releasing all that is negative. Certain things need to be eradicated, for the good things that are coming, and there will be many changes.

Follow your intuition, that is your best answer for what to do. You know deep inside what feels right.

The twin flame relationship is not and easy one, full of is all necessary.

Do your inner cleansing work and all will fall into place, you will see!

Wishing you all the best in 2016!

Dec 25, 2015
Trying To Figure It Out
by: John G.

For over 20 years, I have had feelings for an old friend. She has known how I feel, and has told me in no uncertain terms that we are "just friends" and that's all we'll ever be.

There are so many synchronicities between us it's scary. I constantly see the number for her telephone area code everywhere. When I check my phone during the day, it's almost always her street address for the time, or the address across the street she suggested I consider buying if I can afford it.

I'm in a marriage I'm planning on ending next year because I'm not happy anymore, and I plan to return to the town I went to college in to start my career and life anew. She lives there now - I planned to settle there LONG before she did.

We grew up in towns similar in size and features, right now to having a near identical supermarket. Where we are complementary is the family unit - she is from a broken home, my folks married over 50 years.

She has been standoffish for years at a time, then suddenly wants to talk. We met in 2012 for a day and it felt no time ever passed. Now it feels like we are on again-off again, but I feel like I'm a ton of mixed messages.

I read about twin flames in 2011 and told her about it in 2012, and she told me she hopes to meet someone like that someday. I don't know how to tell her know that just months after I left to go back home, I realized she was the least that's what I think.

Two months later, I had a vivid dream in which a woman told me she was my twin flame...I drew a sketch of that woman last week, and it resembles her in a way, only greatly illuminated in golden light.

Am I losing my mind?

Dec 25, 2015
My Spark of Destiny
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

I do believe we agree to certain things before we return to earth such as our working on our lessons, choose our parents, the people we will meet and so on. How each relationship and situation works out is not predetermined as we have choice, and situations are changing all the time.

Many twin flames are meeting during these times which is important for their spiritual development. It does not mean that each twin flame relationship will evolve together.

Both must have completed their inner work for the relationship to work, otherwise it will not last.

I cannot tell you how your relationship will work, it is between the two of you and how you evolve.

Sending light and love,

Dec 23, 2015
My Spark Of Destiny?
by: Anonymous

I need to have validation for an experience that occurred 4 yrs ago on February 3, 2012.

I heard recently that when a witch sees a blue spark or as in my case, a sparkling white aura around my hand when I touched the shoulder of the man (for the first time physical contact) I'm currently in a relationship with, it means that person is your destiny?

Have you ever heard that?

We seem to be mirror images of each other in multiple respects and he is a messenger to me at other times. Example: I won't feel like going somewhere and he would talk me into going. Sure enough when we get there, there will be a reason that will reveal itself. He seems to be able to hone my abilities.

In reverse I'm able to sense his well being and able to intervene in timely fashion. An example is a heart issue that resulted in saving his life. It's uncanny.

He is very good to me and loves me and encourages my beliefs. I call him my messenger and translator.

Is he my destiny or twin flame? He wants to marry?

How do these type relationships workout?

Nov 02, 2015
My Twin?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Lillypad,

I am getting a positive confirmation that he is your twin, but you need to rely on your intuition.

If you need help wondering about your twin, read my page at twin flames.

We find find out about our self through meeting and learning about our twin. The connection often causes a spiritual awakening.

Sending light and love,

Nov 02, 2015
Twin Flame or Not
by: John

I met a girl about a year and a half ago. From the first moment that I saw her I felt an attraction for her. I thought, well she's the cutest girl that I have seen for a while.

This was in a drug rehabilitation center of all places. I would always sense her glancing in my direction. I would turn around and she would be looking at me. I felt confident that she was attracted to me also.

Then one day we were all sitting in group together and I happened to say in an indirect way, in a subtle way that I had a dream about her. She seemed stunned and had to sit down when she heard this. Something told me that she may have had similar experiences, that she may have had dreams about me.

We seemed to have the ability to tap into each others' emotions and sense what the other one was thinking, like we could read each others minds. There was definite telepathy at work.

After being in group ome Friday I went home and I could feel my chakras opening up. It was a very blissful experience and I could see bright colours and strange, but nice sensations. When I came back in on the Monday I somehow got the feeling that she had experienced something similar.

We couldn't get enough of each other. We used to love sitting next to each other, just hanging out. There was absolutely a connection there.

On the day that I was leaving I told her that I had missed her and that I had feelings for her. She said, 'well I don't have those feelings and even if I did I work here'. She then asked me to sit still, that she would be right back.

Anyway it came time for group again so we didn't talk anymore about that. I got the feeling that what she had said wasn't entirely true and she had more to say.

I went back to visit her after leaving, but that soon fizzled out as I didn't want to appear needy in anyway.

I had never felt such a connection with someone else and so wished that we could have somehow gotten to know each other better.

We are quite similar, we look a bit alike also. I would have liked to have dated her and I suspect that she would have liked to have dated me also.

If we are twin flames then I suspect that she probably checks out these websites...that's my gut feeling.

I hope that someday we get the opportunity to get to know each other more, as I know that there was a very special unspoken connection between the two of us and it would be worth getting to know each other.

Meeting this person, I believe made me have a spiritual awakening and I'm gratful for this. I've evolved quite a bit in the last year and a half.

Wherever they are I hope that life is good for them and they're happy.

Nov 02, 2015
My Twin?
by: Lillypad


I'm wondering if you can help me.

I'm highly spiritual and intuitive and feel I have met my twin flame. We have done the dance for months and I constantly see 11's and 22's everywhere and we have 11's that correlate to times we have met or became closer again.

I see his name repeatedly at unusual times and feel an extreme bond to him, but he has high functioning Asperger's so I think this compounds the twin situation.

My pendulum confirms he is my twin and says we were lovers in previous lives. I feel coupled with seeing all the 11's and 22's, seeing his name at unlikely times, pendulum confirmation and my intuition that he's a twin.

Do you have any thoughts on this?

Thank you.

Nov 02, 2015
We Just Met
by: Anonymous


I realized my soul twin 3 years ago. But we didn't meet at that time. When I see him I was annoyed because he had same acting and thinking behavior like I do.

He was far away and I started to have lucid dreams about him. When I touch his arm he was so warm in my dreams. I started to feel his heart beating, ten happiness and sadness. Then I realized something is going on.

After 3 years, he came to my country and he saw me in a crowded place. When he saw me, he opened his eyes and he was surprised somehow. I knew that he came to my country that is why I wrote a letter to him about us.

Anyway he started to write me a letter, but I was shy and I said stop. After one page, he stopped and he smiled at me, but we couldn't speak so much because his friends pulled him onto the street.

When we were in same city, I felt so whole and peaceful. On the other hand, I had a big headache and my heart was beating (ringing in the ear) even though I wasn't excited.

He went back to his country and I feel so empty and my soul has such a huge pain. My only wish was the meeting with my twin flame. Even though it took only 10 minutes.

There is a strong telepathy between us and I was sure he is my twin soul. I don't know why we met and what was the reason? Do you have any idea?

Thank you so much

Oct 25, 2015
Missing My Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

It's coming up to a year since I last saw my twin flame. We met in the most unusual of circumstances.

Due to the place that we met, it has left it somewhat difficult to stay in touch/hang out. I used to go and visit him at his work place but that became tricky after a while. I still think about him heaps and would love to know how he's doing.

If he's seeing someone, I wish them well and hope that their partners are treating them well.

I do miss him, we could both be as happy as Larry sitting together watching paint dry.

It was because of him that I had my spiritual awakening and it has certainly been an intense year and a half. So much has gone on that I would like to tell him about.

I hope that someday we both find our way to each would be so worth it.

Aug 15, 2015
Meeting Twin Flame in Middle School
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Non,

You met your win flame for a reason. This is the time for you to go within and do your inner work and to start your spiritual journey.

I cannot tell you what specifically you need to release within yourself. You need to seriously think about everything that has happened to you since your childhood, write the incidences down, and write out your feelings and emotions that you kept within yourself.

The negative emotions will block you in everything that you want to accomplish in life, that's why it's necessary to release them.

There are many different ways to release negative feelings of which I'm not going to go into here. But if you're interested you can read my page at
releasing negative emotion.

Sending light and love,

Aug 08, 2015
Meeting Twin Flame in Middle School
by: Anonymous

The first time I saw my "twin flame" I can't quite remember the date, but it was this past year.

I wasn't quite attracted to him yet. I would look at him and there was this weird feeling I cant quite explain. It felt comforting. Only thing, he is a grade l level older than me and I didn't know anything about him and he doesn't know anything about me, yet I didn't know why He always caught my attention.

I had a lot of crushes, but I never felt that before. And I thought in the moment, I wasn't attracted to anyone at the school. I tried not to have a crush, but I fell for him anyways. No reason to. But I did. I remember when we made long eye contact for 8+ seconds it happened 3 times. But when I looked into his eyes it was MAGNETIC. We both tried to look away, for the sake of awkwardness, but couldn't. I felt so comforted. It was one of the most magical moments of my life. I thought I knew him for once, it was like I dreaming of a boy like him before.

After Christmas break, that's when things started happening. I tried to be friends with him because I knew so many things between us. It was quite obvious he had a crush on me too. But its like all my plans to Get close backfired.

Then one day I decided to go up to him and talk to him. But I didn't know what happened. When I touched him and he finally stopped to listen to me I lost my breathe and words all of a sudden. I COULDN'T BELIEVE HE WAS STANDING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME AND I CAN'T BELIEVE I TOUCHED HIM.

I started stammering and no matter how hard I tried I just couldn't say anything. I was just so flattered that I ran off and left him there and cried.

It felt like we were doing "the dance" because I kept trying to get close before he moved to high school without me, but no matter what I did, text him, smile at him, I received nothing. I was so confused.

Why does he keep looking at me and trying to catch my attention?

So a few weeks later I suffered through depression. I didn't do all the things I used to enjoy and it felt I went through the spiritual awakening.

I hadn't known of this twin flame concept until I went through depression. That's when I started to get interested in spirituality and stuff and I feel so different from myself.

Well turns out me and this boy never became friends. He's gone off to high school and I'm probably going to see him in a year or so, but I'm very much afraid now.

I'm confused and I feel like giving up on love because he turned me inside out and it's like I just went through hell, and realizing that he just leaves me like that, makes me cry and upset and tired.

Sometimes I wish I never saw him. We're in separation now.

Aug 07, 2015
I Feel Lost and Confused
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Lost and Confused,

You said,
"I felt a pull and strong warm, welcoming feeling- like I was home!

Meeting your twin, feels like that. I know, I had the experience, and it really turned my life upside down. I was grieving the loss of my partner and sister and mother, then this "person" walks into my life and upsets everything. I was feeling emotions that I didn't think I should be feeling because I was mourning my losses, but then...enough of my experience.

That meeting was the beginning of an unbelievable inner journey that took me through many past lives that I needed to go through to understand situations and traumas in order to release all of the toxic and hurtful emotions I was holding in my cellular memory and in my body.

Today, I no longer have so much physical pain, am calmer, relaxed and focused and am doing what I was meant to do int this life time. I feel better than I have ever felt. How great is that!

This is what meeting a twin flame will do, it awakens your soul, it helps you to realize the inner work you need to do. Albeit, I had a mentor at that time who explained the twin flame relationship and so on, but before that I had no idea. Meeting him was like crashing into a brick wall and seeing stars.

A twin flame (unbeknownst to the other half) helps us to see the faults within our self. That is a wondrous gift, it is like looking into a mirror.

Yes, I know you don't want to see certain things, but you must that is why you have met your twin. No more sitting on the fence, it is time to do the inner work.

And once you start this journey, you will be so happy you did because you will discover things about yourself that you never knew.

Believe me, I know.

These are some of the things I do, - help, counsel, advise, past life regressions - with clients.

At some point in you life, you need to do you inner cleansing, and meeting a twin kick-starts that process. This is why it is so wonderful. And if you have met your twin, you are very fortunate, even though you may not see it that way in the beginning.

You need to find a good spiritual counselor to help you through this process.

I can only help you so much by this message. You have to do the healing journey.

When you are ready, you can contact me to start this journey together.

Sending light and love,

Aug 04, 2015
I Feel Lost and Confused
by: Anonymous

Dear Tanya,

I strongly believe I've met my twin flame!

When I met him I was already in a relationship, but the moment I held eye contact, I was swarmed with sensations I can't even explain. I felt a pull and strong warm, welcoming feeling- like I was home! I knew right then and there that my boyfriend at the time wasn't the one. I saw him to the very core like I knew who he was already!

Being an empath I just assumed that maybe I was just picking up emotions, but till this day I've never felt like that or seen so much in a person with anyone else!

We live too far away to have something physical we began to talk after the break up with my ex (6 months after) when I felt broken.

Our friendship changed my life and he always said that we'd be together if the distance wasn't an obstacle. When we started getting closer, after a short pause, he became distant and is in a second relationship after we met.

Throughout our whole friendship he never failed to be there for me even while in a relationship.

This time he's not. It's extremely painful. Every night I feel like he's there and I see flashes of him like we're together and extremely strong wave of emotions.

But now I can't sleep. I still get the flashes, but try to think of other things but that only makes me stay up even longer and feel more alone.

I'm afraid to let those thoughts happen because he's shut me out in physical sense. But when we did talk, it was like we're the same mind, have the same food cravings, doing similar activities.

I feel like the more he notices these things the more he's shutting me out. I don't know what to do. My heart hurts. I'm torn between feeling like he's always with me and seeing how he's physically not.

I'm beginning to feel like I'm loosing my mind! What makes it more crazy is that the more pain I feel, I'm not experiencing anxieties from unfortunate events and find myself picking up new talents.

Is this normal?

Jul 18, 2015
What is this? (lime I had co e ho.e)

I had not really dated much before, I always felt a no with guys. But when he asked me, I said, "yes".

When we were together it felt (lime I had co e ho.e) What is this? For the first time, such a peace and a love.

Answer to the RIDDLE...

Lime (LIKE) I had (I HAD) co e (COME) ho.e (HOME)

Jul 14, 2015
Broken Heart over Losss of Twin Flame
by: Krissy

While reading your article it was like I was reading about exactly what I am going through now. He has run away again, and I am lost and feel I am losing my mind. There are times I have time catching my breath over just the thought of him being gone and I wonder how I will ever heal all that has broken inside my soul.

How do you do it? I am so scared right now, I should be used to it by now, but it is so painful. I will focus on my own healing again.

Jul 12, 2015
The Greatest Story Ever Told
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Angel Heart,

I was going to suggest counseling to help you understand the twin flame connection and separation, but I see that one of my clients has already written a reply.

The only way to understand the whole connection/separation drama is by going within yourself, to unlock any emotional blockages and to learn how to love yourself unconditionally in order to understand and accept your twin.

I am not presently with my twin as he is not ready to accept the relationship, but I can certainly sympathize with the emotions you are feeling and it is through meeting my twin flame that I have come to understand so much more about myself and why twin flames are meeting at this time.

I am here and ready to help you if you would like to start this rewarding journey. Just contact me.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jul 11, 2015
Reply to The Greatest Love Story Ever Told
by: Anonymous


I am a twin myself who has gone through the twin flame dance and ended up getting snubbed by my twin because she is with someone else. Believe me it is the most painful thing a person can ever endure because it drives even the most sensible people to the edge of insanity specially in my case as she denied the connection or ever having anything for me.

Confused, lost, broken with no direction of my future, I came to Tanya for help. Thankfully, I realized since I had already lost everything I need to reconstruct my life back so I started taking counseling and spiritual healing sessions from Tanya.

Its not even been a month but the change is visible. I realize I still have lots to do before I truly get back on track, but as someone who recently underwent the same experience as you at the hands of their twin, I would like to advise you to please start taking these sessions seriously.

Trust me they help immensely. This advice is also for all people who have gone or going through the twin flame drama/dance and are questioning their sanity.

These sessions are perhaps the best gifts I could have ever given myself.

Jul 11, 2015
The Greatest Love Story Ever Told
by: Angel Heart

Hi Tanya,

I actually don't know where to begin, but in August 2014 I met whom I now know to be my twin flame.

On a warm summer night I hung out with my cousin that I recently reconnected with after several years of distance. She and I are very close but were distant when we were younger due to other circumstances. So on that night I drove her to meet a friend of hers in which that friend lives on the same vicinity as my cousin and I. Turns out her friend was a guy whom she had named her child's "God Father".

I waited in my car while she stepped out to talk to her friend in his yard. I gazed over threw my mirror to get a glimpse of him and I felt this instant connection. He was the most handsomest good looking guy I have ever seen. He returned the gaze, but I looked elsewhere as I couldn't look into his beautiful eyes for long. He asked my cousin my name and once she told him he said that he knows me. I took it as a joke then.

That 1st meeting was intense as well as awkward. I felt like when we looked into each others eyes I could see his soul. We exchanged numbers and everything felt like a quick romance. The feelings was intense the love was there. The chemistry was out of this world.

He felt comfortable expressing his issues with me far as his household or job was concerned. But he never expressed his emotions. After a couple weeks he became distant, cold, and even less emotional.

I didn't know why. All I knew was I was in love I had felt feelings to the deepest core. But then strange things would happen. I knew when he was about to call or text me. I knew if he was in the same area as me without us talking. I could feel his emotions as if they were mine.

So once he ran I chased. Chased because all my life I felt abandoned by the people I thought loved me most. By this time I had just lost my brother and 6 family members in the last year. I was torn, so torn from his distance and cold demeanor I cried.

He was going threw issues with his daughter's mother so I figured he was using me at the time to get over her and then he will eventually go back to her. So from there I have taken the bumpiest most beautiful soul ride ever.

I'm awake now thanks to this journey. It has been a year, but in the year we would do 'The Dance' several times. Now it's a separation. He denied our connection the whole time. But my soul and heart knows the truth.

My only concern now is the inner work. I have difficulty recognizing the inner work. I have always had difficult relationships and once I met my twin it's like those old relationships didn't exist.

Everyday, every minute every hour he is on my mind. I continue with life, but I can not get him off my mind. I have experienced some amazing things along the way. Like connecting with my spirit guides and finding out I'm a light worker. But I needed some clarity on recognizing my inner work. What could I be holding on to?

But now I'm lost and hurting because I want nothing more than to live the rest of my life with my twin here in the physical.

I am 28 and he is 26. I need advice.

Jul 07, 2015
Twin Flame Time Out
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


This is a very important time for twin flames coming together. It's time for people to connect with the spiritual level of their being. It is just as important as other aspects of our being such as the psychological, mental and emotional levels.

Most are aware of the physical detox that is necessary for our physical health, but what about emotional detoxing that is also very necessary for our inner being.

Each one has inner cleansing to do and the twin soul relationship triggers that movement like no other.

There are things within yourself that you need to understand and to release and this what the relationship with a twin triggers.

If you are interested in learning about yourself and what your twin is causing within you, contact me for a counseling session.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jul 06, 2015
Twin Flame Time Out
by: Anonymous

Hi Tanya,

Meeting my twin has been hard. Both of us are married. The thing I find so hard to deal with is the continuous push pull. He will suddenly pull away suddenly just when I think it's o.k and we are friends again.

I've got to the point where I will need to withdraw myself completely as I'm seriously starting to disbelieve that he is my twin flame and it's upsetting me.

For how could he do that if the feelings are mutual because I couldn't do that to him.

Thanks, God Bless

Jul 02, 2015
Knowing My Twin Flame since Middle School
by: Kayla

I met my twin flame in 7th grade.

I am currently a junior in college as is he. We dated for a short time at the end of 7th grade. I immediately had an intense connection with him that I did not understand, however, I found myself running away from the relationship and could not say why.

Fast forward to sophomore year of high school where we start dating again after much convincing on his part. For awhile, I ran away from the relationship, denying its truth and fearing its depth, claiming that "we were just friends."

Until this time I had a clear moment of enlightenment where I realized that he was the one, given to me by god. I could deny it no longer. We could communicate without speaking, feeling all of each others pains and emotions. It was a love that is indescribable, but it was incredibly challenging. After 2 years of dating, we separated.

My soul was not yet fully developed, and we were hurting each other to the point where we knew it was not healthy. I was leaning on him so much that I lost myself in the process.

Fast forward another 2 years. After several synchronicites and signs from the universe he returned in my life at preciously the right moment, after I had truly found myself.

It was clear to me we were to be reunited to fulfill god's plan. However, my twin flame is still working through some old fears of repeating the past.

We come very close to being together and lately he's been distant and allowed fear to cloud his soul. This is incredibly painful as I know in my soul that we are to be reunited in this lifetime. I feel that this is our time, and I am trusting god in his plan for us, no matter how difficult the present is.

Thank you so much for sharing all of your stories. They have really given me strength to follow my intuition and believe in the miracle God gave me.

I wish you all the best of luck.

Jun 30, 2015

by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Engee,

I don't know which comment you are referring to, but I will respond to your questions.

First of all, you cannot judge someone else's feelings or know exactly where they are at, in other words you cannot walk in their shoes.

If the other twin does not believe in the twin flame connection, it is because they are not yet spiritually evolved enough to understand the connection. And if he or she mocks the twin's feelings, then you will know that you are both at different levels and it would not work out at this time and it is best to sty away from the twin and do your own work.

At this point, you have to let the other partner live their journey and accept where they are at as difficult as it may seem. You cannot force the other to have similar feelings to your own. You need to work on yourself and do your own inner cleansing until you reach the point where you can accept what the twin needs to experience on their journey, and that is what unconditional love is about.

Twins can only come together when they are both spiritually evolved enough to be together.

It is similar to a parent allowing their child to eventually experience life on his or her own without interfering while loving them at the same time without agreeing with the child's choices.

I hope this explanation makes it clearer for you.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jun 28, 2015
Question About Previous Comment
by: Engee

Dear Tanya
Thank you for your explanation about why the inner cleansing is needed and how twin flames trigger certain kind of emotions.

My question is why does only one twin seem to suffer while it appears the other twin is getting all that they want from life?

Why is it that they don't need to undergo any cleansing or healing?

Sometimes the other twin doesn't even believe in this twin flame thing, while they are busy with their so called current partner, all they do is make a mockery of the twin who is trying to explain how he or she feels.
Why is there this discrimination?

If they are indeed twins, are they not supposed to suffer or go through the pain in equal context?

Jun 28, 2015
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Thank you anonymous for your submission concerning your twin flame journey.

This is what meeting a twin flame is all about, igniting one or the other to realize that they each have inner work to do.

The sooner everyone who has met their twin flame understands this journey, the happier and more evolved each one will be.

Most people are not doing their inner work and cleansing, it is important for everyone to do so - that's what twin flames are about, helping each other by triggering each others' emotions and eventually by helping humanity.

You can read what God has said about
twin flames.

This is one of the reasons why I have developed this website and the spiritual chat section so others can write about their issues especially concerning their twin flame and to discover what it is all about.

It is also to let those who are willing to do the work know that I am here as a spiritual counselor and coach to help each one do their cleansing and inner work.

Just contact me when you are ready to do the work. Through my unique ability in spiritual communication, I am able to receive the information that helps each person through their inner cleansing process.

Sending light and love,

Jun 28, 2015
Twin Flame Journey
by: Anonymous

June 28th, 2015


I so understand what you are going through. I have also met my Twin and he is 16 years younger then me. I lived on the other side of the world, but moved here 4 years ago.This is the reason why I found my husband, so he could bring me here, I was always meant to come live here!

I have always had a huge longing for something in my life but never knew what it was, I went into minor depressions, even when I was married, because my longing was so strong, I was always searching for something!

I was married at the time I saw him first time, and he was seeing someone, but meeting him and getting this insane deep feelings for a man I didn't even know or had talked to, actually helped me get out of a very destructive and damaging marriage. One week after, I kicked my husband of 18 years out of my home, and my twin got dumped by his girlfriend!

I had never heard about Twin flames before I met him, but started searching for answers somewhere because this was something I had never experienced before. We have been physically together 4 times, in between we have tried to text, but it always fails, it's been way to intense between us, which means we have not been ready, too much stuff to work through.

This all started 22 of July, almost a year ago, and oh mg the journey I have had, the intense pain, my God, the tears, the feeling that my soul have been ripped out of my body several times, it's been the most painful experience in my life, until I finally woke up and saw that I have been the runner, when I finally got why I had met him, he has been showing me all the things I had to work at to fix etc etc.

We have not been together for over 4 months, but we see each other several times a week and the work on the energy level has been insane, so much has happened, and so many fears I have had has popped up, and I have had to work through so much. I have become my authentic me, and my Twin has helped me so much, and our telepathy has become so strong the last few months.

I look younger I feel so powerful and my physic abilities has become stronger and stronger, and I know now what work I want to do, because I have worked on my heart, it's been opened up, I love myself finally, I love how I look, how I feel and I just love this journey.

I still long for the day that we will be together and I know he does as well, but time is still not right, I have learned to be patience and not at least to trust the process. And the biggest lesson for me is to give up all my control and to not listen to my ego, trust my heart and trust the knowing above all.

When we will be together I don't know, we both have had our hearts really damaged in the past and that takes time to mend.

But in the meantime, I love my journey and how I'm growing every day. I have stopped living in the 3D world, I live in on a different frequency now, and even when we are not seeing each other I feel him all the time.

I know when he gets up every day, when he thinks of me, and when he sleeps, our bond is so strong that it keeps me going to better myself and to grow the love I have for myself and the rest of the world.

Jun 23, 2015
by: Ance


I met this guy and we had been together for 6 years. I was sure then he was my Twin Flame.

I can't put my words into our situation, but all I know whatever I told him about my life before I met him, and about my wishes and dreams, it all came true for him and his married wife and children.

I don't understand this Twin Flame relationship anymore, but I'm broke, jobless, divorced, shouldering 2 kids, have an unusual "genetic" liver problem that none in my family or distant relatives had it.

Just very lost.

Jun 18, 2015
by: Anonymous

I met my twin 4 years ago and miss her everyday.

I know we are both dealing with a lot, seems like we cross paths more and more lately. It's like I'm good doing my own thing and BAM it like she's going, I'm still here please don't forget me I hope that we get our chance to talk.

I'm sure she scared and trying to figure out what this connection is. I remember it hitting me a week after our very first meeting and having a vision of her.

A lot of emotion ran through me I admit I didn't recognize her at first. I believe she recognized me though. I would visit her to see her even though it wasnt a lot till we were separated.

Still now haven't seen or talked to her, I replay our time together though missing her everyday .

I just hope she remembers me...I know our time will come Soon to see each other again.

Jun 14, 2015
2nd Session Today : a Big Thank You
by: Engee

Dear Tanya,

Thank you for the 2nd session today. It was not only enlightening, but actually empowering in many ways. I did not know how past life emotions can have such a profound effect on my present life issues. Thanks to you.

I believe I will be able to heal myself from all the negative and toxic emotions I have been carrying within me across lifetimes.

I will touch base again soon, as I continue on the journey of spiritual evolution, awakening and healing and make a conscientious attempt to resolve the issues that have bothered me in this current lifetime.

Once again a big thank you for today.

Best Regards

Jun 12, 2015
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

I know I always say that one needs to trust their intuition. But if you are confused, your confusion can alter what you are receiving because the channel is blocked.

Something is telling me that you do not feel worthy of allowing yourself to have a session that will help you. It is like a gift to yourself.

I also give 1/2 hour sessions at $35.

When you are ready, contact me here.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jun 11, 2015
by: NM

Dear Tanya,

I have come to the realization that perhaps neither of the gentlemen I encountered were my twin flames.

I am taking a deep look within myself. However, I have been experiencing the 11:11 more frequently. This always happens when I am upset, but now I am okay and it does not matter about these men only how I feel about myself.

I wish them well. Both oddly had similar qualities. Both I believe cheated on their spouses. So, I feel they are cheaters. I don't know how I know I just know. I hope I am wrong, but don't think so which let's me know I have to re-examine myself.

A reading will be great when I can afford it. I really need to understand this situation. However, I do believe these men were in my past life, good or bad.


Jun 07, 2015
Session Today
by: Engee

Hi Tanya,

Thank you for the session today.

I was overwhelmed by the amount of information you have shared (regarding my past life relationship with my twin flame) and I may have work to do to process everything that we discussed today.

The healing exercises that you helped me to go through, has helped me release all the negative emotions I have been carrying for so long and I have never felt so relaxed, so enlightened, so uplifted in a long long time.

I believe I may be needing more sessions to identify and resolve all my problems and I shall be touching base with you about the same fixing up a suitable time for appointment.

Once again thank you very much for everything today. It does help in giving a proper perspective of things and how exactly I am supposed to handle issues I am facing at this time.

Best Regards,

Jun 06, 2015
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

Yes it is possible to have a deep love for someone who is not your twin flame. You can experience similar feelings for a soul mate whom you have known in a past life, even on several occasions.

But the twin flame connection is completely different, more intense, you can communicate telepathically and you know what the other is thinking and feeling.

To clear some of the confusion you are feeling, I strongly suggest you take a session with me to clear emotions and situations from past lives involving romantic relationships.

You can contact me for a session and pay through PayPal.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jun 06, 2015
by: NM

Is it possible to experience the energy, seeing the 11:11, and the deep love with one that is not your twin flame?

I experienced this in 2013 in May. Now thinking back with the first man whom I deeply loved I experienced the synchronicity - the runner and chaser experience.

My hair grew very long, my senses such as my smell was sharper and my creativity opened. I am an artist, enjoyed writing in Jr. High, but my writing increased. I started a book but now have stopped.

My hair is short again and I am not writing. The strange thing is that I am sensitive to others thoughts which may not be a good thing. I see the number 11 on the hour. However , I teach at other schools. I get along very well at one school with my other boss. He did say thank you, job well done. At that school the Yin Yang symbol with a prayer is posted on the wall in the lounge. To me that was a synchronicity as well.

However, for the first time I do like me.


Jun 05, 2015
by: NM

Thank you Tanya for the advice. I will take it to heart.

Is it possible to be totally confused about the two gentleman I mentioned and to see the synchronicities?

I saw the 11:11 on Dec. 25, 2013 for the first time with the first gentlemen. The relationship ended negatively, I broke my foot the spouse emailed me and this is why I feel he was my false twin. Now I am totally confused.


Jun 04, 2015
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

Perhaps you should look at the type of men you chose. There could be a pattern here that you need to examine.

Do they appear distant and cold? Do you fear intimacy and so chose men who are distant?

You will not find happiness with such a man, yet this is what you desire.

Go within and ask yourself questions, try to find out why you chose a particular type of man. Perhaps your father was like that, so that behavior is familiar to you?

If you have difficulty thinking about it, write everything down on paper - such as qualities you are looking for in a man, and how they make you feel and so on. After this exercise you will probably find out information about yourself.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jun 04, 2015
by: NM

I said goodbye personally as you suggested.

Maybe my boss is not my twin because he could have cared less. On a professional level he did not say thank you job well done, nothing.

I feel I worked very hard and feel I should have gotten at least a thank you, but nothing.

He only has eyes for the woman who is moving out of state. What a jerk. I am put off. What should I do?

The same situation happened two years ago, déjà vu. I have had my heart broken twice and do
not wish to go through this again. I do have self worth.

Jun 03, 2015
by: NM

Thank you so much for asking about my health.

I have on and off episodes of the tingling. I went to the doctor who took tests and will get my results on Monday. The electronic malfunction stopped. How strange.

I will be leaving my job where I think my boss is my twin. I will say goodbye face to face.
Thank you for the advice.

The woman I believe he is involved with is leaving also.

The other day one of my co workers told her I need furniture. Before I knew it she asked for my number to sell me her furniture. Sometimes the children at my job call me by her name.

I believe she is involved with my boss who I care deeply for. I don't know why I feel he is with her I just know. Strange. I was in the same situation around this time last year with my false twin and a another woman he was involved with. How strange, it's like déjà vue.

I don't know why I feel this way. I am not sure about my boss, but I know there is a connection. Sometimes when we meet in the hall he looks at me which I feel we both feel awkward. I know this phenomenon exists, but I am not sure if he does.

I think he is my twin, but don't want to
make the same mistake I did two years ago.

My boss is short I am short. He is moody I am not. His office number is 11, and I see the number 11 constantly.

He drives a Mazda Miata which is the car I wanted, but ended getting another Mazda. He even has the same color I wanted.

I had a dream of him wearing certain clothes that I had never seen him wearing. He had the same clothes on down to the shoes I saw him wearing in my dream.

How strange.

Jun 03, 2015
Broken with a Very confused Heart
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Engee,

I feel that the woman you speak about is a soul mate, and something happened in a past life time that has not been resolved.

If you are interested in finding what exactly happened between the two of you, I suggest you have a past life session with me.

Contact me if you are interested, I will have any more information until I speak with you.

Sending light and love,

Jun 03, 2015
Broken with a Very Confused Heart
by: Engee

Hi Tanya,

There is a girl, I have known her as a friend since 2012. We were based in different cities hence mostly kept in contact via text messages.

I was going through my share of personal problems hence I ignored her for most of 2012-2014, although I knew she was interested in me back then.

Recently she played the role of a healer and helped me come through the most disgusting phase of my life so far.

Maybe because we were chatting continuously, I seemed to have developed some feelings for her. But when I heard she had a boyfriend for almost 2 years and is serious about him and planning to meet his parents to discuss marriage plans later in the year, I was heart broken.

The issue is the energy levels are driving me crazy. I have dreams about her frequently. Although I never professed my feelings to her as she says she is committed, but I have reason to believe she knows I like her. She herself has been flirty at times with me.

The connection is there. I can feel it, but I don't know how to handle the situation.

Is she a soul mate or a twin flame?

More importantly the thought of losing her is driving me insane.

How do I deal with this?


May 24, 2015
Stuck in Kindergarten
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Jenni,

Deep within you know the reason why you reacted that way you did. You said,

"I think a part of me knows that there are some issues of mine that I need to work on, and I know I avoid most relationships."

You answered your own question.

You were extremely hurt in relationships in past lives, perhaps even felt betrayed, and I'm sure he was in at least one of them.

It is important to explore and find reasons for your emotions, and once they are released, you will be able to move forward and not feel so traumatized.

This is the work I do to help others - unlock emotions that prevent them from having success and happiness in relationships with friends and partners, and in their working lives.

If you are ready to do this work, contact me for a session(s).

Sending light and love,

May 24, 2015
Stuck in Kindergarten
by: Jenni


Last September, I wasn't in the best place - I was generally confused, uneasy, and depressed. At the time I began self medicating with antidepressants which sort of withdrew me a little further.

Anyway, I started the semester and on the first day I remember glancing at this guy, feeling a sense of recognition and thinking to myself that if I were in a better state I would definitely be interested.

So going forward for the following month of classes I would go into class and rush out as soon as it was over not really speaking or looking at anyone. Although I was aware of him, but just writing it off.

Then in October I stopped taking the medication, and began feeling better, more optimistic/driven, and involved with the class. When this happened, one day I stayed a little after class to catch up on notes and I locked eyes with him. It was so intense I had to look away. He seemed to be dazed, staring at me afterwards.

I was speaking to another classmate and I noticed as soon as I spoke he perked up glancing back. From then on in each class he would sit near me and I'm telling you I can't even describe the intensity of the energy I felt flowing between us.

This has never happened to me before - I felt that my root and heart chakra were open, I felt such a flow of energy that made me feel like I was on a high. It was just so intense. The first time I heard him speak in the class, as soon as I heard his voice, I was mesmerized...its as if my heart and ears knew that voice, it was just so familiar.

Going on I waited to see if he would speak to me, but he seemed hesitant, and every time I wanted to say something I couldn't I just got so scared by the intensity. But the thing is I know he wanted to, I could feel what he was feeling.

One example is: one day I forgot my glasses and to see the board I moved away from him. I felt such nausea throughout the whole lesson and I know it wasn't coming from me. I've been seeing him randomly at school since. Whenever I think of him, actually each time, I'm feeling such an energy, I'm so drawn to him, but also get so frozen that I want to run in the other direction.

I keep getting signs that remind me of him.

I don't know what it is, am I just not ready for this connection? Or am I going crazy, misinterpreting these energies because if we are twin flames I would at least speak to him?

We both just graduated university, (with the same majors) I don't know if I'll ever see him again, or if I completely butchered it. Why is it that I couldn't get myself to speak to him?

I think a part of me knows that there are some issues of mine that I need to work on, and I know I avoid most relationships.

I'm so confused, because I swear I didn't imagine all of this.

What do you think about this situation?


May 19, 2015
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi NM,

Leaving without saying good bye personally, but with a card is very cold and impersonal.

Put yourself in his shoes, would you appreciate only a card saying good bye?

I feel you will regret saying good bye with a card. There is nothing like face-to-face encounters no matter how scary it might be for you to do so.

I suggest that you do an exercise in releasing all the fear, anxiety, insecurity etc. that you are feeling towards this fellow and then meet with him to tell him you are leaving, if not in the office, do it over a coffee in a restaurant or cafe.

Wouldn't you prefer that?

Only my suggestion.

On another issues, how are feeling with the tremors and electronic failures you spoke about 1 month ago?

Sending light and love,

May 18, 2015
by: NM

I am leaving one job to start another, and I am leaving the man that I feel a connection with.

I think he may be my twin, but I cannot bring myself to say good bye face to face.

I plan to give him a card to say thank you when he is not in his office.

Please advise.

May 18, 2015
by: Doobie

Well, I have just read your post.

I found out about Twin Flames about 3 yrs ago. I know that I had met mine 47 yrs. ago. Long story short we played the dance for most of that time. Then he passed and went HOME 9 months ago, and I wonder why I am existing, let alone laughing and being happy a lot of the time.

After reading your post it made sense...I had always felt him and now it is no different I feel him all the time and he sends me things etc...but your post made me realize that of course I am feeling his happiness, that he is having his bliss just as much as I feel his presence at times...

Thanks for your post and I bet you are feeling that as he thinks he is happy at this point in time, so you feel it and of course you are thinking I should be sad or miserable. That's why the Twin Flame relationship really doesn't make sense yet it makes perfect sense...It is as wonderful as it is horrible, and as easy as it is, is is also hard...You get it.

God bless...

May 18, 2015

by: Tanya

Hello Alidan,

Yes, a twin flame relationship can be very confusing because it is unlike any relationship we have had.

You will feel what he feels and vice versa. The fact that you are not brokenhearted about his new relationship is good. Twin flames do not own each other, they are each here for their individual journey, and to help one another along the way, especially with unconditional love.

You will never feel alone in this world now that you have met your twin flame because you are a part of one another.

Sending light and love,

May 17, 2015
by: Alidan

So I think I have met my twin flame.

Ever since meeting him, I have been on a roller coaster of emotions...more intense than usual. I had a bad experience one day and I was very upset, almost in tears, when all of a sudden, I felt fine and calm...out of the blue. I think it was my twin flame comforting me.

Today, I found out that my twin flame is in a new relationship that started yesterday. I thought I would be furious and sad and brokenhearted, but nope, I wanted to jump up and down and everything.

It is a strange feeling for me. I mean, the guy I have intense feelings for is with someone else and ignoring me..."running"

Me being so calm and happy about this situation, could that mean he's my twin I still feel him...maybe I'm feeling his happiness with his new girlfriend.

May 14, 2015
Twin Flame or Not
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello So Confused,

He definitely sounds like a twin soul.

A twin soul will affect you deeply, and you both will help each other in ways you cannot explain because the relationship is not bound by any normal standards between people

If he is your twin flame, you can communicate on the soul level, you do not have to be eye-to-eye and he will receive your message, but he will probably not tell you.

If you are not together as friends, you are both probably not ready. If it's meant to be, you will be together. Remember you both have your own life journeys.

Allow whatever is happening and don't try to understand or analyze it because you cannot. Learn and grow as you have been doing, and appreciate him for being in your life.

Read my comments to Sweetsoul made on April 30th.

Sending light and love,

May 13, 2015
Twin Flame or Not? so confused
by: A.

I think I meet my twin soul when I was 14 in 7th grade.

He sat across from me in science class he was only 13. I remember him always making funny faces when the annoying dude beside me turned his back it always made me smile.

At that same time he told my brother that I had beautiful green eyes when he was at his house for a party. His little brother was fiends with my little brother for years. I always looked forward to seeing him. I didn't know what it was about him that I was so attracted to because I knew I didn't have a crush on him. He just felt so familiar.

Then the next school year he unknowingly took away a dear friend from me. She was my life. We did everything together. I was at her house more than my own. I was like a spiritual sister. We use to say after school we would both move in to a house together. I felt complete with her.

Than she started suddenly drifting from me at 15. She became friends with other people including him. I remember being excited she had became friends with him because I thought it would be awesome to be his friend, something I had wanted for a long time. But then she left me and consequently so did he.

After that I went into a painful depression that I thought was going to kill me. I never would have thought it was because of him because after that he never crossed my mind.

In high school we didn't have much of a connection. But he did sit right beside my twin sister a whole semester in honors biology, they talked every day.

All through high school I was incredibly lonely because I had no friends. I felt deep down though that there was someone out there who felt the same way. I felt a deep longing for an unknown person, but none of the acquaintances I had filled that space.

Starting back to 6th grade when I was twelve I started writing stories of different characters who would become friends with a twin stranger. Or I would make a character who would wake up one day, look in the mirror and realize their appearance had morphed with different hair and eye colors. And I would make someone somewhere else in the world going through the same thing slowly there appearances slowly changing. Then the two people would meet.

It has changed everything I have ever thought I understood about love. I never used to like gay people then in high school he comes out gay. Suddenly I except gay people because he's gay and he's a beautiful person. I thought if he's gay then being gay is alright because there is nothing wrong with him.

Then I started looking up sexuality and discovered my own asexuality. Which then lead to the discovery of my gender identity. Which lead to an amazing story idea I have yet to write. I am now minoring in gender.

The closer I get to him the closer I get to myself. I didn't know twin flames even existed until march when I suddenly realized he's been the center of all my self discovery and growth.

He's always been there to push me in the right direction even if it was painful. I started questioning what connection he has with me when he followed me to college. I feel like he followed me here for a reason.

I'm now 21 and he's 20 and I feel like I have to become a part of his life before it's too late. I don't want to lose him again. But every time we get close to meeting there's always something in the way and it doesn't happen.

Sometimes I feel like the chaser and other times I feel like the runner. I just wish we could be friends already because these emotions are quite painful sometimes.

Could he be my twin flame?

Apr 30, 2015
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Sweetsoul,

I had to change the name of your title because I accidentally deleted the original title "Twin Flame Hidden Meaning".

Your original title is "A Bad Situation".

Here's my response to you:

Yes, this is your twin flame, aka twin soul and you are bound eternally. Your love for one another is on a soul level which you recognize in each other, and it doesn't have anything to do with physical love. This kind of unconditional love is what every human being needs to recognize, learn and to accept.

Because of earth's ascension and energy levels rising, more and more twin flames are meeting and attracting one another.

You do not have to be with your twin physically to have a relationship. You are friends and will be eternally - it is a deep soul bond.

You have much to learn from one another, he is awakening the male side of your being and you his female side. Many men are uncomfortable with their female side and dealing with their emotions, and so they rather run than face them.

Meeting your twin is also about acceptance of him/her and yourself, and learning and discovering your inner self. You need to allow one another to follow your paths that you agreed to do before you came to earth this time.

A twin soul relationship is not easy by any means, it is not meant to be easy, learning about yourself is not easy - it is work and many would rather not do it. But it is extremely rewarding.

Being in the physical body is about learning about one's self, and giving back to humanity and planet earth who needs it more than ever right now.

When twins get together they can move mountains if it's meant to be, but you both have to be on the same level spiritually.

As you learn to know and accept yourself, you will so the same with your twin because he/she is the male/female side o f your being.

Sending light and love,
spiritual advisor/counselor/coach

Apr 27, 2015
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: A.


I was previously in love with someone who left me for a mutual friend.

That sent me into a psychosis and eventually spiritual crisis. I lost the desire to be romantically involved with anyone. I really wanted to remain alone forever and just drift through life, simply observing life, not participate in it anymore.

That's when I had two dreams of a faceless man. The first dream was absolutely amazing. He didn't say or do anything. He just stood next to me and I felt something so profound that it shocked me. It was love. Real love. The only way I can explain it is that it was true and pure acceptance and understanding of my very core being.

This feeling was so familiar, but it was as if I had forgotten it. When I woke up I had a feeling that this man was real. I fell in love with the dream.

Then a while later I dreamed another dream of a faceless man that was very scary and that chased me around university. I was terrified that he would catch me and strip my clothes of. I ran to the basement, but he caught up with me. But then he just stood there and looked at me. He was breathing heavily like a beast. I understood that he wanted my life and attention, but was incapable of communicating, so he tried to get my attention through intimidation.

Well, just weeks after the dreams I met that man. He appeared in my university. Not only did I recognize him as the beast, but also the one who loved me. He looked just like me, but he was male.

I immediately went up to him and started talking. He seemed scared of me. I went up to him two times. The second time I sat next to him I had a kundalini awakening, in the middle of class. I telephathically spiked with him. It was as if Our spirits rose above our bodies and embraced each other. It was blissful. It felt like there was a little ball of energy created between us and We took care of it together, like a mother and a father.

Soon after that things became very different. I realized that I was in love, and I had no skills to communicate or relate intimately with someone. So I became afraid and avoided him. And he did the same.

Still, We seemed to have a soul connection which made it possible to feel each others feelings and thoughts. Of course I could be imagining things, but I'm pretty sure I know him on a soul level.

It has turned out that I can always predict what he is going to do. Nothing he does surprises me. Here is where things get complicated. I have a friend, a girl, whom I adore. She is a soul friend, too, and similar to me in soul. She also happens to be gorgeous. I knew that as soon as this man and she met they would fall in love, because I know this man and my friend have a deep soul connection.

Sure enough, that's what happened. Again, I found my self losing a love interest to a mutual friend. I have come to accept that this man is in love with her. I understand him because if I were a man, I would be in love with the too.

BUT the problem is that I think that he is my twin flame. Even though he chose her over me and treated me pretty badly. He started ignoring me when he met her, and I think it was partly because of her and partly because he was overwhelmed by me. It's not like I chased him, but I was pretty messed up at that time and gave him bad vibes.

Anyway, after ignoring me for six months, one day he came to class and suddenly stood before me and looked at me with the most loving gaze, which was also full of pain. His eyes were so heavy that I was drawn into him energetically, and it was as if there was an energy circulating between us infinitely.

This energy felt very sexual and overwhelming. Both of us got scared and kind of started ignoring one another again. All that happened between us was energetic. We never even talked. We tried a few times, but it was too awkward.

I think he really wanted to be friends, but I just couldn't, specially knowing and actually feeling his feelings for my friend. Not knowing what else to do I ran away and started a new life with my new boyfriend.

I have no intention on contacting him. In fact I wish I could forget about him. But I can't. It's just not possible. meeting him was like meeting a twin brother that I always longed for but didn't even know it. You don't forget someone like that.

I also had an astral traveling dream recently where I merged with my higher self. I know without a doubt that I have a male twin in the fifth dimension, and his energy was just like this man's energy. it could possibly also be my father, but I actually think it is more likely this man.

But it's hard to tell because he and my father have a similar soul energy. But I feel a slightly more intense energy from this man than from my father, so I think he is the twin.

The problem is that I know that we cannot be together. First of all he is not in love with me as a person, although I know He is deeply affected by me. The second reason is that I myself don't want to be with him because it brings up too much pain.

I wonder could he really be my twin if he could do the same thing with me that the last guy did? I don't know.

I will also mention that since I met him I have had a flashback of him from a previous life. He was the love of my life in that life too. I don't know what happened between us, all I saw was a scene where I was looking at him adoringly. He was a completely different person, very shy and delicate, not at all the mans man he is in this life. But his soul was the same.

He was in love with my friend, she is his great love from lifetime to lifetime I think...and He is mine. When I looked at him in that scene he looked away like he was too shy to look at me.

I would love to get some insight. I feel lost in all This. my gut feeling is that he is in love with my friend and it is a pure love, but of a more human kind.

I think that we are twin souls, and our love is a soul love only. We are completely incompatible. How can I deal with this bond knowing that We cannot be together?

Is this an eternal bond, or is it a chakra bond which I should try to sever? I really could need some insight.

Thank you.

Apr 26, 2015
Interesting Phenomenon
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

I know exactly what it is.

You need help with this, I know how debilitating it can be. I, too, experienced this and now I know what it is and how to help you.

Try and find a way to receive financial assistance. Appeal to the spiritual realm.

Your physical health is very important, and should be at the top of your list for reaching your goals. Without it, you can't do anything, it's priceless. I cannot express in words, the value of one's health. Unfortunately, many people take it for granted.

For me, my health is extremely important and without it, I could not do the things I do.

Sending healing vibrations,

Apr 26, 2015
Interesting Phenomenon
by: NM

At the moment, I am experiencing electronic failure in terms of my computer and IPhone and some physical ailments.

I would love to do the online counseling, but will have to wait for a month. I experienced extreme energy two years ago, but now am experiencing this crazy electronic failure, tingling which I have had checked before by Doctors that say there is no real cure which drives me nuts.

It started up again after 2 years

Apr 25, 2015
Twin Soul?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello A,

I can understand your concern for your daughter.

There is no way she can change how this fellow is feeling. It sounds like she is very sensitive and can feel what others are feeling.

I'm not sure this other fellow is her twin soul.

What is important is that she realizes she cannot change anyone, only herself and she needs to put her children before this fellow.

If he is running, let him go. It is just as well. He needs more life lessons to catch up with your daughter.

Sending light and love,

Apr 24, 2015
Twin Flame?
by: A.

My daughter connected with a man through a harmless Facebook congrats comment after he became an uncle last June.

They had a 3 week romance and during that time he revealed he had a crush on her in school. He is almost 6 years younger than her. To make a long story daughter was going through a divorce and he lived with his opinionated parents and they separated on his part.

He moved on she tried to move on, but to no avail. They have connected several times over the last 9 months, but when the make plans to meet he backs out.

This has happened 7 times and has hurt my daughter every time. He ignores her. I think he's scared to see her because of her recent divorce and drama as well she has 3 young children as he is only 24.

Is there a way to make him realize they are meant for each other as twin souls. My daughter could feel when he was sick and in hospital without being told.

Apr 20, 2015
Twin Flame Dreams
by: NM

To longing,

I too had an occasional dream.

I had a dream of this man with certain clothes on to whom I feel a deep connection.

Shortly after, he was wearing the same shirt he had on in my dream in a meeting we were attending.

Previous to that time he also wore the pants and shoes as I saw in my dream.


Apr 19, 2015
Twin Flame Dreams
by: Longing


I have known this guy since high school who I think is my twin flame. While we never officially dated we used to hang out all the time.

After we graduated we both moved on in our separate lives but I never stopped thinking about him. In that same period of time I had a friend that went to college with him and he told me that he and the guy talked about me, and I asked, "Good or "bad?" and he said good but never told me what was said.

Fast forward a couple years, then I was able to see him often, but at this time I was married with kids ans it seemed we always had a connection.

Again we lost contact. Then fast forward a couple years and we connected again (yes I'm still married)seeing each other on and off in a public setting. Since then we have kept in contact through various instant message platforms.

During this time (from beginning to now), every once in a while I would have dreams about him.

Now it seems I'm having dreams of him more often and even though we both are married with kids. Now in the dream, he has started telling me he loves me.

In my last dream we were with our families at different houses that was next to each other and I was lounging on the patio and he was playing music at the other house (he is a musician on the side also). Then I mouthed to him play something for me. So he had some sheet music on a stand and when he flipped the page over it hung over the back of the stand and on it was written, I love you. It seemed everyone else couldn't see the note or what he was playing just for me.

So I just want to know if he is my twin flame or not. After 30 years I can't get him out of my head or my heart. I know we can't be together since we both are in relationships, but maybe one day fate will bring us together if it's meant to be.

Apr 18, 2015
Twin Flame confusion - Energy Stealer?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Georges,

My feeling is that the woman you described is not your twin flame.

You became chakra linked to this woman which can be very devastating. Go on the internet and search for chakra links and learn how to balance your chakras.

Sending healing vibrations,

Apr 18, 2015
Twin Flame Confusion -- Energy Stealer?
by: Georges

I met a woman in January of soon as we met I knew that I would be going through something with this spirit soul.

There was an instant telepathic communication. She (telepathically) told me I would have to work for it...and when she was leaving the room as I was turned around she (telepathically) started screaming "LOOK!"...after several "LOOK"'s I gave in and turned around and my eyes went straight to her crotch area. Strange?

Anyway...the pull was incredibly strong which led me to reappear at the same venue where I saw her frequently. A lot of energy...karma burning away...attraction etc. After a few meets I told her that I had become infatuated with her and I felt a huge activation of my heart chakra and we hugged. Keep in mind the place we would see each other at involved group meditation so there was a lot of energy flow and spiritual advancement.

The dance continued for a few months...including sexual dreams, crystal clear telepathic communication and Kundalini awakenings.

At one point I completely let her go, but the next time I was at the place she said, "Hi" to me and I was hooked again. She would sometimes be psychically violent.

The last time I went to that venue, the energy that I was feeling was at an all-time high. After the festivities I offered her my poetry, but she told me the feelings were not reciprocal. I was upset so I disrespected one of the Deities (religious statue), a pujari (like a priest or a temple monk) saw me and had me banned for three months. Separation.

After that night the telepathic connection grew even stronger. I immediately stumbled upon twin flame information and it all made sense to me. I forgave her and the love grew stronger. We spent the summer communicating and loving telepathically.She telepathically told me to send her these prayers (not important) that I was using through Facebook. We weren't friends on Facebook, but we were aware of each others' pages.

I was scared, but I flipped a coin, which decided that I would send them. I sent them, she did not respond, but instead she blocked me. Strange? Hallucinations? The communication continued and I forgave her.

I would write music, put it online, she would listen to it and there would be a powerful exchange of energy even though we were apart. --

She was a bit controlling and would often tell me what to do and what not to do. I figured it was because she loved me so much. She had one of her friends call me. Although her friend did not identify herself, it was obvious because of the burning energetic release I felt because of the call...and other clues/details.

It was pretty much the same feeling I would feel when running into or seeing my alleged twin flame. The call was great...reassuring...I recognized it as her way of helping me energetically or something like that.

We would have a lot of "spirit sex" sort of like an imaginative tantra...but she would keep screaming "MORE"...very demanding. I forgot to mention that in the last few months that I WAS still seeing her IN PERSON, I was evicted from my apartment (sort of-- not allowed to renew lease)

I failed all of my classes of that semester, and couple of other unfortunate things happened. Fast forward back to August I was evolving spiritually. One night an apparition of her appeared in my temporary apartment. After that, I started seeing tons of apparitions of both alive and dead people like Jimi Hendrix.

She became extremely violent psychically...I think because she could not control was a lot to handle.

At the end of the month my mom helped moved me out, but when we got to our new home she called the police on me and sent me to the mental hospital. Rightfully so, I was completely bonkers.

I thought I was telepathically communicating with my entire soul group, illuminati bullshit, ridiculous story lines etc. etc. When I got out of the hospital I was doped up on medications, but I decided to spill my heart out to her through Facebook. I made a new account.

She did not answer, but telepathically she was laughing at me very violently. I contacted the friend that called me two months prior and she blocked my number. Ever since then we've been telepathically communicating regularly on and off.

She abused me a lot...tried to control me a lot...often psychically violent. Anyway, this past week if I looked at her through my third eye, spoke to her telepathically, or even thought of her I would start to feel sick in my stomach sometimes with headaches.

Sometimes she says "we're not twin flames" or "I'm gonna kill you" stuff like that. Other times she says the opposite. OH by the way, I attempted to return to that venue a month too soon so they banned me for another year.

Two days ago I read about the false twin flame. IN other words, an energy stealer...psychic vampire. Yeah man...I'm not sure what to think.

It's plausible because I was sky high energetically due to my spiritual practice before we met, but most of that energy is gone now. And then the whole mental illness thing (I feel great now by the medications :D ) and the recent feeling sick stuff.

The situation feels like a win win for me. She could be my twin flame, or preparation for meeting my twin, but I need to know the truth. Another theory is that she WAS my twin, but chose not to evolve and stayed in a lower vibration (jealousy, hatred, ego etc.) so the universe is now preparing me for a higher vibrational twin. Like some sort of higher self swap.

Because the fact is I cannot communicate with her or think of her anymore without feeling sick. Those days have come to an obvious end.


Apr 18, 2015
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

I can really feel your confusion.

At this point, I can help put some clarity in your life concerning the two men you speak about.

You have met them for specific reasons, and there are things I need to tell you that I cannot do in this post.

You can contact me here for a session, either 1/2 or a full hour.

In the mean time read my page concerning soul mates.

Sending healing vibrations,

Apr 17, 2015
by: NM

Thank you Tanya.

I will click on your link and try to meditate. I think I am afraid to make a mistake because I felt I met my twin Flame 2 years ago. This I know is that the man I met 2 years ago was a false twin. This I feel in my heart. He hurt me deeply.

Negative things started to happen to me when I met him. The relationship was very short lived, 2 months. We were not intimate, but the sexual energy was very strong. I could feel him sexually often all times at any given moment. I had very strong sexual dreams very realistic.

He dumped me for another woman at work and did not even care. I knew because I felt it in my heart the moment the other woman mentioned his name.

He had been in prison, but I imagine turned his life around.

Now my boss I was not planning to have any feelings for. He hired me over the phone so I never met him. The moment we both met at work I knew at that moment we had a deep connection. It took me aback because I was not expecting it. He held my hand and would not let it go. He stared at me at our first meeting, and now I know at times he looks at me. He is very quiet around me and I am with him. I feel our relationship is strained. I really feel at times he wants to be with me, but we both know that cannot happen because he is my boss and is married.

I have been transferred to another school. I am in love with this man and don't know why. I feel nervous around him and calm at the same time. I feel as though we fit like a puzzle which is really strange. I feel in my heart that maybe he is my twin but am afraid to be wrong.

I feel as though I want to be with him, but not necessarily in a sexual way. I could just be with him, hold his hand, talk to him. He is very moody and was rude to me because I was very upset with him, because I feel in my heart he is having an affair with another woman at work. I found myself in a similar situation 2 years ago with my false twin. That is why I am reluctant to admit that maybe he is my twin. I don't feel obsessed with him like the false twin 2 years ago.

After my first experience with my false twin, my psychic abilities have increased. My grandmother was a medium, and I see them also, but don't want to.

I feel I can read people now which is really strange. I now say to myself oh that is just your imagination. But this man makes me happy. It is okay if I cannot be with him because I want him to truly be with his wife and leave the woman he is having an affair with alone.

Am I losing it?

Apr 17, 2015
Met My Twin, But I Am Married.
by: Lace

So about 6 months ago he came walking into my kitchen....

I should preface this with I have been married for 8 years, with my husband for 11 years. We have been relatively happy through out our marriage and we have 2 amazing children. We were going through a bit of a rough patch when K walked into my life, but in no way had I ever considered ending my marriage, or leaving my husband.

So back in November, my husband went to visit an old friend (k). They had a good time talking and catching up. The following week, K was invited to our place for a visit... The moment I laid eyes on him, I knew there as something really special about him.... something I couldn't really identify.

Long story short, he and I began connecting. We would go for walks in the woods, talk, text... We both knew we shouldn't be talking, let alone getting together, but we did it anyways. I can only describe it as being drawn to him, like a moth to flame. When we are together, my whole body, every cell sings. I can remember saying to him once, "every cell in my body is crying out for me to touch you". He tells me he feels the connection I feel too... talk about being bitch slapped by serendipity.

I also need to interject that K is in a bad place in his life right now. He has Baby Momma drama like mad. I know he and I can't have a "normal" relationship, that is not really what I am after. I just want him in my life, as a friend/lover.

Fast forward to last month, my husband found out I was talking to K... and was devastated. He can be a bit of a jealous guy, and I was very honest with him about my feelings for K. He has asked me not to talk to K anymore. He also laid into K, and said some really terrible things. K has stopped talking to me, saying he wants me to work on my marriage. I think he is scared of the fall out of my failed marriage coming down on him. I don't blame him, my husband blames him for our current crisis.

I know on some level K is right, I should want to fix my marriage... but really all I want to do is have K in my life. I am aware of just how selfish this is... My husband and I have started counseling, in hopes that it will help fix things.... and the counselor says I should stop talking to K too, so I guess I have to let go and see where the universe takes us all.

It is so hard to know K exists, and stay where I am I have said to him so many times "I didn't know I was lonely until I saw your face".

Apr 15, 2015
Not Sure What To Do
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello NM,

Yes, I remember your post and I asked you to trust your intuition and to meditate.

Twin soul relationships are tricky and no two are alike. The reasons for your meeting at this time, only God knows. I do know this - twin souls always agree to meet in a particular life time for specific reasons, and it does not necessarily mean you will be partners.

You could have a friendship, which I know can also be tricky if he is your boss.

You can learn much about yourself from a twin because he is the male side of you.

But, you must really learn to meditate, it will help you in finding answers about yourself, your reasons for being here at this time and your relationship and so on.

Go to my fist meditation page and start slowly at beginner's meditation and also read one minute meditation.

You need to learn to keep your mind quiet and to focus on one thing while meditating such as focusing on your breathing.

If you need more information about yourself and your twin soul, book a coaching/wellness session with me at online sessions.

Sending light and love,

Apr 14, 2015
Not Sure What To Do
by: NM

I still am not sure if my former boss is my twin.

I feel a connection, but cannot meditate or don't know how. He knows I care for him and I feel he wants to be near me, but two years ago I really thought I met my twin flame.

Today I went in my former boss's office to tell him about a mix up at work . I thought I was leaving my position to be transferred to another so I emailed him my number for a reference. It really was innocent . When I went to his office and explained the mix up, but he just sat in his chair listening and smiling. I felt so embarrassed.

He didn't mention giving me a reference. I know you told me you believe he is my twin. I feel a deep connection, but I do not know what to do because he is married. I just don't know anymore, except for the deep feeling I have for this man.

Please advise

Apr 12, 2015
Can't Stop Thinking About Him, Is He My Twin Soul?
by: Rose


I met my twin 28 years ago, I was 17 and very much in 'love' with my boyfriend at that time. (I thought that was love).

I went to a new school and there I saw him! Love at first sight, I knew at that moment that I would never feel anything like this for anyone ever again. He was in a relationship for 6 years and I broke up with my boyfriend because off the strong feelings for my twin. We were inseparable, everyone thought we were a couple, but we weren't.

So I tried to convince him that being single was great and a steady relationship was kinda boring. (I hoped he'd break up with his girlfriend). We both were to proud to admit how we felt for each other so when we finally kissed.

He finally broke up and I had to go on with this game of being single is great and date with other guys. And so did he. My ego was to big to tell him that I only wanted him. Anyway he went back to his old girlfriend.

I was heartbroken but calm, I felt that this wasn't the end and that there would be a second chance.

Three years later we met each other on and off, but he showed no interest in me, so I moved on and I got married, and had children. He married 12 years or so ago and has 2 children.

Over the years I thought it was best not to see or hear from him because it would disturb my marriage.

Now I'm single for 5 years (no dates or anything) and last month I began to dream about him. (he was pregnant in my dream). And I can't stop thinking about him 24/7!

I'm seeing 1111, 1000, 111. But I don't have a telepathic bond with him so I'm not sure if he's my twin?

And if not, "Why is this happening, why can't I just forget about him?"

I'm tired after 28 years trying to get over him. I never knew how he really felt about me, (it felt like a deep love but he never said anything) only that he wanted me from the very first moment he laid eyes on me.

Can you tell me what's going on with me?

Apr 12, 2015
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Carlos,

Hang in there, it's good to see that you are following your heart, that is the most important thing.

You are both helping each other to heal just by being in each others' presence. This is what happens in a twin flame relationship once you get over what you think a relationship should be like and your expectations.

It is unlike anything you have ever felt before, and the emotions between you go right to the core of your soul, after all she is your spiritual twin.

Just be yourself, open-minded and present (in the moment) and the relationship will take you on the ride of your life!

Sending light and love,

Apr 11, 2015
by: Carlos

I met my Twin Flame six months ago.

I felt this intense instant connection with someone whom I barely knew. Initially, I thought that it was just a little crush. But as time went on my feelings just grew and grew. There was just this feeling that I recognized her from somewhere before.

We would get lost in each others was beautiful. Just by being around each other, well it felt like home.

One day I was sitting down when she came through the door. We both froze and stared at one another. It felt like we were downloading a bunch of information in our minds or something.

By being in each others presence it felt like we were both healing on a certain level. Like we were healing our inner child. Soon after we made physical contact for the first time (just a nudge)I had a very intense kundalini awakening.

As time went on when we were in each others' presence our telepathy was getting stronger and stronger. It was a joy for us both to see each other three or four times a week. I thought 'I'm so glad that we have found each other'.

Then came the separation. You see, I was a client in her place of work and it's considered wrong, the idea that there should be any form of communication between us outside that environment.

Quite frankly, I couldn't give a damn about someone's petty rules and regulations. I was in love, of course i still love her, I have found my twin flame. If anything, I found it a turn on that it was considered forbidden by some. To be fair, she has more to loose than I do. Maybe there are deeper reasons at work here also...I don't know.

I go and visit her sometimes, which I know that she likes, as do I. But because of the environment, the people around us, well there are a lot of restrictions there.

I want to get to know her. I don't want to walk away from something that feels so right on so many levels. Something just fits, something just gels with us. In my heart, well she's the girl I love. I hope that someday, we can get to the next Twin Flame stage.

Apr 07, 2015
Weird Chemistry With My Potential Twin Flame
by: Wujoka

I don't know...sometimes I am in doubt, and other times I know by heart that he is my twin flame...see, we are both still young and I was introduced to my twin flame through my sister that has met hers.

I didn't get that instant feeling of recognizing his soul before a couple of months of knowing him (we're in the same class).

One day I stood there, completely frozen, looking at him and wondering why I recognized him in a more spiritual way.

Besides, I am a very loud person, but whenever he is around I become shy. We have this strange chemistry...we don't speak a lot, but we stare at each other.

I am the one who usually catches him staring and since it is so intense I have to look away. I often ignore his stares when we are looking at each other from a distance. I feel so vulnerable and exposed!

But those times we've been one on one, I feel calm looking into his eyes, I feel at home. I could stare into his eyes forever. Although I know he feels the same way, I told him that I was feeling this vibe and had feelings for him. But he responded that I shouldn't let the vibe kill the flow, whatever that meant. I also feel that I am picking up his feelings.

Apr 03, 2015
Go Get It
by: Anonymous

I was in an unhappy relationship for 7 years with no passion, and no intimacy. We were together mainly for fiscal reasons.

One day she says, "Let's talk your not happy and I'm not happy. I agree and we both decide to split. FYI I'm a 31 year old male.

The very next day at work, we hire a 20 year old girl who looks very similar to me and the second we lock eyes we both felt and overwhelming sense to be with each other. The signs were everywhere, believe me when I tell you, it was like the universe would not let it be. Immediately I felt like I've found my twin. She suffers from depression, has tried to end it once and has scars to prove it.

Then it completely dawned on me that we both needed to learn the lessons we just been through in our life before we could be together. We both didn't need to say anything, we knew we were meant to be together and that the universe put us together to finally end our journey with serenity and love cause its been a long one not just this life but past ones as well.

Sorry, if this makes no sense, at times its so hard to put the feeling of your soul into words. But I know at times I always thought I was destined for failure, name it.

Now this, and the feeling of being complete and completely connected on all fronts is amazing. I don't fear anything. I believe in God now and would be content moving on tomorrow cause I know who I'm spending eternity with.

So long story short, if this is your twin your not ready yet until you learn all the lessons you need to, himself included. When it's meant to be it will be so overwhelming there will be no doubt in your mind and you can't make it happen, no bad karma, it has to happen by unseen forces. But be careful what you wish for, feeling the pain of your half can be to much to bear at times.

But hang tough, if it's your twin you too will be together. The universe won't allow you too be separated.

Best of luck hope you get to experience what I have, it's truly amazing!

Mar 30, 2015
What Can I Do, I Think He's My Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

We met through work 6 years ago, he was in a relationship at the time so we just became friends.

The relationship ended in 11/14 and he asked me out 2/14/14 when the day before I had written to my other half. I had never heard of twin flames before, but had always had dreams growing up and just knew there was one man out there for me.

I had not really dated much before, I always felt a no with guys. But when he asked me, I said yes. When we were together it felt (lime I had co e ho.e) What is this? for the first time, such a peace and a love.

He had grown up completely different from me and yet we had mutual friends and had never met up to that point - even been in the same place at the same time.

He started pulling back and then said he fell in love with someone else, a gal born exactly 20years before me. The astrological charts of the gal and I are very similar. We parted as friends, but both cried when he left. I have felt him and his thoughts over the months past. There isn't a day where I don't think about him and wish him well.

Over the months that he left I began having dreams and having animals in nature coming up to me, which I found through Facebook that he was experiencing the same things.

As I found out about the twin flame it sounded like what I've experienced. Never have I been able to love someone without being loved back, and so forgiving. It hurts so much to see him happy with someone else, but bittersweet because I see how happy he is and the great things he is giving to this woman and her family.

My question is, will I ever have a second chance in this life with him?

Mar 28, 2015
Twin Flame Feelings
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello CMAC,

I am happy for you that you have met your twin flame. It is a glorious feeling that everyone in this life time needs to experience because it transcends all the other relationships in their life, and teaches one what unconditional love is.

Twin flames (aka twin souls) come in to help one another and it seems to be happening quite regularly in this time frame.

If anything, your twin flame is relationship is showing you that you are not alone. Twin flames are always together in this life time and all others, and you can communicate with each other telepathically. I know it's different that talking on the telephone or texting or sending e-mails, but it is the communication of the future.

Through knowing your twin, you are learning how to love yourself unconditionally, it always starts with self and once you do that, you are able to show and give love to others without feeling any sense of loss.

The greatest gift in life is to able to give unconditionally, what you receive is ten fold.

You can overcome your depression, I know I had it for many years. it is about releasing all the negative emotions that you have turned inwards, and as you release them and learn to give to yourself and to love yourself, it sloughs off like old skin.

You can start by reading my pages on depression at how to deal with depression and you cal also write about your depression at depression.

If you can, also start writing a journal about all the memories you had as a child including all the incidences when you felt hurt, alone, lost, insecure and fearful. Once you get these emotions out on paper, you will start to feel better.

Sending healing vibrations,

Mar 27, 2015
Twin Flame Feelings
by: CMAC

Within the past year I have realized what the twin flame union is and I have come to believe that my husband's best friend is my twin flame.

I have never felt this way about anyone and I didn't even know it was possible. Nothing inappropriate has happened or been suggested, but when I am around him I can feel his energy like a fire and yet it makes me nervous because I am so comfortable with him.

My whole life I have battled depression, but since getting to know this man better and realizing our bond, I have been able to get past the feeling of being completely alone in this world.

I feel that there is more to life and no reason to let depression control me. Everything about how I see myself has changed and I am so grateful to have him in my life, in whatever capacity I can have him.

My husband is definitely a soul mate and although our marriage isn't perfect we love each other very much and I have no intentions of leaving him.

My twin flame has moved now so we don't see each other often, but I can't stop thinking about him, ever.

Is there something I can do to ease my mind?

Although I don't know what the future holds, I don't think that we will get to be together in this lifetime, and I wish there were something I could do to ease my yearning and how much I miss him.

Mar 21, 2015
Huge Age Difference
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello So Lost,

Yes, twin flame relationships are painful, but they are learning relationships.

Age plays no difference here. If you are in a marriage it is still where you need to be, you have things to learn from that relationship. You also need to learn to listen and to trust your intuition.

The twin flame relationship is very special, and if you both can remain friends without worrying about the age difference, great! You have much to learn about yourself in the twin flame relationship.

You can also learn from others in this blog regarding 'Twin Flame Hidden Meaning' and I urge to read the others' messages and comments, they are very informative.

Sending light and love,

Mar 20, 2015
Huge Age Difference
by: So Lost

I'm certain I have met my twin flame, over 3 years ago, both of us in relationships.

Fifteen months ago after much 'dancing' we brought our relationship to the physical level.

I feel his emotions telepathically. I will just think about him and then I receive a text from him. We speak things the other is thinking. We can spend hours talking, or saying nothing at all. There is a level of comfort with him that I have never experienced in my life with anyone else. He breaths life into me and I, calm and quiet into him.

For about 4 months now synchronicity has been running rampant. I will think of him, look up at the time and see 1010, 1221, 1212 or 111/1111. Or I see these numbers in things I'm reading. It is constant...but what does it mean? Sounds great, right?

But here is the kicker. He is 29 yrs younger than me and I'm married. Because of the age difference we decided there was no future for "us". He is on his 3rd relationship since we made ours physical.

Every time I try to put distance between us he pulls me back. We can't be together, but we can't stay away from each other. Being apart is so painful. How can something that feels so right hurt so much?

Am I wrong about him being my twin flame?

Mar 18, 2015
I Need Advice
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Nm,

I definitely feel that this is your twin flame. but you need to trust and follow your intuition, it is never wrong.

The fact that his office number is 11 is also a good sign, but your intuition comes first.

To tap into your intuition, I suggest you to meditate daily at least for 5 minutes and increase the time slowly. Just shut everything down and listen to your breathing and go into your heart and just feel. Your mind and body will thank you.

Keep a journal where you write down everything you felt during the meditation (afterwards). You will be amazed what you discover about yourself.

Sending love and light,

Mar 17, 2015
I Need Advice
by: Nm

I feel I have a connection with someone who hired me.

I cannot explain it, but I feel it is more than a physical attraction. I thought I met my twin flame 2 years ago, but after meeting this man I don't know.

Often we don't speak, but I feel he wants to be with me as I with him. His office is number 11.

Please advise.


Mar 17, 2015
Waiting for Him to Contact Me
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi CC,

I do believe the fellow in question is your twin flame. Rather than playing the waiting game, I suggest that you reach out to him.

Below are my comments that I wrote last August, 2014 on another blog about the twin flame connection. I hope it will help you to understand the relationship.

Meeting your twin flame is a wonderful spiritual gift. As I've mentioned many times, your twin flame is your mirror - the relationship shows you what you have to work on within yourself. Each one has their own journey and you cannot wait or expect your other half to be at the same place you are at spiritually.

Perhaps you may connect in this life time to be together or perhaps in another life time. You have to forget all of your expectations and experiences you have had in other relationships. You cannot place this relationship in a box.

The gift is that it shows you that you are not alone and you have a very special bond with another. Don't confuse that bond with any other relationship that you have today. The twin flame relationship shows you that there is something else besides the physical aspect of a love relationship - the kind that you are used to or expect. You cannot have expectations with a twin flame - you have to accept it as is and do your own inner work on your journey.

If painful emotions from your childhood surface because they are triggered by your twin flame, they are emotions you have to release because they are festering in your physical body and cellular memory and giving you pain. These are issues that have followed you in all of your life times, it is time that you work through them (understand them, do the forgiving, be thankful for the memory and then release them.) Hanging onto them will only cause you more pain

If you're having trouble doing so, contact me for a session. It is the very important work that I do in helping others attain inner peace and health. If you do not resolve your emotional issues, it will lead to chronic pain and serious illness.

Doctors are slowly realizing that emotions are behind many illnesses and chronic pain in the body and that drugs are not the only solution, they merely mask the pain.

Dr. Candice Pert, an American neuroscientist and pharmacologist did amazing research on the Cellular Memory which contains both Positive Emotional Charge (PEC) and Negative Emotional Charge (NEC) that is constantly flowing and influencing our state of mind and body health. According to Dr. Pert, the PEC is our soul's birthright. It can be described as an energy field of life force that is free flowing, expanding, peaceful, non-fearful, whole and alive beyond words, pleasure, and pain.

You can check out her research at Candace Pert, PhD.

Sending light and love,

Mar 16, 2015
Waiting For Him To Contact Me
by: CC

Hi Everyone,

Thirteen years ago I met a guy. We dated in a very short time. And then I left abroad. Before I left I wanted to see him, but he refused to see me.

I was young and stupid, flirting with other guys. He knew it. So I felt guilty, and thought he was right to hate me or dislike me. But it was sad that made me feel that I left something dear to my heart behind. That's it. End of the story. I forgot about the guy.

A year later I got married. I have kids, a regular family life...a peaceful life with my family.

And all of a sudden after 6 years, I started having dreams of the guy almost every night. It was weird. And then I was thinking of him every single day. I was obsessed with him. Lots of sorrow, regrets and grief.

I saw a psychic. She told me that he was thinking of me and we were sending energy to each other, feeling the same. And she said we are twin flames.

Now it's been 7 years since I started thinking of him. I never contacted him. I don't know what to do. Some say go ahead contact him, some say don't. Sometimes I think it's just my belief system that is going too high, just imagining things. And the guy's got nothing to do with me in reality.

But deep down I still have a hope that he and I are twin flames. I want him to realize the concept and to contact me. I'm waiting for him. I know where he is, and how to contact.

Mar 08, 2015
Healing for Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello A.

This is the time for many twin flames meeting again, and healing each other and the planet, it is also associated with the number 11.

Our twin is there to help us with our lessons in life and for support (this may not coincide at the same time), and much is learned from each other. It is about learning unconditional love, compassion, going with the flow and letting go of all attachments.

It is not easy to see someone you love suffering, I know. My partner was a drug addict and alcoholic, and I had many lessons to learn through him. I had to learn about tough love, acceptance and being able to let him go.

For more information on addictions, read my age at causes of drug addiction.

Fortunately, he was strong enough to let go of his addictions. It was not an easy road for the both of us, but we had about 10 years where he was sober. In the end, he had done so much damage to his physical body through his addictions; he died at the young age of 57.

All you can do for your twin is pray for him, be supportive when necessary (that does not mean enabling him) and be there when he finally decides to kick his habit. Remember it's about unconditional love.

In the mean time, you need to love yourself and do the things that you are passionate about and most important of all your inner work, and letting go of all extra baggage, meaning negative beliefs, patterns of behavior and emotions.

Sending healing vibrations,

Mar 05, 2015
Healing for Twin Flame
by: A.

I'm looking for advice.

My twin is addicted to drugs. We are not together physically, but I feel his suffering and it effects my day to day life. I'll be taking care of my kids when all of a sudden my heart feels like it being pulled apart and I feel panicky.

I've tried visualizing the cord between us bent so I don't feel so much of his stuff, but its still difficult.

I want him to feel happy and whole and I'm so sad that there's nothing I can do to help him.

So I just send love and blessings his way, but its as if my own foot is suffering and even cutting it off wouldn't stop the pain.

Any advice?

Feb 23, 2015
Hearing His Name
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello PatriciA,

Dreams are not easy to interpret. You have to look at all things in the dream because each person, thing, animal or whatever symbolizes something and it could only relate to you.

For example, a band means something to you, and a particular member of a band could symbolize something to you.

You always have to remember your emotions in the dream or when you woke up, also look at any colors in the dream if you remember.

If you are interested in your dreams, I suggest you keep a notepad by your bed, and as in a diary, each time you have a dream, write everything down that you remember from the dream.

After some time you may see a pattern, and similar situations, and objects, and people will keep re-appearing in your dreams.

It is said that dreams are the keys to your soul. Whatever is going on in your life will come out in your dreams.

Sending light and love,

Feb 22, 2015
Hearing His Name
by: PatriciA

Okay, so on Oct. 4, 2014 I started liking this guy he's a bit famous, I think.

Now I started listening to their songs then I had a crush on this one member, I don't feel any connection or anything. What surprise me was on 11/29/2014 I was eating lunch and my aunt was watching an all women's tennis match, I don't like watching tennis matches whatsoever. Then at that moment before it happened, it was like my soul is like "getting ready", then the Amp hire called his name. I'm completely shocked I looked at the players and they are all women, it was around 13:13pm.

I had a dream about him on 1/11/2015, we were in a spacious van. All his band mates were there including my school mate. He was caressing my thigh and I'm ignoring it, and then his head on my lap still caressing my thigh, and then we turned around and we were laughing. Then the van stopped and they left. One of his band mates said, "Don't worry he can do anything for you". Then my school mate said, "Your so lucky!". Then I checked my school mates face book the other day and her birthday is 1/11.

My 2nd dream about him is on his birthday 1/25/2015. It has 2 parts, one where he was chatting with some friends, then part 2 is in an indoor swimming pool where he was swimming but not me, then he was laughing at his band mate and his girlfriend, then my eyes were all set on him. It was vivid

Jan 31, 2015
Just Met My Twin Flame
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

It would be great if you could give us a name or nickname. I will not post anything with anonymous as a name.

It's only to make is easier for others to respond to.

Jan 31, 2015
Just Met My Twin Flame
by: --------

I'm in the amazing beginning stages of meeting my twin flame. The best thing is that I didn't know what a twin flame was until months way after we met.

I experienced several humbling situations that drove me to move into a part of town that I was unfamiliar with and I joined a gym because I was used to having a free one at all the places I lived. I kept noticing this guy staring at me from across the gym....Anyhow I walked by this guy for MONTHS before I looked at him in the eye. When I looked at him in the eye, it seriously was magical. I immediately wanted to know everything about him, we felt a connection instantly.

Then I noticed that there was telepathy between us, but since I'm a natural empath I brushed it off as just a gift. I kept trying to get him to ask me out and then found out he had a girlfriend. At that point I was so disappointed and sad so I ended up moving away. Let me tell you that I never stopped thinking about him or feeling him for about a month. Something called me back to him and when I went back to him he was so excited.

So it's been only a couple of weeks but we have figured out the telepathy thing and I just found out about twin flames recently. I think he's still with his girlfriend, but if he feels anything like I feel then there is no way we won't be together. I know a lot of details about her in my head and I see what he sees in her... she's an Aries like me.

One thing that I'd like to add to all of the twin flame thing is: counterfeits always succeed the real thing, especially when your close. Before I met him I experienced someone very close to my twin flame, luckily he broke my heart which pushed me right into my twin flame.

Another thing that I will add is that you should take it really slow because the intensity grows and grows with time. So just enjoy each moment and be thankful, without wishing for the future. Get acquainted with every level of intensity before rushing anything.

The best part about this feeling is that it's not obsessive it's really just cool and calm with us. I'm loving the telepathy because it's just the neatest thing ever and he can tell me how he feels even though we aren't technically intimate yet.

Jan 21, 2015
Twin Soul Connection
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello T,

Thank you for being so frank and honest in sharing your twin soul experience, plus what you have learned during the experience.

It is insightful to read the male's side of the connection, you are more conscious and aware than most.

Sending you light and love on your journey,

Jan 20, 2015
Twin Soul Connection
by: T

Hello beautiful souls,

I have been meaning to write in for a while regarding the twin flame...I originally believed I met mine in 2009 and as all seem to go we had a relationship for a week and then...I ran. Being a male in today's society we are programmed not to show any emotion especially in my line of work.

The thing is that this woman was everything I had wanted my entire life, which occurred in all of a week (very scary to say the least), especially with all the traumatic relationships I have had in the past. What you have to understand is that sometimes if you are having sex with a man (I mean real men that don't just want you for that) and if things are going too fast without getting to know the women the men will try to slow it down by just being "friends".

However as you ladies seem to think that this is a HUGE insult, but in reality it's a very big compliment because that means we are considering you for relationship material. My twin took that a sign of rejection and that hurt her very deeply and as I was now going through the kundalini awakening it all got pretty crazy pretty fast.

So I gave into my fear and craziness because I was seriously losing control of everything and in danger of losing my job due to the I moved 8 hours away to get away, but the signs and awakening just got worse.

While I was there, it dawned on me just how truly and deeply I loved this woman so I did the only thing I could do. I moved back and bought a house and got a different posting in the company just so I could be back with her. I was still going through the awakening and I told her EVERYTHING in letters I had written to her.

Well, now I could feel our soul bond growing, but we were in the physical not getting along all that now in my infinite wisdom (I had studied being a "player" for roughly 5 years before this) I started to ignore her and sort of treated her a little bit disrespectfully which usually makes girls want to be with you even more for some reason and I have never figured it out to this day...anyway this backfired HUGE and now she became extremely angry and hurt which in turn ripped my soul out of my body.

I started having another dark night of the soul again so I did what I felt I had to do(she told me I had to leave) so I sold my house basically got fired from my job and moved to the other side of the country.

Needless to say, none of that worked as I could still feel the connection all the time...when she was sad, when she was in terrible pain, when she was in physical pain, but the worst pain in the world was when she would have sex and I could feel that too.

That's when I went on a massive streak of self destruction to try and numb the pain...that went on till just about a month ago. Now I see that my lesson was to give her the forgiveness she had been desperately seeking and to love her still through all of that terrible pain and still show her love.

There where days I thought I was gonna die by the way I really felt like our souls were slowly dying.

I contacted her via Facebook about Jan. 4th because I could still feel all her pain.

The next 3 days were hell and I thought we weren't gonna make it as it felt like one of us was probably gonna die from the pain and anguish. Then she finally surrendered to my love after all her hurt and I instantly got an information download that I was gonna marry this girl in the near future and that she had passed her test (being able to love again after so much pain not only from me, but early in life).

From that instant, the psychic link was pretty much done and a lot of energetic shifts have been taking place as I think she is going through her spiritual awakening process...whether or not the information download will come true is anybody's guess, but I have been seeing a lot more synchronous situations popping up.

The key to this connection has to always love yourself because it doesn't matter how you think you look or how much you think you don't fit in or the job you have you have to remember you (we) are all children of god...I know it sounds easy, but trust me there were times I couldn't even get out of bed because the pain was so great...I believe my lesson was that instead of giving and giving and giving my love to her, I should have given it to myself.

God, I believe, made me get in touch with her now, and the minute I felt her open up to my love she had been trying to shut out of her is when the pain stopped and the crying began - emotional clearing.

I'm not sure what's gonna happen now even though I would still love to be with my twin, there are actually more important things that I need to concentrate on, one of which is actually receiving some of all that great love I had given.

Hope this helps some of you.

Dec 02, 2014
Why Am I Missing My Twin Flame Like Crazy, on and off?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Jappy,

I know it's tough when someone you were so close to does not want to respond to you. I do not know what is going on with your other half, perhaps she just wants some space for now. During relationships, men usually want to go into their man cave for time out and to sort things out. Maybe this is what is happening.

In the mean time, you can work on yourself, and their is much to do. We all have issues.

During your relationship, think about the things that upset you about her, remember she is your mirror, you probably have the same issue within yourself, but do not realize it. it is important to realize the things within our self that we do not like or run from - these are the important things because that 'dark side of our self' needs to be addressed and released.

It's time to love yourself and do what you need to do for yourself. As you learn to love yourself unconditionally, you will love your other half even more.

Sending healing love,

Nov 24, 2014
Why Am I Missing My Twin Flame Like Crazy on and off?
by: Jappy

I met my Twin Flame 20 years ago. We were like mother and daughter. We ended our friendship because she has a sight issue and reconnected 2 years back. The age gap is about 21 years difference.

Now I am the chaser, I don't know why she is avoiding my calls and not replying to my text at all.

I did tell her we are twin flames thru text. I wanted to stop texting her, but at times I can't control myself. The kind of pull is so strong.

What are the best options that I do now? Make myself vanish or...

Really wish to have some advice. I feel so trapped and helpless.

Nov 12, 2014
Is He Really My Twin Flame
by: LLBB


I met this guy in high school and while we never dated we used to hangout together all the time with a group of friends.

One day I told him my feelings, but then we "broke apart" but remained friendly. After graduation we went our separate ways.

A few years later he used to work at a local store (one which I shopped at frequently) and we used to chat all the time, but by this time I was married with kids while he was still single. He later found another job teaching while attending another school.

After that it seemed like every couple years or so we would see each other or connect some how. Each time we would see each other its a joy. When we chat online we mostly flirt, but we do have other conversations about random stuff.

I must say that he has also been married for several years now with kids of his own. We talked about things, but I told him that I didn't want to mess up his relationship (even if he is my twin flame I refuse to be the cause of his marriage breaking up) and he said the same to me, but yet we still flirt.

I find myself missing him (not sure how he feels about me), having dreams about him out of the blue or just wanted to see him. I don't want to be considered crazy.

It's like I have an obsession with him and I don't know if that's healthy or not that's why I need to find out if he is really my twin flame?

As of right now we are both still in our current relationships.

Oct 26, 2014
Keep On
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Thank you for your comments Katocat. You have a good understanding of the twin flame relationship - that you will only be together when you both have done all of your work in this incarnation.

One thing to note, when you have completed your internal work and are finally with your twin flame, this will probably be your last incarnation, unless you chose to return again.

Sending light and love,

Sep 16, 2014
Keep On
by: Katocat

After almost four decades of no communication with my "twin", I am still learning from the relationship.

We had the most explosive, intense, beautiful, other-worldly connection that wasn't meant to continue physically for myriad reasons. The dreams (we visit each other) continue, the "telepathy" continues, and recently two different psychics who didn't know me or each other, "saw" the gold cord that connects us and used the word dyad.

When I drop down into my heart and feel him, all the filters dissolve. I am just now learning that I can use that feeling as a template (of unconditional love) for anything in my life.

The hardest part is to continually release the emotional filters that make me think we need to be together on the physical plane. We came together to give each other the gift of understanding our depths.

Tricky stuff, this twin business!

Sep 05, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Unbalanced Mind,

I can understand you wanting to have space, but you need to communicate your needs to your friends or to anyone you are in a relationship with. People can't read your mind, and you cannot control what others will do.

Perhaps if you communicated with your friends how you were feeling, they may have responded differently.

As far as your guilty feeling towards your twin, you have to release that Read my releasing technique to release all of the negative emotions and feelings you are having. When you want to release patterns of behavior or negative emotions, this technique works.

Sending healing vibrations,

Sep 02, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Unbalanced mind

Hey Tanya..

All I wanted was a little bit of space away from him .. 2 months ago me and my family found out that mum has cancer .. so my state of mind for the past couple of months was not so good.

At first he was great support...we had like a silent agreement between us. He left me in peace even in his presence and that is exactly what I needed at the time.

As time passed, I knew our friendship wasn't leading anywhere and I admit I took the decision to walk away from him quite impulsively.

I needed space to clear my head, be alone for a while and not see him...but him taking my friends ...I took that to heart. And for my friends to kind of let him meet them after a week's friendship hurt me a lot. That is why I stopped seeing my friends. Plus I have this constant guilt that he will lose friends because of me, so I preferred to walk out myself even though the fact that it didn't come from him upset me a lot.

i know my behaviour is very impulsive sometimes .. but all i wanted was space.. but no one respected me enough to allow me that! .. :(

Sep 02, 2014
Sings of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Unbalanced Mind,

Sounds to me like you want to control the relationship - that is ego, you want what you want and how you want it. That doesn't work.

If anything the fellow in your life is showing you things about yourself, and right now you need to release your controlling behavior. To give up seeing your friends because he is there is drastic.

Why make yourself suffer?

Release your emotions and controlling behavior and move forward. Read my releasing technique and use it.

Sending healing vibrations,

Sep 02, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Unbalanced Mind

That's the thing... he is neither married nor in a relationship. He is single!

All he says is that he isn't relationship material and that he only wants us to be friends. And that is why I walked out...because I cannot handle keeping him as only friends.

And the latest is that he is still meeting up with my group of friends which left me no one to turn to as I refused to go out with my friends if he is going to be there.

I think he's just an ass (excuse my language) and not my twin flame :(

Sep 01, 2014
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: My Burning Flame 11

When I realized that I had my other half somewhere out-there, I was with my Boyfriend...
For this fact I couldn't conceive a man (my boyfriend) and someone else loving me on the other side.

I was a runner, and couldn't believe my Twin Flame (as HE is someone known), it took me so much time to believe HIM and to finally leave my Boyfriend... But what I believe is that it surely must bother your Twin Flame to LOVE you to the fullest, to show his true feelings to you and at the same time be married to someone other than you. He is a runner, and also because of the fact he is already married.

I think that you have to heal, work on yourself for now, and think "If it's meant to be, it will be..." And maybe with time your Twin Flame will free himself, and will work on himself. Talk to him, show him your light, it will help.

I wish you patience, a lot of courage, and SO MUCH LOVE <3

Aug 28, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Unbalanced Mind,

My feeling is that you have situations from a past life or lives that you need to release to get to the root of your problem, otherwise your emotions will keep festering.

If you have any fears regarding past lives, release them. Fears will block you from moving forward.

I suggest you take a session with me so that you can release the emotions that are causing you too feel as you do towards him.

For a session, you can contact me at counseling.

If you cannot afford a full hour session at this time, we can do only 1/2 hour.

The cost for a 1/2 hour session is $40 US which you can pay at my contact page through the PayPal donate button.

Sending healing vibrations,

Aug 27, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Unbalanced Mind

Hi Tanya,

I have released a lot of things lately...but it never seems enough :(

I can accept that he doesn't want me right now. And that is why I made the decision to remove myself from him. But he keeps following me around with these fake profiles and this is making it extremely hard to let him go.

Sometimes I think its best that I cut all ties with him...but at the same time I panic...because I don't think I can handle not having some sort of link with him! :(

I've changed so much in the past 2 years that sometimes I don't even recognize myself. But still I keep wondering weather I'm making progress or I'm simply turning into the worst version of me! :(

Aug 27, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

This last comment from anonymous was well said.

(It would really help if you would all use a name or nickname to identify yourselves instead of just anonymous. I will not post any more messages that sign anonymously).

Meeting your twin flame is a wonderful spiritual gift. As I've mentioned many times, your twin flame is your mirror - the relationship shows you what you have to work on within yourself. Each one has their own journey and you cannot wait or expect your other half to be at the same place you are at spiritually. Perhaps you may connect in this life time to be together or perhaps in another life time. You have to forget all of your expectations and experiences you have had in other relationships. You cannot place this relationship in a box.

The gift is that it shows you that you are not alone and you have a very special bond with another. Don't confuse that bond with any other relationship that you have today. The twin flame relationship shows you that there is something else besides the physical aspect of a love relationship - the kind that you are used to or expect. You cannot have expectations with a twin flame - you have to accept what it is and do your own inner work on your journey.

If things from your childhood surface such as painful emotions, they are emotions you have to release because they are festering in your physical body and cellular memory and giving you pain. These are issues that have followed you in all of your life times, it is time that you work through them (understand them, do the forgiving and being thankful for the memory and then release them. Hanging onto them will only cause you more pain

If you're having trouble doing so, contact me for a session. It is the very important work that I do in helping others attain inner peace and health. If you do not resolve your emotional issues, it will lead to chronic pain and serious illness.

Doctors are slowly realizing that emotions are behind many illnesses and chronic pain in the body and that drugs are not the only solution, they merely mask the pain.

Dr. Candice Pert, an American neuroscientist and pharmacologist did amazing research on the Cellular Memory which contains both Positive Emotional Charge (PEC) and Negative Emotional Charge (NEC) that is constantly flowing and influencing our state of mind and body health. According to Dr. Pert, the PEC is our soul's birthright. It can be described as an energy field of life force that is free flowing, expanding, peaceful, non-fearful, whole and alive beyond words, pleasure, and pain.

You can check out her research at Candace Pert, PhD.

Sending light and love,

Aug 27, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Anonymous

I know :( I don't even know what to do with myself anymore!

I try to improve myself constantly...I managed to answer many questions from my past...but no matter how hard I try...I never make any progress :( it's like I'm always drowning in my own mire! :( and to make matters twin keeps creating these fake profiles to make sure he still has a friendship with me just to keep a link alive with me! And this is really frustrating. Because he continues to reject me in real life, but behind the scenes he can't stay without me.

I cannot handle it anymore honestly! I'm always sad and upset. Nothing seems to be lifting my spirits up, always crying and getting out of the house has become such an effort. I wish I never met him, these past 2 years have been a constant downhill tread...and his presence only caused me grief, pain, sadness and the constant feeling that I'm not good enough :(

Aug 26, 2014
Time Heals The Twin Flame Relationship
by: Anonymous

As someone who had to learn the hard way to let go of the person I swore was my twin flame with every fabric of my heart and soul, I can honestly tell you that when you accept yourself for who you truly are and work to make yourself the best version of your being, you will cease to care whether or not you end up with this person or whether he ultimately ends up with someone else.

Your bond will exist and matter mutually regardless of the relationship you physically practice. You will be strong and fulfilling your own needs. Whether your twin finds this same strength cannot be your problem to solve. You cannot protect your twin. He has his own journey. Don't abandon yours to facilitate his!

Aug 26, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Anonymous

To be honest... this past month without him were so hard that I was faced with looking at myself! .. and believe me it went very back.. to my childhood!

I really don't know what to do! This is very frustrating :( every time I manage to back away from him...I start to panic and try to find something that gives me a link to him!

Frankly .. I think that both of us are reacting in the same way. However, he is still denying to himself that he needs to work on his demons! and this way we can never move forward! :( do you think he will eventually realize?

Aug 26, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Anonymous

You cannot forget him. Just know every time you think about him it's a reminder to remember yourself, and what you need, and go deeper.

The purpose of a twin flame is to connect us to source. Thanks for sharing and helping me remember to take my own advice :)

Aug 26, 2014
Signs of a Twin Flame Relationship?
by: Anonymous

Hi everyone, I never did this before and I hope you can give me some insight to all of this.

I've met (what I believe to be) my twin flame 2 years ago online and by coincidence. What I do know for sure is that he felt so genuine to me even though I've never met him at the time. He added me on Face Book, and i guess that's how things started.

At first, I wasn't paying any attention as I had just come out of a messy 7 year relationship break up and my mind was simply spilling everywhere...however as the months passed, I started to take notice of all his posts etc. And I was in awe as this was actually the first time I met someone who was exactly like me apart from the fact that his eyes really bothered me. I could sense that he was sad, lonely and highly misunderstood, so I made it a point to at least be friends with him.

I can't explain it, but I always got the feeling that I had to protect him somehow...from whomever and from whatever I don't actually know!

As my luck would have it though, he always pushed me away, he never even wanted to be friends with me, which actually did hurt me a lot, but I still kept trying to be friends with him no matter what.

The funny thing is that in 2 years, I only met him 3 times by coincidence and in all that time I had no balls to go talk to him. I felt so shy around him and I couldn't understand why as I'm really not a shy person! I couldn't handle looking into his eyes somehow!

Anyways, to cut a long story short, after 2 years ...I don't really know what happened exactly, and why he decided to turn around...but suddenly we were meeting up as friends.

At first, like once a week, but after a month we started to meet up everyday! While i was over the moon with this, I was also a bit skeptical, because for a person to say that he never liked me and all of a sudden makes a 360 degree turnaround and now wants to be my friend made me a bit cautious to be honest. But I still went for it...because to me, having him in my life was a joy and he always balanced me out. Whilst nothing ever happened between us, there were still sparks going off I believe.

We share such strong telepathy that sometimes it feels a little weird. Its like he's always in my head, and anticipating my thoughts. Plus I always get a feeling from him, that he can't be without's like I'm his lifeline!

However, he's still was not ready to commit. He's got many issues to deal with, and one of which is very destructive. he lives in his own little world, and makes sure no one disturbs that perfect little world. He has a make believe perfect life in his head, but it cannot be further from reality.

Finally, after 2 months meeting everyday, even though I tried being only his friend, my feelings kept on growing and growing to the point where I started becoming very worried, as I am loving and honestly had always loved a person who is not mine.

He kept insisting that he doesn't want a relationship and that he only wants us to be friends. This continued to hurt me more! So I made an impulsive decision to walk out of his life, as I knew that my feelings were only going to continue to grow by time. I also started to panic thinking that he might meet someone else and I knew that, that would honestly kill me more. So basically, I left before he did!
I assure you that it was the hardest thing I've ever done, because letting him go was the last thing I wanted, but I knew I had to do it for me!

He has shown me many times that he doesn't want to look at himself and fight his own demons,and this leads me to believe that there was no future for us hence removing myself from the equation!

Now, its been over a month since I've cut ties with him, and I'm constantly trying to forget him and move on with my life! But I keep seeing these signs that keep reminding me of him! :( Such as his name seems to appear every where in my life, even during a TV series both his name and surname had to come up! pff :/ certain songs on the radio keep playing and which reminds me of him, even food sometimes!

This is so is it possible to forget him, if I'm being constantly reminded of him?

Sorry for this very long story...but I would appreciate any help that you can give me!

Jul 28, 2014
Do Twin Flames and Soul Mates exist at The Same Time?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anonymous,

I thought I responded to this question. I will do so again.

Yes, they can exist at the same time. In other words, someone can be your twin flame but a soul mate to someone else as is your friend's case.

If she is presently with a soul mate, she has unfinished business she has to do. As with all twin flames, they must take care of their inner work and karma before they can get involved with their twin flame.

Read my page on soul mates.

Plus you can read everything about twin flames and twin souls at spiritual chat, and scroll down to the section that interests you.

Sending light and love,

Jun 28, 2014
Do Twin Flames and Soul Mates exist at The Same Time?
by: Anonymous


I met a friend recently where we have so many experiences that synchronize with each other, it's uncanny. We both have so much in common, and are in bad marriages.

The problem is that she is deeply in love with another man, and he is her soul mate. I believe she may be my twin flame, but I've had some "near misses" in this area over the past few years, so I'm unable to trust my core being right now.

What do you suggest?

I plan on simply working on getting my writing career off the ground and being friends with her. I deeply care for her, but I'm not willing to let myself fall in love with anyone.


Jun 24, 2014
Moving On
by: Anonymous

Hi Tanya,

Thank you for your insight. I plan to move on. I have accepted a job several thousands of miles away on the West Coast. I live in Florida. I decided to move on sometime ago. I don't know what is in store for us. I know I will not be seeing him again.

I have to make a new life for myself, and I look forward to it. I wish him the best and my love. What is really strange, as I am preparing to make arrangements to move, several challenges have occurred. It is hard to accomplish anything. I really want to move, but things are not happening smoothly.

Is that normal, or my imagination? I seem to see men that look like him and see a similar car to his. Believe me I am trying to move on and will.

Are these occurrences normal, or just me wanting them to happen?

Jun 19, 2014
Moving On
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


I know it's difficult to move on, but you have to. This man is not ready to be with you, and perhaps you are not ready for him. If you were together, it would not last.

He is with who he needs to be with in order to learn his life lessons.

I suggest you go within and and do the work you need to do on yourself.

I have met my twin soul who is presently with another woman. At first it was painful, but now as I see him all is well. I have moved forwards with my life, and spiritually wish him the best.

If you are meant to be together, you will be.

Pray and ask for assistance.

Sending healing vibrations,

May 30, 2014
Moving On
by: Anonymous

My twin Flame is with another woman. He left me for her, or should say ended our communication and is with her now.

I want to forget him, and I want to stop loving him, but I cannot. I have prayed to God that he takes him from my heart. It has been a year since we have separated, and I am still deeply in love with him. I am miserable. What do I do?

For Tanya

May 30, 2014
Could This Be a Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

I think I met mine because I had never heard of a twin flame before. Somehow I ended up on a twin flame site. I do not know how I got there. This coincided with the meeting of a man who is 20 years younger and who took a liking to me. He brought me food where I work and left his number. We are both in a relationship. We can never be alone to even talk, five minutes here and there and we have a communication problem as he is not from here. We have barely touched, but we both want to.

His culture and what is right and wrong as far as his sexual approach is a bit twisted. He is very good looking and could do this with anyone, why me?

Apr 16, 2014
Is My Twin Flame Trying to Find Me?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Aurora,

It is wonderful that you are getting a 'heads up' about meeting this man. I cannot say for sure if it is your twin. If it is, he will appear in your life when you and he are both ready.

I, too, am going through something similar but it's not through my dreams, I can feel the presence of another is almost like a hologram. Plus I'm getting clues from my guide and other souls in the spiritual realm.

I'm continuing to do my spiritual work with others and on myself, especially when I feel any triggers from situations, people events. The important thing is to be aware and open for all possibilities and release any preconceived ideas and beliefs about what type of man you think you want to have a relationship with. It's not about what we want, but what we need and what we have agreed to do do this time around.

Continue doing the work on yourself by staying positive and cleansing all unwanted behaviors, emotions and beliefs that no longer apply to your life, especially any fear that you are feeling about the future. You can use my technique for releasing.

Meditate daily. Stay open and honest with your partner, and work on your issues with him.

Sending light and love,

Apr 16, 2014
Is My Twin Flame Trying to Find Me?
by: Aurora

I have gone through a period of change and healing over the last 2 years and finally I am surrounded by people who I know love and care for me.

I used to have regular vivid dreams about a soul twin who I always knew existed. Recently he has come back into my dreams and unlocked a highly sexual, creative and spiritual aspect.

He has even appeared in my current husband's dreams warning him that our relationship is on borrowed time (until he finds me).

There are two clear solar plexus dreams I have about meeting him, the first is in July and then before Christmas. Each time I connect with him during these dreams I apparently laugh and smile in my sleep!

If I think of him in waking life people suddenly treat me as a very attractive person. Its been driving me a bit mad as there is a sense of yearning and that I am waiting for an old friend.

I started sending him love every day and had a really out of place dream about a location that I never been to and a list of songs - I looked up the first song, it contained a personal message 'love is worth fighting for', the video even included my power animal!

I am completely confused about it all and a bit fearful of the changes, but have accepted that life will be glorious with this person in it and I feel a deep sense of excitement.

How can I make meeting my twin a reality, and stay grounded whilst I am waiting for him?

Feb 20, 2014
Twin Flame Experience
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Esther,

It sounds as if you have met your twin flame, but it is not the time for both of you to reunite.

You are right in saying that the energy between you is too much to handle at this time and she needs to experience other relationships.

Do not keep yourself from experiencing relationships either. What I mean is that if someone comes into your path where you feel a connection, go with it and trust your intuition. Everything happens as it should.

I wish I could comment on the astrological connections, but Linda Goodman is the expert. I do know that the positions of the planets in an individual's chart describe the kind of physical, mental, emotional and spiritual challenges a person might experience in his or her life.

The number 11 is a master number and it has spiritual significance meaning that your relationship is a spiritual one.

You have much to learn about yourself from your twin flame so I hope that you keep in touch with her if only as friends. Whether or not you will be together in this life time depends on where you both are on your spiritual path. If anything the twin flame relationship is a spiritual one.

Sending light and love,

Feb 16, 2014
Twin Flame Experience
by: Esther

Hi Tanya,

I came across your website looking for information on twin flames.

I met this girl on 02/06/12 (I am a girl too) she had a partner at that time, but that night I felt something like a heart attack when I was staring at her. When we were leaving, she gave me a hug that felt like nothing I had felt before. She is 10 years younger than me, by the way, I am 37, and she is 27 now.

In the beginning I thought I just had a crush on her, but later I realized it was something more intense...every time we were together we were attracted like magnets, but she was with her partner and I respected that.

They broke up a year ago and I thought I could be with her...but she got involved in another relationship and we distanced from each other.

Last time we met, I had this dream two nights before where I was holding her, kissing and saying I love you with such a feeling of joy and peace that I woke up at 5 am with my heart beating so fast. She wrote me two days after and we met and hugged...same strong feelings.

From that moment on, I started my personal awakening, learning about astrology, reincarnation and past lives, and I realized our synastry. We talked about possible past lives together.

Her Pluto is conjunct my Venus which as Linda Goodman says, that's a sign of a deep karmic connection that cannot be broken, that one of twin our Moons conjunct, and her Sun and Mercury is in my 7th house...

What I didn't understand was our separation...I was feeling angry, sad, jealous...why did she prefer to be with other people than with me?

So I decided to let her go and let time pass..

A month ago, I was going out from the underground thinking what if I see her? And 5 minutes after we crossed each other, but It was raining and she was so different that I had no time to say hello...

That was on 22/01/14 and from that day on, I've been seeing 22, 11 at all places, tickets, watches, car plates, lottery...

Her birthday is 26/05/1986, her odd numbers sum 22, mine is 30/09/1976, and my even numbers sum 11.. There are too many synchronous facts to be only a coincidence...does it mean that we could reunite?

Now reading your comments, I see many things that I have been feeling all this time, but no one can understand that and I get crazy at this point now... We had this powerful and magnetic connection, we even look alike, we couldn't be together because of external obstacles/people.. "Casual"encounters...

What I feel is that we're not ready yet to handle this energy and that she has to live other experiences now.. I have not met any other since, but I don't know if I need to experience any other relationships...

What I know as well is that meeting her has changed me from the inside, I have learned about myself, about love and acceptance.

I would thank your personal opinion on my story ;)

Thank you


Jan 07, 2014
So Sure
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anonymous,

I know what you are feeling towards this man who is your twin soul.

You have met him in order to know that he exists in this life time with you. I do not know if you will be together, it depends on both of your life journeys in this life time.

You had this experience so that you can feel the love of unconditional love between a man and a woman and it has nothing to with the love that you have felt in other relationships. That is what makes the twin soul relationship so special. It is completely different, and with the new energy coming in with earth's ascension, more and more people are meeting their twin souls.

Relationships are changing and the sooner you experience what true love is, the more it will help you in knowing what a true love relationship will feel like.

Sending light and love,

Dec 06, 2013
So Sure
by: Anonymous


I need help and advice on my experience.

I think I have "met" my twin flame. I say "met" because we never truly met, but we saw each other in a random place. I didn't even plan on going shopping in that town, but I went and something - I don't know how to explain it - made me look in a certain direction and I see this man who was in the middle of the sidewalk, not moving, looking at me.

We locked eyes and I can't explain it, it was this "energy" I guess is the right word. People walked between us and stuff, but I felt so calm, like I recognized him. It wasn't lust or love. It was comfort, energy, a connection between us. But then we both parted. I think he had to go.

Anyways, it felt so right. Hours passed by and as I was leaving in the car, I felt that familiar feeling and I saw him talking to someone. I had to focus on the road, but I was forced to look at him. It felt so familiar .

Months later I'm at a bank and I see that M&ms friend that he was talking to. His friend recognized me, but I didn't realize until after I left. Sometimes, I feel that same energy-like feeling when something reminds me of him.

I've had a dream that I've felt similar in. In the dream I was in a car with a guy. We bonded, were perfect and I felt his love for me, but we just met. I asked him to drop me off because I said I have to travel. I felt his love during most of the dream. I walked and walked and came across a house. I don't know why I went in the house, something just felt right so I went in and greeted a woman who wasn't very kind to me, but something made me stay in that house.

Later on a man came and he wasn't very friendly either. Then across from me I see the door open and I see the same guy who dropped me off. He didn't notice me at first, he was busy with the bags keys etc, but as soon as I saw him I felt calm, content. It was an "so we are meant to be" feeling, it was beautiful .

Later on we sat next to each other and grew to love each other it was a very real feeling dream. I felt like he was (whoever he is) was dreaming the same dream. We wanted to get closer, but those two people wouldn't let us. But, our love was so beautiful and strong. I woke up feeling so calm and content and it was like I felt his presence, it is so real.

I know this is long, but I appreciate any advice or comments. I don't know what to believe, but I'm sure of this experience. I have never felt anything so certain and strong.

Oct 11, 2013
by: Anonymous

I have met a man in online who is miles away, but never met in person.

I'm in a relationship so we didn't want to continue talking and stopped. But I felt so depressed
For 6 months and found out he didn't feel the same way as I did. I thought I was over emotional.

During this 6 month period I lost interest in my life , job and all normal activities. Until I met this person, I never knew meaning of soul mate or twin flame. He did cut all communication though I wanted to be a good friend with him. I did let him go.

But one strange thing is on the last day of our communication, number 11 chased me whole day and then 111,11:11. Also that man was born on 11/1 and I was born on 22/11...I work in a building 1111 under an aisle 11...I don't know what is the meaning of all this, but I decided to forget him.

Oct 10, 2013
Its All Steps
by: M & J


You and I seem to be having similar experiences. I met him when he was married with two children but separated.

Meditating will help you connect with him and understand it better. But it sounds as if when he was on the other side or those who watch over you may know it was challenging for you to understand so those messages may be giving you hope and durability and love.

Just a friendly reminder when you meet again, it may be time for you to be together so you may want to be prepared. Even though mine is married and I am in a relationship with my soul mate, I do see in another year or two he will come knocking so I am trying to learn as much as i can from my soul mate who is very much like my twin flame.

I wish you the best.

Just an fyi that many people may not know, when you pray you can ask for your message to be delivered to your twin flame, but he may not know what exactly what it was he heard but you will come to his mind. Even though I'm not with mine, I still do this to let him know I'm here and show love and support. I just can feel when he gets the messages. This is like my guilty teasing pleasure to him before we meet again.

Sep 02, 2013
Thank You
by: Searching

Thank you Tanya.

Sep 02, 2013
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Searching,

Your twin flame/soul is the the most important relationship in your life, and it can be very difficult. The reason being is that he/she is your mirror.

Since you are spiritual twins, you both have similar issues that you need to resolve. For example, you twin was running from you earlier in the relationship, and now you are running. You need to go within and find out why you are running from him. You will discover yourself through your twin.

Please read the message and my comments regarding twin souls at
my twin flame and how my twin flame helped me to heal, till we meet again

Sending light and love,

Aug 31, 2013
Twin Flame? So Why Am I Running?
by: Searching


I am 29 and I meet my twin flame when I was 13 years and he was 12 years.

It's is a very long story.

The first time I saw him I knew I had met him before. I can still remember the feeling, the relief, the love, and I knew nothing about love or relationships then.

I told his friend and and we started speaking or arguing. We used to fight like cat and dog, but we still would continue to speak. I used to call his house phone to the groans of his family.

We never got serious, we just used to argue all the time. I used to be so upset by the end of some of our conversations. This went on for years, and yet I would be so in love with other conversations.

I would tell him how I felt and he would dismiss me telling me we are not like that. He would pull me in when he felt I was moving on, and push me away when I would get too close. Sometimes we would stop speaking for months. We never had a sexual relationship.

Fast forward 11 yrs. At 24yrs we became sexually intimate, he ran again. I then meet my partner and gave my twin flame the ultimate choice - I would leave my partner and not get married if he wanted to be with me. He rejected me and ran away.

He would call me out of the blue and we would still talk like we never left each other.

I got pregnant with my partner and told my twin flame we needed to stop talking. I told him I needed to move on, he was upset. But I missed him like crazy, and a year and a half afterwards, I got in touch again.

Things between my partner and myself haven't gone very well.

My twin flame told me he wants to be with me, but now I am running. We don't argue anymore I feel like my life is full of endless light, but he scares, me he brings all these emotions out of me and leaves me to deal with it. I feel lost without him but I am so scared of the rejection and hurt.

I told him that at 29 I just need to do me for a bit and I haven't heard from him since. He told me after all these years I don't know what I want. That was over 3 weeks ago.

I could settle and be in a relationship with my child's father who I know cares about me deeply.

I only learned about the twin flame a few weeks ago when my friend told me to read up about it.

For so many years I felt so alone with my feelings and emotions. I never ever looked for any one as I always knew that I met the one already. But I would always second guess myself because how could it be true?

How could I love that unconditionally through the pain and rejection of a boy who is now a man who pushes me away?

I have always been know as a deep soul. Am I looking at it in the wrong way, could I be wrong about my twin?

Feb 17, 2013
Twin Flame?
by: Anonymous

Ok, so to make a LONG story short, I met a guy online back in Sept of 2011. It was on an app from my phone.

We started talking instantly and I realized how much alike we were, we would talk for hours. Our first phone conversation was about 2 hours and we had never spoken before in our lives. We realized tons of things we had in common - our birthdays are very close together, we listen to the same music, we both got in serious relationships at young ages. Basically we could just tell each other anything and we never judged each other.

He would ask me all the time why he felt like he could talk to me for hours, I felt the exact same. Now that I recall, I started noticing the time 11:11. I would always point it out to him. It was just something we did. we talked for weeks from morning to night.

He has a girlfriend and 2 kids and I'm married. So we were both unhappy.

One day he tells me that he has a job interview and has to come right through my town to get there. He lives 3 hours from was so weird how it all worked out. He came down for his interview and we spent a few hours together, it was the best day.

I really can't put into words how I felt when I saw him or how it felt when he kissed me, I just literally screamed out loud.

Anyway the day we met on was 11/11/11. So weird. I just learned today about the twin flames and the 11 really convinced me because 11's pop out to me all the time and I always think of him.

He still lives with his girlfriend we still talk all the time. I think one day we will be together. The love I have for him is indescribable.

Feb 11, 2013
Numerology Included with Twin Flames
by: Perfecto Rodriguez II

I wish I could find Her...Her name is Nicole. She had told me that she was from or living in Pleasant Grove, Texas. Check this out for bazaar.

Their is a numerological system called Name power number. My name comes up to 7.
Nicole equals to 4 added and it comes up to "11". This is my birth date and I think that it is her's too.

The Fibonacci Code
Pleasant equals to 7, Grove equals to 4=11

These are only a few things that I have discovered in which I sense that we are Twin Flames. To this day since 8/21/2010, I still love Nicole very much as well as I also miss Her a lot♥

Whenever I say to myself, I might have just as well forget about Her...and along come or goes by a pretty blonde girl with looks similar to Nicole.
I just can't forget about her. I am very lonely without Her. I hope that our Goddess brings us back together again.

I Lover You VERY MUCH Nicole♥

Feb 09, 2013
Why is Karma Important?
by: Perfecto

I am personally at the point that I no longer believe in "karma".

I know of a lot of marital and non-marital relationships that in the real truth...he has a Mercedes and she owns a LEXUS. Lawyer married to CPA Accountant.

The point is, this is not real love. The are only bonded by social ends. I don't see this Twin Flame or Karmic energy breaking up these type of people so that they can learn something real about love rather than what social wealth attracts them that they think is love.

I am trying to find my own Twin Flame and I have, but we ended up going separate ways. She got angry and I let Her walk away. To this day since 8/2010, I have not forgotten about Her and I love Her (Nicole) even a lot more and I also care a lot about Her. I miss Her a lot too!

So where does the Twin Flame spirit brings us back together? As a practicing Witch, I must do whatever magical means necessary in finding my love Nicole.

Whenever I think that I should just forget about Her, especially at night, I am watching tv. and next thing you know, I start seeing actresses that look very similar to Nicole...younger or older, but it is as if something is telling me about Her, "don't forget me".

Both Nicole and I do not live in pricey neighborhoods like some or all of these snobs. Then yet, what is it that we must learn...LOVE?

I am still waiting for Her..(Nicole,I LOVE You♥)

Jan 26, 2013
I Need Some Twin Flame Help Please
by: P


I am sure I met my twin flame.

We dated (long distance) ans he broke up with me cause he couldn't handle the distance. He realized he loved me, we dated, he cheated and then broke up with me.

Our break up has been a little over 3 months now...but, 2 days after that and every day since I've been getting messages from him. No not the ones that everyone can read, but in my mind...I had those before the break up too. And I've had visions about him and me, sometimes together, sometimes apart.

I realize this may sound really strange and weird to some or most of you, but it's true, maybe some of you even have it too. But what I really wanted to know (well I have a gazillion questions, but they can wait they will get solved somehow) is if I get a message from him, can I respond?

I mean like the other day, I got an mental message, I answered out loud without thinking about it and a few seconds later I got an message again, as an answer to what I said. If I can, how do I respond?

I know I love him deeply, and whenever I 'see' him I can see and feel his pain and the love he has...Can you help me?


Dec 15, 2012
Please believe me
by: April Baxter

I know this will sound like the priest has written this himself, but I am a real person and I have nothing to gain from writing a glowing recommendation. But I do give priest a glowing recommendation because I have used his services and, having spent the last couple of years trying to work through a complicated and long-founded situation, with someone very close to me attempting to control me for nearly 2 decades – most others had failed, where priest succeeded.

Priest readings were stunningly accurate and he pulled no punches where others were afraid to intervene too specifically. This gave me the foundation I needed to plot the best way forward (for the good of all involved). Before I came across him, none of the help I received, seemed to last more than a few days, as this was an `inside job’ being replenished every single night and in the very food I ate!

I am still not through this but priest’s help has taken me further forward than anyone else, to the point where I can see light at the end of the tunnel. If you’re in doubt as to whether he is the real thing (and I would say that 99% of the rest out there are either fakes, or simply not as good as they think they are). is the realist and I can testify that he is effective. He has worked effectively for me in a far from average case. Plus he does follow up when you need him. The world must hear good about you Priest as I promise you the first day that I contacted you.

April Baxter

Dec 01, 2012
Runner Twin
by: D

My married runner twin is back...he didn't speak to me for 9 months as I told his wife of our affair.

We have been in love at first sight for 44 yrs. He runs, but he comes back. This time he knows I will not take an affair, but we love each other and can't stay away from each other.

He tells me to hold on, to wait, does this mean he has more karma or more to learn from his marriage?

My marriage is over and I want to get on with the rest of my life with my twin flame. He has always been the one and I have learned patience, and total unconditional love. This will be our fourth time in the 44 years of us getting back together.

Nov 26, 2012
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hello Anon,

Seeing the number 11 shows you that your connection with this particular man is a spiritual one, also that you that you are twin souls (aka twin flames).

I do not know if you will connect in this life time, it depends on where you both are at spiritually in your ascension process. Often times, one partner is more aware spiritually than the other. In order to connect, you both need to have done your spiritual work - cleansing.

Read about spiritual cleansing, and ascension health.

Sending light and love,

Nov 19, 2012
by: Anonymous

I met this guy 6 yrs ago. I didn't know about twin flames before then. Our plans to meet up fell through - we were in other relationships.
Since then, this connection I have with him is out of this world. I think about him all time. It's crazy.

An angel reading done in January this year confirmed that this guy was my twin flame, but he still had issues to sort out. That's why the timing isn't right. Can anyone clarify for me, to put my mind at ease, if he is my twin flame?

I've done a lot of meditation and prayer in the last few months, had a dark night of the soul 3 months ago, and again last week.

It's painful not being together physically just now, but I am learning trust and patience. I've been seeing a lot of signs such as programs on TV about Liverpool where he lives. He got back in touch on November 11th this year. Other signs are I started seeing a lot of 11's, and his name on advertisement boards. This is scary and spooky.

Does this mean we will reunite in physical soon?

Aug 26, 2012
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Anonymous D,

Yes there is a reason why you keep bumping into your twin flame. This answer is for all those who have the same experience.

One is the remind you that he or she is there, and secondly for you to know that whatever issue he or she is working through, you have the same issue within yourself. I cannot tell you what that is, it is for you to go within and find out. In this way, you are mirrors for each other, and it is also how you help one another.

Sending light and love,

Aug 23, 2012
He Came By Today
by: Anonymous D

Two days ago my runner twin came by my house, he stopped he looked really sad and really confused. He didn't say much, just asked how I was. He is married and he knows there is no more affair for us.

I know that it won't be long until we are together, I feel it each day it gets closer and closer.

Aug 17, 2012
by: Anonymous D

Thank you so much for your comments.

I am trying not to obsess and even though my life is in shambles. I somehow am the happiest I have ever been in my life. I have the closest relationship with God that I have ever had. I was always religious, but now I am much much more spiritual.

My 37 year marriage is over even though my husband is letting me stay in the house until I can leave. I left an 18 year thriving business, all because of this breakup with my Twin Flame. I understand he has to be in the other relationship and he isn't anywhere near where I am spiritually and in so many other ways,but I love him with every ounce of my being and have for 44 yrs.

I have found a new career path at age 57 and it is to help people physically and spiritually and I am very excited so i am moving on and detaching yet, still missing.

I was wondering as we said this is all divine intervention, and so the other day I left my house really upset crying and I asked GOD to point where I need to go right now. And I jumped in my car and started driving. I got the urge to go to a certain place, and I said no way would I want to go there. So while on the highway when the exit was coming up to go to this certain place, I got a really, really strong urge to get off so I did, and, boom, there he was coming up the street with his WIFE.

This kind of thing happens all of the time, and has for the past 5 months, WHY do you think that God keeps putting him in front of me like that?

Aug 17, 2012
Recently Learned About Twin Flames
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hello Again,

Your life does not stop just because you have met your twin. You do not wait for him or her. You keep on living your life to the fullest, and concentrate on your lessons (issues), that is why you are here.

When I said that you learn things from your twin, it is the best person to learn from because your issues are similar, (you are each others' mirror) they only manifest differently.

I have met my twin, we are not together and he is doing what he needs to do in another relationship. On occasion I see him. I am not obsessing about being with him. If it is meant to be, we will be together. It may not happen in this life time, and I'm okay with that. I have much to do, and to learn just as he does. We are also not at the same level spiritually, so it wouldn't work between us at this time.

Yes, it is Divine intervention and everything is in God's hands so to speak. This is a relationship where we have no control. (Actually we do not have control about anything except what we eat, wear etc.) It is teaching you that you do not have control, and you have no choice except to go with the flow.

The love between twins is not the love that we normally think it is, it is beyond anything you have experienced in a relationship, so do not try to compare it to any. You are connected spiritually and in every other way without being in each others' presence physically. You need to understand that concept. You don't have to be in each others' face to have a relationship - it is on a completely different level that what you are accustomed to. You need to learn to adapt to this, otherwise trying to fit the relationship into a box will drive you crazy. You have to think and feel outside the box.

I mentioned detachment, that is a very important lesson that we all have to learn. Let him run and get on with your life.

Sending light and love,

Aug 16, 2012
What Does "Don't Give Up Mean?"
by: Anonymous

To Anon,

I opened the newspaper and saw an article about a friend of that “energy” man, and underneath it read in capital letters, “Never Give Up”. Again I didn’t want to interpret too much into this article.

A few weeks later on the front page of the newspaper that same article appeared again. I felt sick to my stomach. I thought what is going on? Then further on in the newspaper an advertisement read, “Don’t Give Up.”

I know exactly how you feel, the man who is my very air - my other half - try to make it work with others trying to learn some lesson that we both don't understand. And when I feel most like giving up throwing in the towel and believing we are not meant for oneness in this time, he always seems to read my thoughts and tells me, "Don't give up, follow your dream, your worth it."

He reads my thoughts and always has the right words. He seems to know my tears even when we are separated by great distances. So why the soul connection without an actual love connection? Why must I watch him cycle through people I know won't complete him?

I can't seem to look away, but I can't seem to walk away. How do you deal with recognizing your twin flame, but not being joined with them?

Hope to get rid of this destructive, : )

Aug 11, 2012
by: Anonymous

So when you say we must learn this from your twin, I get all of these things I have them all for him, so do I wait for him to learn all of these things, instead of running like a scared rabbit as someone on here said?

Also does anyone else feel like this? Is it Divine intervention, even though we are both married? I still feel that God is involved in this, and I am a very religious spiritual person.

There are many things to learn from your twin flame:
• unconditional love

• detachment

• patience

• acceptance

• going with the flow

Aug 11, 2012
Recently Learned About Twin Flames
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hello Anon,

You are not alone in what you are experiencing. the feelings and emotions that you are feeling towards your twin flame are unlike anything you have experienced in this life time. Because you have known your twin soul from the time you existed, this is going back milleniums.

There are many things to learn from your twin flame:

  • unconditional love
  • detachment
  • patience
  • acceptance
  • going with the flow

These are just a few of the behaviors each twin flame needs to learn. Plus he/she is your mirror. Whatever is going on inside you, the other also feels.

Twin souls are here to help one another and they do so before they can help humanity. You need to feel balanced and whole (learn how to give yourself what you need) inside before you can have a relationship with your twin soul, otherwise it will not work.

You both have issues and you can help each other by being supportive and loving unconditionally, and allowing the other to learn their lessons and to evolve spiritually.

Read my pages on life's lessons and spiritual development to give you a better understanding of what you need to do.

If you need need more individual help with your twin soul and past lives, you can book a session with me at Online Spiritual Counseling.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Spiritual Counselor

Aug 10, 2012
Recently Learned about Twin Flames
by: Anonymous

So, I met someone 2 years ago.

He was a stay at home dad and 10 yrs my senior, and I am a stay at home mom. His marriage is very bad. His wife is verbally abusive and they fight constantly, even in front of the kids. The kids are very unstable because of this. They allow them to intervene in the arguements. They have no boundries or consequences.

He tries, but the wife screams and yells at him when she finds out he punished them. She has told him that he is white trash, a terrible father and man, the biggest mistake of her life etc.. My marriage is vanilla, no fighting, no communtication. Just kind of living side by side.

My children are happy and well adjusted. He and I have children the same age. We bonded very quickly and have developed a very strong, very trusting relationship. We both have said that we can feel an energy between us (even other people have said they can feel it) and when we are apart we can feel it stretch, and that it's like we have known each other for lifetimes.

We instantly know each other's feelings and reactions. I look into his eyes and see his soul. When we hug or touch in any way we can both, literally, feel energy between us.

A year ago he walked away for the first time saying that he couldn't be with me. We saw each only a couple of times, but in January he came back and begged me to give him a chance. For months things were great and we worked at gaining independance (he got a full time job)and I am working at going back to school. We told our closest family/friends about our relationship.

June came and he freaked out. Since then our relationship has been more down than up. He says that even though he knows that his situation is bad for his children that he can't bring him self to leave. He can't stay away from me, he keeps coming back. He has told his best friend about how much love he has for me and how amazing I am, so even if I questioned his feelings for me, which I don't, I do have validation.

He and I are both struggling, emotionally. I can see his pain in his eyes. I can feel it in his touch and hear it in his voice. I feel like everything inside of me has been scooped out. The instant that I see him, and him me, calmness surrounds us. Even thru the pain and hurt I am instantly a peace.

Desperatly looking for answers and thinking that I was losing my mind I searched the internet. That's when I discovered twin flames. I believe he is mine.

But now what? I am very knew to this and have much to learn. Do I wait for him? Will he come, eventully? How do I get this pain to stop? How do I get him out of my mind? How do I get him to see past his fear? To trust his heart?

I need advise and knowlege.

Aug 10, 2012
It Is Hard!
by: Mo

I have good and bad days. I have to say I have more good than bad, because I am beginning to see pieces fitting together. Slowly. It's a slow process, but I maintain my positive outlook.

I used to have doubts about being toether with my twin flame in this lifetime, now no longer. I know it's not in my immediate future. It's a good 5 years down the road. At least that is what something keeps telling me, a nagging voice. Is it my spirit guide, or intuition? I'm not sure. But every now and again I have a flash of insight. And then its gone.

He is so afraid. Last time we saw each other, he called me and said he was leaving his job and he wanted to see me. He was a nervous wreck. His fear was palpable. I couldn't believe it. And now he has played Houdini for 8 months.

Aug 09, 2012
by: Anonymous

As I wait for my RUNNER TWIN who is married, I left my house crying as having a bad day and haven't spoken to him in 5 months.

I said GOD just lead me and I will go. So I jumped on the highway and got off an exit cause I got the feeling, and there he was coming up the street with his wife in the car.

This happens daily I leave my house and there he is in obsure places. I ask God to keep him away and he is kept away. I ask GOd to let me see him at a specific time and I see him. I KNOW This is divine intervention.

So I wait.....44 years is a long time.

Aug 08, 2012
26 Year Twin Flame Experience
by: Mo

It is frustrating beyond belief (relationship with a twin flame).

After we saw each other back in February, it feels like he blocked me energetically. I can't explain it. But these last few days I feel like a channel has been re-opened and he is open to recieving my energy again. This sounds absolutely insane. If I had not experienced this myself, I would think someone saying this should be medicated! Hahaha! Its so bizarre.. Anyways, this is how I felt last time he got in touch.

It builds up, and the dreams start up again and then within a few months he sheepishly creeps forward again...I am feeling him again.

The worst is when I can't feel him. When I feel he is deliberately blocking me. It's painful, and sickening. So I don't contact him at all and let him be. He is like a frightened rabbit.

Aug 08, 2012
I Also Have a Runner!!!!
by: Anonymous

THis sounds exactly like my Twin Flame relationship of 44 years. It is defintely divine intervention throwing the 2 of you in each other's paths. I know mine is not happy in his marriage and either am I just living in the same house.

I met mine when I was 13 and my life his never been the same. I know we will be together in this lifetime for how long I do not know, and so I wait...

Aug 07, 2012
Met My Twin 26 Years Ago
by: Anonymous

I was 11 years old when I met my twin. He was 12. It was in a mall. I was with a friend and we were waiting for an elevator only to discover it didn't work. So we ran up the stairs. When I reached the top, there he was.

We locked eyes and it was like I was struck by lightning. It was instantaneous. The pure love and recognition hit me immediately as it did him. So we followed each other around for awhile and then met. He lived at 1 end of the valley (the wealthy end) and I lived at the opposite end (the poor end).

A week after we met, he was on public transit making the 2 hour trip to visit me at my home. He would sneak away from home to come see me at the tender age of 12. I had never felt such intense emotion in my life. And I nevee did again. About 6 months later he ran. But would still pop up from time to time. I remember a conversation we had on his last visit to me. It was, "I love you but I can't be with you, but don't go anywhere."

Then we lost touch for 12 years. And then out of nowhere he popped up again. We had a brief relationship. Feelings were just as strong as they were when we were children. And then poof... He ran again. So after that, I met my husband and jumped into marriage in the hopes that it would push him out of my mind. So, I moved away with my husband and began my new life.

Twelve years later I am putting gas in my car a block from my home and BAM! There he was walking in front of my car. So I watched him and in my deepest being I knew it was him, but convinced myself that it would be a miracle if it was because the last time we spoke he was on the other side of the world. So I drove off. But he was suddenly thrust back to the forefront of my conciousness.

A year later i decided to look him up and found him on facebook. So I sent him a note not knowing if it was him for sure. Within 5 minutes I had a response saying, "Oh my god this is the strangest thing, I was literally just thinking about you when I got your message."

We were always very telepathic with each other. Turns out he was working 5 minutes from my home so IT WAS HIM AT THE GAS STATION!!!!! A miracle. Or divine timing.

We did not see each other right away, but some months later we ran into each other on the freeway of all places. We pulled over and talked for about 20 minutes. I could see it in his face. I could feel the emotion coming from him. Then poof.. He ran and I didn't hear from him.

Almost a year later, I get an email saying he is leaving his job and wants to see me. So we meet for 20 minutes and he gets into my car.. He wouldn't look at me, told me, "I can't believe I am sitting here with you." He also said that he doesn't love his wife and married her for the wrong reasons and now he is "being punished.

I had the urge to jump out of my car and run. But I didnt. And now, i have not heard from him in 8 months.

Jul 28, 2012
by: Slj

 Hi There,

I met my twin flame almost two years ago, we have had two attempts at dating in this time, but he pulls back and vanishes.  

I realised after working on myself for the past year that a lot has stemmed from my inability to express my emotions and my fear of making myself vulnerable to being hurt. My stupid pride made me close down for fear of being taken for a fool and he responded by running.  

I love this man so much I had many chances to date in our time apart, but I just could'nt the pull for me has been so intense at times I've been curled in a ball unable to breathe or in bed for three days aching after intense energy influxes.

He has mentioned the connection to me, but I didn't answer him almost a year ago purely out of fear I acted so bad due to fear and bad advice.

We have never really been totally out of touch for more than two months.  I have grown sooooo much, my whole life has changed I am much stronger now, but miss him terribly. I phoned him recently and admitted I knew about connection and how I felt but he told me he is seeing someone, but we spoke for 40 mins and have had sporadic texting since it's only been two weeks since.

The pull is really strong ATM and any guys I was chatting to to try to live a normal life all vanished same day I felt enormous pull and he texed me. On the phone he confirmed that the feelings I had about him were true in regards to him being low( truth is I'd had a panic attack feeling he was in a really, really bad place and I had to reach out) 

I feel I waited my whole life for this one connection I am incredibly choosy and never felt much for anyone my whole life, but as soon as I met him was like I knew why I hadn't liked anyone much before he ran away

I've had so many signs and guidance, it's insane even my friends dream and get visions of him.

I can't believe how long I've let fear stand in the way from telling my truth. I really felt lighter, happier, stronger and powerful from making the call, but I still love him and think of him all the time and pray it's not too late for us moving on. I can do now but it feels like making do quite honestly:(

Jul 14, 2012
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hello Anon,

Firstly, I apologize for taking so long to respond. I'm in the process of re-building my website.

Your twin soul is not responsible for your weight gain. You have similar issues, and he is your mirror. He is here to help you and vice versa.

You have underlying blocked emotions that are causing your food cravings. No amount of diet nor exercise will cure cravings.

I suggest you go within and examine your issues and emotions that caused you pain at some point in your life.

I recommend that you take a session with me at online counseling
to discover which emotions are blocked, or see another counselor who can help you.

Sending healing vibrations,

Jul 06, 2012
Twin flames and Weight Gain, Twins Eating Habits
by: Anonymous

Is it possible if one Twin eats too much and gains weight that it can cause the other twin to do the same?

If so, how can you overcome an obstacle like this if you are working out hard everyday and getting these cravings out of no where that you know are not your own?

If anyone has ever experienced this before or knows anything about it please let me know.

It can be like vicarious weight gain, but in this instance both twins have gained weight.

I just want to know that I am not the only one and if this could be why I'm fighting so hard and not seeing the results. I want to lose weight dang it!

Jun 28, 2012
by: Anonymous


I have noticed that my ability to talk with God has been so heightened since I started meditating.
You mention the use of a pendulum which I haven't used to get answers, but I have been using the muscle standing, which has been great, and really works, but I have a hard time feeling that it is the answer that is coming from God and not from me as the answers are all what I want them to be.

What are your feelings on this?

Jun 28, 2012
Missing my Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

Thank you Tanya,

I am at such a loss. I see and pass him everyday, without trying how is that possible?

I see the 11's everywhere. I ask God to give me a sign that I am on the right path and he gives me a song, like hang in there message and the 11's.

I know he has to be in the marriage, for whatever lesson he has to learn. I will read what you have posted, I feel my love is definitely unconditional and I will not bother him, although he thinks I am stalking him and I AM NOT. The passing him by in cars is purely, I feel, guided by God, for reasons only He knows.

I am learning patience and the Love I feel for him just gets stronger.

Jun 27, 2012
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hello Anon,

The number 11 is a master number and for many twin souls who have met, 11 has been significant either in the date, time or circumstance.

Twin souls will only be together once they have done their own soul work - by that I mean working on their life lessons. Read my page on life's lessons.

Your twin soul is your mirror, so use the relationship to work on your own issues, and you need to let him work on his. If he is still married, he needs to be in that relationship. A twin soul relationship also teaches you about unconditional love. Twin souls are not together to only satisfy each other, they will come together to help humanity and in order to do so, you have to be really solid and grounded within yourself.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Spiritual Counselor

Jun 22, 2012
by: Anonymous

Has anyone else had any situations with the number 11 in reference to their Twin Flame?

Jun 22, 2012
Help Please With My Twin soul!!
by: Anonymous

I need help please.

It's been about 3 1/2 months since I've talked to my Twin Flame. I have loved him for 44 years. This was our third reunion after 27 years of not speaking. And it was the best, very intense good and bad loving etc.

In 2009 I starting waking up @2:11 3:11 4:11 etc. and seeing 11 everywhere. Long story short on June 11, 2011 I went to a weird place and was feeling weird all day and didn't want to go home and walked down an isle in the store, and there he was. We picked up right where we left off 27 yrs ago.

When I had met him, I was 13 and fell in love that very momemnt. Well, we are both married. I have left the marriage even though I was still in the house. But left it the day I ran into him.

We brokeup on 3-11, 2012 and I can not get over him and I know he loves me, but he is the runner twin and I am the surrender.

I need Help to deal with this ABC on here...had my thoughts exactly even though we haven't spoke except for screaming.

We pass each other each day on opposite sides of the road. There are so many things that have happened I would like to share, but I need to know what to do. I do feel like I feel him and his wife's energy, its awful. I have done Reiki.

Please advise me as I know I have to do things. I have become so spiritual and I was before this, but I talk to God he knows I love him so.

Jun 13, 2012
by: Anonymous

I met my twin flame, 10 years ago. The instant we saw each other it was electrifying.

I have never felt that with any other guy, ever. We both knew. We met by chance and dated on and off for a few years. It was not really a long term boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, but very relaxed and never stressed. There were no need for labels. We just both knew there was a deeper connection.

The first day I spent with him it was more like our souls catching up than getting to know each other. He always remembered me through the gaps in our communication.

He wrote me intimate love letters and was so incredibly loving, kind and sweet. We had a disagreement and admittedly, I blew something so ridiculously out of proportion and at the time had a serious boyfriend. We lost touch for 5 years.

Then he just died 4 weeks ago. The night he died was packed with way too many coincidences to be coincidence.

I've had a few dreams with him. very intense, mind blowing dreams. I feel his presence often. I feel like he is waiting for me. When I go to sleep at night and close my eyes, I can feel him kissing me good night. It sounds crazy, but I feel like he is with me and watches over me.

Jun 01, 2012
So Confused, I really Think I Found My Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

I guess I will start out saying that I met him in the summer of 2010. My mom wanted me to come to the lake to meet her boyfriend's nephew. He was 20 and didn't know anyone in town. So I bring my two boys up there. The moment that I laid eyes on him I was drawn to him, which was very different since he is 5 yrs. younger then me.

It seemed like we had known each other our whole lives, and we could talk about anything. He expressed that he felt so close to me. Several months later, I notice he is constantly staring at me when were around each other and was always willing to help me out when my husband refused to do so.

He didn't make a move. He was just there being this great guy that I could talk to and be myself with. He got me so well, as I got him.

Finally one day we were trying to fix the plumbing in my house that backed up (well me, I call my mom and he rushes over) and he tells me since the day he met me he's been drawn to me, that he has this strong connection like we're meant to be together.

From there I hate to say an affair started. We tried to end it several times with no luck, the emotional connection we shared were so strong. We lived in different states and didn't see each other much, but we still were so connected. We have once again tried to stop talking, but today some how we were drawn together again.

He has always said that he knows we will be together one day when the timing is right, but it's just so hard when the timing is wrong to stay away. I am unsure if he is my Twin Flame but everything in me screams he is.

May 24, 2012
by: Anonymous

I met my Twin 2 years ago while I was happily married. I had him in my dreams for 19 years, but I did not know the person then.

He realised the connection was too strong and we are 15 years apart as well. He left for another women, but the feeling I have is very strong can't get over it at all. I indulge myself more and more in spirituality.

May 24, 2012
I, Too, Have Met My Twin Flame!
by: Anonymous

I met my twin flame 4 years ago.

I had recently filed for divorce, needed boxes for moving and found him on an online selling site. He was selling boxes. I arranged to meet him to make the purchase and that was a 1st face to face.

A whole year went by and we fell upon each other again, this time through an online social media site. We remembered each other after a whole year had passed. The 3rd time our paths crossed, I didn't even know it. He sent me a message telling me he saw me driving down a street. The 4th time, nearly another year later, we finally reunited face to face.

We both grew up in separate parts of the country, thousands of miles away from each other. He told me he moved to my state, 6 years earlier. Throughout the course of this friendship, I have never stopped loving him unconditionally for one minute even though he frustrates the heck out of me sometimes.

And you want to talk about a mirror image? Not in looks, as he is dark and I am fair. But our personalities are so similar, its almost scary. I always tell him that I am his yin to his yang. I know he is here to teach me about myself and I have learned so much from this man. Throughout our friendship, we have separated many times.

The first of these times being the roughest as he has a tendency to just ghost out on me for several months without notice and without any contact. I just figure these are those times he needs to go grow and learn himself. And his disappearances have just taught me to not take it personal and have the confidence that he is coming back.

We are not in any type of romantic relationship at the moment and again are just friends but I would love to spend the rest of my life with this guy. I have grown so much as a result of him in my life, personally. And not that I need him for any of that, but he totally enhances what I already have.

May 16, 2012
Twin Flame Seven Year Cycle
by: ABC - 7 year twin

I have a twin flame.

We meet when he was 17 and I was 19. From the moment I met him. I had an inner knowing and have never been able to let this man go. I'm now 27 and we have been together 3 times and become better each time.

When I met him it's like I saw into his soul. The pain involved from both parties was beyond anyone's understanding while being apart. We constantly pick up on each others emotions, thoughts and feelings. The pain eases the second before we would come together.

He is everything I love about myself and dislike about myself. There is such intensity. Since him, there has been no other.

Over the years I've come in contact with males and couldn't even look at them. Twin flames mirror your fears, insecurities and any form of pain you have inside. It's a strong form of projection. They pick up on everything within and around you. Either party can't completely let go.

My journey has been hard, but rewarding. From the time I met him and we first parted, I've started healing myself. What I've learnt is as your energy changes so does theirs.

If you use reiki, pranic healing and release old pain, thoughts and habits for transmutation and run from a balanced heart and mind, they sense it. They start changing too. This isn't a pleasant experience. Sometimes, your twin flame has to be in other relationships and you feel everything, but "twin flames" are meant to come together as the last relationship. The others are just practice and growth. The fight in you to prove this theory to your twin flame and others is strong.

Two years ago, I started feeling not only the emotions, thoughts and feelings, but the energy of my twin flame on the complete right side of my body! This will always stay there due to being the other half of my soul. Our relationship has not been pleasant and quite painful, but there is an unconditional love that is beyond anyone's understanding even if it's not understood by each party or unexpressed. The emotion is felt and is quite clear.

We turn up at the same place at the same time, but on opposite sides of the road. Signs are shown and they are very clear.

I am healer, life coach, empath and very intuned to what goes on around me and others. I have been on the journey of figuring out this connection that is the ultimate.

It's true, once you meet your twin flame the connection is very hard to let go of, but within the second you do, the universe steps in and amazing things happen. You just need to love yourself fully and completely, stay centered, and keep working on yourself. The spiritual path is really important to understand this type of relationship, but when the time is right everything falls into place.

Ask for signs and guidance if this relationship is going to be right, and if it is, you will be shown. Certain pieces of the puzzle within this relationship has to fall into place in order for others to come together, otherwise it will have a very weak foundation.

xox love & Light xoxc

May 11, 2012
Twin Flame
by: Anonymous

I feel I met my twin flame about 7 months ago. We met miles apart (2 hours) driving and it was unexpected!!!

He was at my family function and when he approached me it was a presence I picked from him, like a calmness that ahhhhh feeling :o) We became friends and although we were both involved with other people, it didn't stop us from getting close.

My ex broke it off with me a month after I met my twin and a month after his ex broke with him so that made it easier for us to connect right? I'm not saying he isn't my twin, but he wasn't ready for the connection.

He has past issues he was dealing with and his unwillingness to heal caused us to split. Unfortunately, the connection became difficult and caused us to split but I know he loves me and I love him too. The "timing" wasn't right.

So here it is two weeks after our bad argument and I'm still feeling connected even though we are not's rough and I miss him. but when the time is right we will come together soon and acheive God's will!!

May 06, 2012
Twin Flame vs. Balance Partner vs. False Twin
by: Tanya Tkach (Webmaster)

Hello Anon,

I have never heard the expression "False Twin". I checked with one of my guides to make sure and she said, "There is no false twin".

As I've written many times before, many twin flames are coming together in this life time, and each one has lessons to learn. If one or the other does not do his/her inner work, a relationship together will not work. Some may become partners and some may not, or they may become friends. Also, a twin may only be in your life for a short time depending on the reason for coming together. It could only be to help one or the other for a short period of time.

In your wife's case, I don't know the reason for her behavior. Perhaps she wants out of the marriage. People stay together to do and learn what is important in this life time and once that is done, the relationship usually ends. You'll have to talk to your wife and find out what she is feeling.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

May 04, 2012
I Am Married
by: Anonymous

I know exactly how you feel. I am in the same situation.

It is difficult, but try to focus on the service that you and your twin flame are to provide for humanity. Your marriage/soulmate relationship is supposed to help you get whole. Once both you and your twin flame are each whole. You will merge again.


May 01, 2012
I am married.
by: Anonymous

What do you do if you are married to a soulmate? I was not looking for or open to this. It has been nearly two years. We have business of sorts together and have seen each other several dozen times. We both know. I don't know if he knows about twin flamea, but we had a discussion and we both said this is deep.

When we look at each other the eye to eye, it is penetrating. We know each other. I am married, he is seperated. He is on my mind 24/7...I wish he was not. He is the one trying to put distance. I want to try to at least be friends.

Can we be friends, can we? I just don't know. This is horribly difficult. Thanks for letting me write.

May 01, 2012
Twin Flame vs. Balance Partner vs. False Twin
by: Anonymous

I've done a lot of ready about Twin Flames and did not realize there is also such a thing as a False Twin. There is a huge difference between the two and we need to watch out.

A False Twin can present themselves the same way as a True Twin, but there are some serious differences. For one, a False Twin will NEVER try to control the relationship, nor put limitations on the relationship. This is an example of control, something which a False Twin is doing because their energy is derived from you, not from their own soul. They have not done the spiritual work needed to generate their own energy well, so they feed off others. The biggest, easiest way to tell a False Twin from a Real Twin is their attitude. Instead of being part of a "dance," you feel like you are carrying the relationship and everything is your fault. This should not be the case. I made this mistake; thinking someone was a Twin - I was CERTAIN of it...but then when things began to unravel, and started to assert my own independence, she became emotionally and psychically violent, allowing others to make her decisions and speak for her. She was looking for my reaction...I refuse to give it. I fight it, every day...sending her back to the light, the source, to learn her lessons on her own.

That said, I experience my "dark night of the soul" recently, and now I've awaken to the fact that a woman I've known for almost 20 years, who I knew since college and left behind when she began dating a man I knew would hurt her, is in fact my twin flame. We are the same age, but there are some serious synchronicities; we grew up in small towns, her brother was a baseball player, as was mine, she loves the same foods, music and movies that I do. She loves to write, as do I. We both want to teach, and talk to each via email about anything. Nothing is off limits. I told her that I left college because I was so in love with her 15 years ago, and she understood. Best of all, when we held hands and hugged, I felt like I was finally home. When I look into her eyes (which are the most amazing shade of blue) I feel like I'm looking into a piece of myself. The clincher: our birthdays numbers are both 11s, and we never, ever hold anything against each other - our relationship is totally open and we talk like best friends. The problem: I'm married and she's not. She wants me to let my son graduate first, then let decide on my marriage, BUT she is thinking about attending my class reunion as my date, which my wife actually SUGGESTED!

Is it possible that my wife knows her time as my primary soulmate is ending now that I know my twin flame?

Apr 28, 2012
You Are Too Confused In The Worst Way!
by: Perfecto

What is it with half if not most of you unenlightened ------? I am fed up with some and maybe all of you females saying that with you are with some guy who "can't handle this or that" and some of you females are the same way.

Let me tell you something. I am not even with what I consider my Twin Flame. The last I know is that she was living in Pleasant Grove, Texas.
She got angry about something and walked away, She sat a few paces next to me. Maybe she was just waiting for me to say something and I didn't! Now that's ("ME") what you can call as an idiot. Believe me, I have never gotten over it.

We did say I love you to each other and meant it.
The point that I am making is, if I had the chance as these men/guys that you are with, I would not waste time. At least, you have or know where he or she lives. I don't even have that chance. We were so in the moment that we did not exchange e-mails nor any addresses.

You have a chance to be together, we don't but only by fate and the Goddess that she brings us back together again.

Apr 25, 2012
He's Running From the Intensity
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

Please read my comments to Amanda at "I've Met My Twin Soul". I feel that they also apply to you too.

He cannot deal with the intensity of his own emotions, I do not think it is a good idea to write to him about yours - it will only push him farther away at this time.

For the time being, you need to work on the issues in your marriage, it is the reason you are with your husband. Twin souls will not last together when they have not resolved conflicts within themselves.

Have faith in the power of the spiritual realm, if you are supposed to be together, you will be.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Tkach, Online Spiritual Counselor

Apr 25, 2012
I've Met My Twin Soul
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Amanda,

You both are where you need to be. Before you can be together on a permanent basis you both need to learn your life lessons. We are all here to learn specific lessons. Read my page on life's lessons.

You are both with your specific spouses for a reason - to teach each other things about yourselves. go within and deal with the issues that are in your marriage.

If you are supposed to be together, you will be when the time is right. As for now, work on yourself and go with the flow of your everyday life. Things will evolve and will be put in your path. Be aware and learn from those in your life who are there as mirrors for you to learn about yourself.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Online Spiritual Counselor

Apr 25, 2012
I Feel Like I'm Going Crazy
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Need Answers,

Please read my comments to others concerning meeting their twin flame.

It can be a very shocking or wondrous experience unlike any other. It is important to have an open mind, as your reactions and emotions towards your twin flame (soul) will not be rational or explanatory. It just is.

Twin flames come together during various life times for reasons that are not explained in the present day. You come together for karmic reasons, to help one another, and/or to help humanity.

The love you feel for one another is a deep love that connects you both spiritually and is not based on a husband wife bond that we are familiar with today. Your love is unconditional and is not based on physical needs and desires, it may be similar to a love bond that exists between a mother and her child. This is the best way I can explain it.

If anything, the one thing you will learn through knowing one another is unconditional love - something we all need to learn.

If you need more help in understanding why you have one nother in this life time, conatact me for a session at online spiritual counseling

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counseling

Apr 23, 2012
He's Running From The Intensity
by: Anonymous

I met who I consider my twin flame years ago. We parted for several years and recently reconnected. But now we are both unhappily married to other people.

I have always felt this pull to him even when we were not in contact and hundreds of miles apart. I believe he feels the pull to me too. He is currently running because we were getting to close too soon after reuniting and with the marriages, it's kind of scary. But since I am more open spiritually, I would risk it all for him.

I haven't heard from him for 2 months now. I feel like sending him a message that pours my heart out to him. I won't mention the TF part because it might really scare him away. Is this a good idea?

Apr 19, 2012
I've Met My Twin Soul.
by: Amanda

We were born in the same place and met several years ago, in a different part of the states. We are both married with children, neither happily, and we met socially, occasionally maybe 10 times for a few minutes each time, and there was always a massive connection which we both tried to ignore, but had a hard time doing.

We would always find a way to touch each other. Eventually, after one meeting where we were so connected, he said, "You married the wrong man."

Later he e-mailed me to meet for a drink. We met up, and I was so terrified of what I was doing, but was just compelled. He was too. I kissed him on the lips, we talked about our connection, we went back to his condo and couldn't help ourselves.

The sex was unbelievable and the feelings instantaneous and mild blowing. The evening was ubelievable for both of us. I told him I felt so comfortable with him and he felt it too. We have met every few months since.

We bumped into each other in a diner last month with our partners, and he couldn't keep his eyes off me. His wife saw. I think we are both scared of the strength of the feelings, the complete freedom and acceptance we have with each other. I wish I knew what to do.

Apr 17, 2012
I Feel Like I'm Going Crazy!
by: Anonymous

It was last year August 29th to be exact. That day has changed my life forever.

I met him unexpectedly. I actually went on a second job interview for which I was told that my qualifications did not fit what he was looking for. But he told me he had another company he was involved in and to wait while he made a call. I was then told to go down to this other company they were expecting me. I said I would go then left. But to be honest I was supposed to meet my son at school and I was going to blow it off since I really new nothing about the position. But as I was driving something kept telling me just go anyway, so I called my son and told him I had another interview to go to.

When I arrived in the parking lot I felt sick to my stomach in a nervous type of way. Then I walked into the office and I looked at him for the first time I felt something I had never in my life felt before. I knew this man, but couldn't place it in my head. I was hired that day and I remember as I was leaving I couldn't stop thinking about him. I felt this love and couldn't explain why, I don't even know him. He came and went in and out of the office, then had to be out of town to take care of some personal matters.

But whenever I would see him, the anxiety would start, I was feeling nervous, but happy all at the same time. When he was gone I missed him so much.

The rational part of me had no answers why this was happening to me and as time went on even though I didn't see or even talk to him, the love got stronger and stronger. It's been 7 1/2 months since we met and I can't get him out of my head.

I cry for no reason and that's just not me, at least it wasn't me before this happened. And since these past weeks, I have been trying to find any kind of information on 'Spiritual Awakening' I never even knew what that was before I met him.

Now I'm drawn to it. I feel like I'm going crazy I have no one to talk to, because how do I explain this to someone when I can't even explain it to my self.

I would do anything for this man and I don't expect anything from him. I know he feels something, I don't know how I know I just can feel it. But he avoids coming in contact with me. I feel so much pain everyday I sometimes pray to forget him, but it doesn't work... Nothing works I just feel like my insides are twisted all up... I just don't know what to do anymore.

Signed: Need Anwers

Apr 16, 2012
I AM Awake And Ready!!!
by: Anonymous

Dear "I AM Awake And Ready!!!",

I can relate to what you are going through. I am married to my soulmate and have met my twin flame. My advice is to talk to your twin flame about it and to find out what your mutual service to humanity is. It does get challenging because the urge to merge is always there, but remember that two of you cannot become whole together.

Your soulmates will challenge you to become whole and then once you are each whole on your own you will merge. In the meantime focus on your mutual calling.

Good luck!

A friend.

Apr 10, 2012
I AM Awake And Ready!!!
by: A. Aurore G. M.

I am almost 110% sure that I have met my twin flame, but the uncertainty is absolutely killing me and I feel that I have completely lost my mind.

I have been going to this doctor, whose practice I will keep anonymous, for over a year now. When I first saw him, I noticed that there was something mysterious about him that drew me into him, but I didn’t know what that was. His eyes are so captivating that it feels like I am sinking into his soul every time I look into them. It feels like I am seeing me each time our eyes meet.

He is the ONLY person I feel comfortable enough talking to about my feelings because its like he understands me. To make a long story short, I have recently been through 3 deaths in one year. I lost two children and my mother. He prescribed me antidepressants to help me cope with life because I felt like I was sinking into darkness. The day that I went in to his office I was not planning on saying anything about my depression. No one knew the pain I was feeling. I thought I could hide it by acting like I was happy and ok, but I was wrong. He knew.

He asked me certain questions that shocked me because its like he was feeling everything that I was feeling. At that time, I didn’t understand what was happening and it scared me. A few days later, I noticed this weird electricity circulating throughout my entire body and I didn’t realize that I had fully awakened until the next day. I didn’t sleep, but maybe 3 hours in 3 days after the awakening and eating was impossible. I felt sick to my stomach and nervous all the time. All I can think about is him and the desire I have inside myself to merge with him and serve humanity for the better.

What makes it bad is that we are both married to what I believe are our “soul mates” and I am over half his age. I don’t know if he feels the same way and I think I have completely lost it. I am scared to tell people how I feel because I don’t think they will understand.

Please help this confused little lamb!

Apr 08, 2012
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Dear Anonymous,

This is a very good question.

Since I have experienced a twin flame relationship in this life time, I know intuitively from the words in the story. If I have doubts, I speak to one of my guides to confirm what I feel.

Anyone can confirm either their twin flame or soul mate relationship through his or her own intuition or through communicating with their spiritual guide.

Many people confuse soul mate relationships with a twin soul relationship. Read karmic soul mates, and definition of soul mates. The depth of feeling in a twin relationship can be very confusing as it is unlike any other relationship that you have experienced. There exists a deep connection and
love that is unlike the feelings in a conventional marriage between two people (same sex or opposite). We can love deeply without being married to the one we love - it's all about unconditional love, and acceptance of the others' situation.

With light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Apr 04, 2012
How Do You Know When Two People Are Twin Flames (Souls)?
by: Anonymous

Do you know if people are twins by their story or do you consult your spirit guides?

I've read many of the so-called twin stories here and as I'm reading, I'm thinking "wow! this is such a quintessential twin story, but sometimes you reply back that their interaction is NOT a twin flame story but a karmic soul relationship.

I'm also asking because I have written to you before and you confirmed that it is indeed a twin soul meeting, and eventhough *I* know this deep down, I am not sure if you are CONFIRMING this, or just going by my story.

I know, I know! I'm overthinking. But just had to ask!

Mar 20, 2012
Twin Flame For 20 Years
by: Jen

I met my Twin Flame in Jr. High, I'm 33 years old this year. We were always so close and attracted to each other, like magnets.

Everyone thought we should date or were dating in high school, but we never did. He moved away, or I thought he did after high school, and then we ran into each other, literally, when we were about 20.

In and out of contact, one of us always dating or married to someone else, we are both married to others right now and live half way across the country, but are never far from the other's mind.

There is never any jealousy over the other's spouse, we both deeply wish to be together, and are happy to share in the other's life in any way at the same time. It is an odd relationship, as far as "standard" is concerned. It is possible to be very happy and not together, though it is always slightly uncomfortable.

I wish peace and light to all who are struggling with their twin flame relationship.

Mar 15, 2012
I Love You Nicole♥♥
by: Perfecto Rodriguez II

I really do not believe in "even" the laws of the universe. If I believe in spending my life with a girl and romancing her, buying or designing dressses for Her, than I will.

It seems that this "hunanity in abstract form" can WAIT for it's help. What is very hillariously funny about your interpretatation is, that it seems that if Nicole and I were to be together again, we would then be "imprisoned to the unseen laws of help thy world from th universe...probably God.

No way. I strongly believe that just as those other couples have the right to have fun, dancing, watching a movie etc. so do we. I do not believe that we met and that's it.

Being clairvoyant but unlike to the ones that are on these sites, I can see the other side. I was told that I had the natural gift of love. This is more than likely as to why I am recieving images from Nicole in so much time that has already passed. If I do not think about her, along passes a lovely lady that resembles or has similarities to her. There are times that even a little seven year old little girl will be staring at me with the same features with tHin, sandy blonde hair a certain look in her eyes as if she knows me. I wave at her and she smiles back. What you probably do not know is that the similarities to Nicole or the little girl are physical manifestations of Nicole spirit either saying I miss or I love you.

Why do you think that when a person who stairs at you, stares for a while, but you don't know each other. I know this because I can "see" the energy. Oh, I am very different that I am not even accepted by most psycic females that I know. This is a natural ability for me. This is why I have ultra sensetivity about Nicole. Read the book by Elizabeth Clair titled "Prophet-Soul Mates Twin Flames."

At least four of the theories that I had were confirmed to me by her book. I am a person who deeply loves Nicole that I would give my life for Her. Yes, I am an old soul romantic. That too comes natural. Almost like the story of Dracula
who traveled through the ages searching for a particular woman. I don't remember her name.

Whenever I go into deep prayer in hope of finding Nicole and spending my "physical life" with her, I cry a lot and eventually go into a deep sleep and always dream of Her. I am not registering anything on my subconscious level to be hurting over some sometime period, but I am very much hurting over Her at "THIS POINT" because I miss Her very much I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH Nicole♥♥♥♥♥
Sincerely: Perfecto Rodriguez 11

Mar 12, 2012
Something That Has Given Me Some Solace
by: Anonymous

I've heard that soulmates are the ones who help challenge you to become whole and that twin flames can't get whole together because they were split to have two different experiences, and only by each one becoming whole on their own will they merge.

The the main purpose of meeting a twin flame is being in service together for humanity - not necessarily being together in a romantic way. I know this is very difficult as I too have a urge to merge with my twin flame, but I remind myself that my job is to become whole and then one day we will merge.

Many blessings to all on this site!

Mar 11, 2012
I Am Sinking
by: Anonymous

Me and the man who I believe is my twin have been "dancing" on and off for about 13 years. For some reason the timing was never right for a committed relationship.

Seven years ago I married another man and we have 2 children. My twin married 5 years ago and he also has two kids.

At first, we emailed a lot and continued flirting even though we were married. Then we broke off contact for a couple of years. Recently, we decided to get together. We spoke about having a secret affair in order to fulfill and soothe each others deepest needs. I was scared, but so excited.

(U)? suggested we meet to talk before doing anything. At our meeting, we revealed a lot of feelings we had for one another. He ended up kissing me and I thought u wad going to combust. Then he said we needed to take a little space and he had to go on a pre-planned holiday with his family.

Now I have not heard from him and I feel like u might go insane. We never spoke of the twin flame connection. I don't think he knows what it is. But I am convinced he is mine and I find it so hard to be away from his voice and thoughts.

Mar 10, 2012
Thank You
by: Vaelis

Thank you Tanya, for your lovely response. I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing this also, although I know that it is all lessons. I will try the meditation you recommend! :)

Mar 07, 2012
Twin Flame Just Friends, Nothing More
by: Florida_John

I posted previously about meeting someone I believed was my twin flame. She revealed to me that her boyfriend had a dream some time ago that we were twin flames.

Last night she told that she liked me as a friend, but that's all it could ever be, because she didn't want to be in a relationship with someone who thought exactly like she did.

I am heartbroken, but it but also thankful that we both agreed that we will be friends for all time. If nothing else, I have the privilege and honor of knowing that someone truly loves me for my soul, and that a physical relationship (which has caused me so much pain in the past) isn't necessary.

It's not easy; it's the hardest situation I've ever been in in my entire life, but it has completely redefined the way I look at relationships....

Mar 03, 2012
I Have Found My Twin Flame♥♥
by: Perfecto Rodriguez II


My name is Perfecto Rodriguez II. I can understand these experiences. I found this girl, or should I say, she found me. I have never really been of interest to white girls with German background.

I am Hispanic, part Indian and some Italian. I lead a very spiritual life which is why she (Nicole) took interest in me. You can interpret by the planets. We met on a Saturday. She is a Sagitarius and I am a Gemini. After being together for a while and taking turns using the bathroom at the airport, we settled in and we spoke to each other but it was in a deep way.

She gave me a back massage which I miss Her touch. After a while, I said "I love You" and she also told me, I love you too". I woulld say that what we diid is that we spoke our feelings towards one another through these words.

I have not been with Her since the next lousy day...Sunday. I hate this day...a male God day. We were in our moment that we forgot to exchange any form of address or email. As it says on one of the "TWIN FLAME" signs. "You may notice the ability to collapse time as you know it. Upon your comming together, time will cease to exist". What are some of the components of time; NUMBERS...addresses, emails, even amount of money given or received. Love knows not these things which is why I felt a very strong conviction in saying to Nicole, "I Love You".

Now I miss her very much. I am very lonely without Her. I am literaly lost without Her. We went separate ways. She got angry about something and walked away and STUPID STOIC ME instead of saying something to her. I just remaind silent.

Now, I feel as if she no longer cares about me and moved on. I have never forgiven myself for this one. I Do Miss Nicole Very Much!! I have no way of knowing where she is. I am very sorry for me not showing that I cared for her as I did the day before.

Maybe she will read this at some point. I really do want to find Her.
"I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH Nicole♥♥♥♥♥"
Sincerely: Perfecto Rodriguez II
August 21,2010 at Dennys

Mar 03, 2012
Unsure Of My Path Now That I've Found My Twin
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

I don't know why you want to search for anything else when you have already found the most important relationship during this life time.

There is something within yourself that is unrelsolved. I did a lot of travelling and living in different countries while in my twenties, but I was not at peace with myself at that time and now am perfectly content where I'm at.

You need to go within and find out what is driving you to move elsewhere, because wherever you are you are taking it with you, and you may never be satisfied. Plus you will regret leaving your twin soul behind physically, even though you cannot escape him spiritually.

I advise you to start meditating daily. Start with small increments. Read my one minute meditation. I know that is really not a lot of time, the preparation time is much longer, but if you can quietn your mind for one minute, that is a huge step.

Only through meditation will you receive the answers you need concerning yourself. Through meditation you reach that inner core, that spiritual link with the Divine - God.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Mar 03, 2012
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Vaelis,

I understand completely what you are going through. I, too, and have met my twin soul. He is involved with another and I have let him go in order that he works through what he needs to do.

It is not easy, but one of the things we need to learn through our twin is unconditional love. When we truly love someone, we have to be prepared to let them go when necessary.

You can still learn many things through your association with him, remember he is your mirror, and you need to accept him where he is at now.

I suggest that you release all the grief that you are feeling from being separated from him, but that is only a physical separation, you are together spiritually for all time.

For my releasing technique, read letting go. This technique can be done with all negative and toxic emotions and situations causing them.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Mar 02, 2012
My One and Only
by: Anonymous

It is interesting to know that there are others experiencing the same feeling I have.

I met my twin flame over 12 years ago over the phone and the connection was instant. When we met for the first time, it felt like I knew him forever.

We are from the same home town and I moved miles away so we wouldn't have to cross paths ever again and if it wasn't for Facebook I probably would have suceeded. I am happily married and he is happy married or so I think. But he will always be the love of my life and my mind and soul know that for a fact.

I am only praying and hoping that we never see each other ever again. Is bad enough that I see him in my dreams and it really bothers me and there are instances were I think he is next to me. Sometimes I wish I knew how to forget. It is really weird, but I know we will never see each other again.

Mar 01, 2012
Unsure Of My Path Now That I've Found My Twin
by: Anonymous

For the last few years, I've been a wanderer. If I wasn't trying to travel someplace, I was planning on moving to different cities (moving cities never actually panned out, however). I've felt that I need to travel or move to a different city so I can find the something or someone I feel is missing.

About 7 months ago on 7-9-2011 (7+9=16=7, 2+0+1+1=4, 7+4=11) I met my twin. It was absolute attraction on both ends at first sight and as soon as we looked each other directly in the eyes, both our lives were transformed completely. We connected instantaneously and at an exponential rate.

I found out soon after we met that he had a girlfriend and that they had an "open" relationship, and it was also a long distance relationship. They have been friends for years. Because of their "open" status we were able to be physical and spend time together which only further solidified that we were each other's twins.

We were both confused - I was confused because even though I initially thought I could keep my emotions in check knowing he had a GF, it was becoming unbearable to know that he was sharing himself emotionally with someone else, even knowing that it was on a different level than what we have.

He was confused because of the same reasons - he didn't expect anything to happen so fast and so intensely, shaking up his pretty easy-going life thus far.

I decided to end it a few weeks ago, and I became (and still am) physically ill since the separation. I've been anxious, fatigued, stressed-out, achy, sore, cloudy headed. I think he's been feeling it too (but of course) and so when he got me on the phone a few days ago, he confessed his true feelings for me and probed me about how things would be if we were together just the two of us. This was an extremely big step for both of us. Since then we've resumed our communication and visits and I feel we are much stronger as a unit.

However, I need to decide very soon if I should travel for a month and move to another city as I have been planning since last year. My twin flame relationship has thrown an albeit extremely awesome monkey wrench into my pre-existing plans and now I am unsure how to proceed.

Should I leave and potentially miss out on my most important relationship?

Given that my twin's situation with his GF has still not yet been resolved and therefore there are still "unknowns" with us, in terms of a earthly relationship, l don't know if I should stay and not travel or move, searching for whatever it is I am searching for.

My head says go, travel, move. Don't put my life on hold for anybody. My heart says to stay connected physically with him.

The anxiety is becoming too much. Any insight is very much appreciated!

Feb 25, 2012
Missing My Twin Flame
by: Vaelis

I'm really glad I found this page, it's nice to see other people might understand what I'm going through.

I met my twin flame two years ago, and he is married. We did our best to stay away from each other because of it, but ultimately weren't able to. The coincidences piled up, the connection intensified, and it was like coming home - too much to bear after missing him my whole life, and I finally stopped trying to push him away. He told his wife he was leaving, she threatened to take the children, and that was that. He told me he needed to try his best for the children, even though he had been miserable he had never tried counseling/etc. We emailed secretly for a bit, and after a few weeks I told him goodbye, to give him the space he needed.

Except it's not goodbye, we still work together.

I was able to avoid him for a year, and then we started getting thrown in each other's way more and more. Chance meetings in symbolic locations, deja vu situations, and so on. Increasing in frequency until recently when we were assigned to a project together. Now we have meetings in my office to discuss the project while pretending like nothing happened. He had told me years ago what promises he had made his wife about boundaries with me, and he's still sticking to them. Even though I hate it, I play along.

So every day, I go to work and smile and laugh and play it all off, and pretend I don't notice how people feel compelled to talk to me about him, or compare me to him ("you guys are so much alike, it's spooky!"), or notice all of the other coincidences about us. Then I go home and cry.

This is quite literally crushing my soul. I know he's conflicted between the contentment he has at home and the connection he has with me. Or at least I suspect it. It's easy to get swept up in appearances, and forget that he's every bit the actor that I am.

I've been trapped in deep grieving and have felt so lost and so tired for so long. It takes so much effort to ward against the connection, to try and force that space when none exists. I miss him terribly. It feels like a part of me has been ripped away and I can't stop reaching for it.

If I leave my job, and physically remove myself from him, would it get easier? I've been single now for almost seven years. When I left my ex-husband I promised myself I would only be with someone I resonated deeply with. What scares me the most is the idea that there won't be anyone else, at least not anything even close to this.

I've been trying to do all the right work, meditate, focus on myself, etc. But the grief is still there, still strong.

Feb 25, 2012
by: Anonymous

Thank you, Tanya.

Feb 25, 2012
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


I cannot tell you what to do. You need to trust your intuition on this. Meditate on your question.

Many twin flames do not necessarily become sexual partners, that is not what the twin flame relationship is about. Yes, it is one of service and also to help one another. If you are meant to be together, you will be. Trust your intuition.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Feb 25, 2012
by: Anonymous

I have met my twin flame and long to be with him, but I am married to a soul mate and we have a rainbow scout child together.

I know that my twin flame and I have a mission of service together, but it is hard to maintain my marriage vows.

Please advise.

Feb 19, 2012
Twin Flame or Just Wishful Thinking?
by: Anonymous


I met a man in October 2011. I felt instantly intrigued by him and what he was talking about and felt very comfortable as if I had known him for years.

We ended up being together off and on, till about a week ago. He has had mental health problems and gets depressed, but this does not stop me wanting to connect more with him. We are an unlikely couple. I am a lot older than him, but we just seem to fit. But because of the age we are holding back. We have had problems commiting to each other, but that doesn't mean we have had other partners, not at all. Just every time we get close, one of us gets scared.

I have learned from him how to love unconditionally and I think that he may also be able to do that, but we just can't make sense of any of it.

Now, I think I may have to stay away from him as it is going to cause great pain for me to get more involved. But I don't think I will ever feel right without him. I think that he may not want to see me again, because of the confusion. We are opposites, I am outgoing and he is an introvert and quiet, but he is a strong person even though he appears to be weak from an outside perspective.

I just wish he could show his love for me properly, what else can I say. Any help greatly received. Thanks D

Feb 17, 2012
Don't Give Up on Us
by: Anonymous

I met my twin flame almost a year and a half ago.

As with all twin flame relationships, the beginning is magical. Its like soaring without wings. An ultimate feeling of completeness, like it was a taste of feeling united as one. But, egos come into play and lessons not yet learned drove us apart.

I even dreamed of him the first night we met. I barely talked on the phone because everything he said was what I was exactly thinking of or what I had in common with him so I could only say yes as confirmation. Not even a no to disagree.
I know he felt the connection, but didn't know what it was and was quite frightened by it. I was too, but I knew this was what I had requested for while on my spiritual journey.

He had been disappointed so much in his past relationships that I couldn't be real to him. He didn't want to ruin me. Always wanted me to be happy.

He would always say, "You know I love you always, but I can not be in a relationship with you. I would only hurt you."

So we would part ways for a couple weeks, but would reunite again and the cycle of up and down has been going on since. There is no doubt I always knew when he was going through a bad time. My energy level would just drop. We live in different cities. But with the ups and downs of a twin flame relationship I still won't give up.

The other day something divine guided me to the radio and the most beautiful song came on. It's called "Don't Give Up" by Jason Mraz. The song lifted me on to a spiritual level that I vowed to God at that moment I wasn't going to give up on us which meant I wasn't going to give up on our purpose here on earth. I wasn't going to give up on learning and growing spiritually, emotionally, and or physically even. It's a struggle, but I know as I'm growing stronger, he will too. And knowing that this lifetime is our last incarnation we will eventually reunite again to show the world not to give up for Divine LOVE is God and God loves unconditionally.

We just have to set aside our egos, and open ourselves to this unconditional love because it is truly the most powerful thing in the universe whether you have found your twin flame or not. It is an important universal lesson we all must learn.

Feb 15, 2012
Not Sure If She's My Twin...But I Was Told
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Florida John,

This definitely sounds like your twin.

This is the time for many twin flames meatting one another. Some will be together as in a marriage and some won't. It is different for each individual couple.

It's wonderful that you are there for her and want her to be happy. Forget about what others think and follow your heart and intuition.

You need to do what is right for you, and if you want, and feel comfortable about remaining her friend, then do so.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Feb 09, 2012
Not Sure If She's My Twin...But I Was Told
by: FloridaJohn

This past August I met the Editor of my campus newspaper. I was living in Florida, but going to school online in Georgia. Her name resonated with looked familiar. Granted, I had seen it when I looked at the newspaper website from my college town (she worked for it a while).

When I called her phone and got her voicemail, her voice just sounded more familiar. When we first talked, we connected. I loved it. Even though I felt so nervous we developed an immediate bond, but many of my own karmic lessons spilled into our relationship, and created a situation which damaged trust between each other for a while.

This is why I suspect she is my twin flame; when everyone else told her to write me off as a guy who wanted to "get in her pants," she believed in me. I didn't want to hurt her, and proved myself as best I could. We continued to talk, even though her boyfriend absolutely hates me and has gone so far as to threaten me if I ever talk to her. She lies to him about me not being involved in our college paper. She begged me to run it for one semester (I had run it before in the 1990s) when she couldn't.

I stepped in, ran it, rebuilt it and handed it to her stronger than before. In the process, we learned a lot about each other and she literally inspired me to change for the better. I told her in December how I felt about her - I went to counseling, worked on my issues and continue to work on them. I am a VERY spiritual person, our beliefs mesh almost perfectly and what doesn't mesh is wildly entertaining. I've been told when she hears my voice on the phone, her face simply lights up.

I can feel her energy many days - it is warm and hot, then it is cold and scared. She's a person of extremes, like me. She's intense, like me. We were both born on the 27th of our respective birth months, and we met on a numerological "11" day this month. We hit it off immediately - we got along great and felt an immediate connection. She even said it felt like we had known each other before.

Then she became scared a few days later and said that we can only be friends, that that's all and she didn't even feel comfortable hugging me. I'm married and she's in a relationship, but we just seem to click when we's like we just know each other. When I told her I would be fine and completely comfortable with being friends, she was so relieved.

I want the best for her and to be happy no matter what, and her happiness matters before my own. Am I insane, because everyone else says I am for loving her and wanting to be her friend?

Feb 06, 2012
Met My Twin, Now What?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

My response to AnonymousD,

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

As you can see many have the same perplexing question, "Why are we not together?"

When the time if right, you will be. Timing is everything as we all know. Be aware of what is going on around you, you will know when the timing to be together occurs. Listen for it.

There are still things you both need to do. I, too, have a twin flame/soul and have met him. He is involved in another relationship, so I know how you are feeling. I am learning to be patient (of what we both need to do and learn) and respectful of timing and getting on with my life. There are times I think about him and communicate with him on a spiritual level. Perhaps you can do this too.

In the meantime, I have a suggestion with your current spouse, learn to love her unconditionally and accept her as she is without any expectations.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Feb 06, 2012
After Meeting My Twin flame, I'm Confused How To Move On?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Britlady,

The twin flame relationship is not easy to understand for most people because they think it is like all the other relationships they have had, except for the strong emotional bond that exists. Twin Flames are spiritual twins, you know each other inside out and feel a tremendous bond/closeness immediately.

It is not an easy relationship because you both feel such deep emotions for each other, and for one or the other partner these sudden and deep emotions which you cannot shake are confusing and perhaps frightenening. Also, because of the deep emotional attachment, you feel that you should be together and cannot understand why you are not.

The twin flame relationship does not follow this type of reaasoning, it is not about possession and sexual love, it may be a part of it but is not the main purpose. The twin flame purpose is to help one another, humanity and the globe.

In our society, we want to possess objects including people. If we love someone, we immediately want to possess him/her. A twin flame relationship is built on unconditional love - something we all need to learn for all of humanity. This is a very tough lesson for all of us.

If you love this person, you will let him go because he needs to learn his lessons - what he came here to do. If you are meant to be together, you will be, in the meantime I suggest your go within and work on yourself and learn to love unconditionally - others and yourself, and that is the best thing you can do.

Please read a story from someone who met her twin soul at At Last I met My Twin Soul in this section of Twin Flame Hidden Meaning.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Feb 05, 2012
After Meeting My Twin flame, I'm Confused How To Move On?
by: britlady


I won't go into all the details, but I met the person I felt and still feel I am suppose to be with. I don't know what label to put on it...soulmate/soul connection/twin flame etc?

We had a connection to start with and when he married someone else I thought I would die...the pain was so hard and made no sense.

I had dated people and when things ended you move problem, but this was sooo different. The fact that I had signs before I met him, during and while he was married and after his divorce, doesn't make sense to me.

We dated on and off, but when he got close or life got in the way he would 'run'. I even went as far as to ask the angels if this was the man I was suppose to be with, and a car pulled up next to me with his last name on the license plate. Another sign appeared while I was in a shoe store I went into with a friend, at her suggestion. The sun was shining through the window on these gold I went over and picked them up. The brand name was my first name and his last name...I was speechless.

I have so many stories like this that almost at this point don't make sense to me...because his actions act like he has feelings for me...but his words don't. Well, his words go back and forth. He will say that he has no feelings for me, then he will say,
"If we were still dating I know we would still be together and I wouldnt be with other people."
That didn't make a lot of sense to me since he ended things.

My big question is how do I move on?

I have tried to connect to other people and it doesn't feel right. I want to be in a relationship and I know I deserve it, so I am confused as to why I can't connect to someone else?

He is dating and moving forward and it's what I want too. It almost seems unfair. I wish him the best. I want him to be happy. I just don't understand what part I play in this?

This whole twin flame thing is so confusing and I don't really understand. If we aren't suppose to be together in this world, why the signs WILL not stop?

I feel I can't move forward with anyone else. I have an amazing life, family and friends and the only thing missing is someone to share it with.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

Thank you

Feb 04, 2012
Since Meeting My Twin Flame, I'm At A Loss
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Visage,

You have the 'bite the bullet' so to speak and go with what you're feeing in your heart.

I suggest that you release any fears and other negative emotions that you have in order to move forward. Having a relationship with your twin flame (which you promised to each other before returning to earth again) is an experience you do not want to miss, otherwise you will regret if for the rest of your life. It will change your life!

To help you release your negative emotions, read my page on releasing.

It's a technique I've used personally, and hundreds of times with clients, it works. You need to be honest when using it.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Feb 04, 2012
Since Meeting My Twin Flame, I'm At A Loss
by: Anonymous

Hi Tanya,

I feel very confused and frightened when I say to myself, "She is my twin flame." Part of me feels soothed and at peace, whilst another part of me feels as if I'm teetering on the edge of insanity. Have I completely lost my marbles?

At times I am 110% certain, and at others completely unconvinced she is my twin flame. Although since meeting her I've spiritually awakened - I'm drifting in an out of awareness but nonetheless awakened. I've had so many bizarre coincidences, dreams and have even seen a white light flash from her head in a dimly lit room with no windows.

The first time I met her it shocked me how she matched the exact picture of who I thought she was before actually meeting. In that first meeting, I felt a strong magnetic pull and a knowing that she is it! I didn't realize the depth of meaning this had in actuality.

My heart really wants to let her in. But I'm a runner. She is always so available to me, but I'm too scared. I know that we're meant to meet - to help me in this life. She is much more advanced than I am in having done her work. I'm so ashamed of having not done my part to keep up to be ready for service.

I'm at a loss, scared and think I've completely lost it. Am I merely reading too much that I've met my twin flame? Or am I just too scared to confront my twin for shame?

I just don't know anymore.


Feb 02, 2012
Not happy That I and My Twin Flame Are Apart
by: Shirley

I pray that my twin flame and I, despite the others who butted in to split us apart, come back together again soon. I'm really unhappy, but trying my hardest to be happy.

Feb 02, 2012
It's So Hard
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

I was unable to place all of your pages in this section. If you would like to include your total experience with your twin soul, place it on the form at article submission for free.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual counselor

Feb 02, 2012
Amazing Love
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

You have to release all of your fears - they are keeping you blocked, especially the one concerning what others think. You cannot let others' opinions rule your life. You also have a fear of attaching your first name to your letter, and this has to do with what others think of you.

Right now, the vibrations surrounding earth are very strong and each one of us is being pushed to do our personal work. If you choose not to, you will suffer the consequences.

Read my technique on releasing. If you are still having problems, contact me for a session at Spiritual Counseling.

Many twin souls have decided to come to earth once again just to help one another, it doesn't mean that you necessarily have to live together. You are already married in a spiritual sense.

If you are meant to be together, before joining forces, you need to have learned your lessons and taken care of 'unfinished business'. Otherwise, the union for being together will never work.

To have an idea of what I mean about learning your lessons, go to life's lessons.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Feb 01, 2012
Amazing love
by: Anonymous

Amazing so many twin soul stories and they all resonate the same vibrational frequency of coming home to each other, but not quite being able to be together due to fear and rejection or some other hidden agenda that one or the other does not quite get.

I myself am playing out this scenario of recognition of my twin with the added barrier of a great age gap and family commitments to the ones we both love.

I feel all that it will take is a reaching out, but the rejection is so strong that it stops me every time and I retreat to regroup my thoughts and try decipher my feelings so I can make sense of what happens each time we connect on that level.

My sense of what is right in this third dimensional world always wins out but on the soul level I know that we are already there on every level. Even this time round this is what we have chosen and I except that completely.

I am a spiritual being having a physical experience same as he is. What can be very difficult is that all I want to do is merge as one. The vibrational attraction is so strong,
if that happened many would be hurt and disillusioned.

How do you remain open and not close down when you know if you open up and it is reciprocated so many would be hurt?

The other question is if twin souls are to be in service to humanity how are we supposed to do so without the ego stepping in to try and control the outcomes - remaining pure of heart so that what manifests is from the higher self of who we are?

Jan 30, 2012
by: Anonymous

We met online, and our relationship continued for 4 years.

In one of his emails, he acted like nothing happened, and told me the reasons why he had to stop contact with me. I understood and just left it the way it was.

In August we started chatting a bit here and there, nothing like before but the feelings were definately still there.

He contacted me a few days before my birthday and said he knew it was coming up but he could not remember the day. I told him, and on that day, I never heard from him. To say the least I was hurt, because for the past 4 years, even with us no longer talking, he never forgot. I IM'd him that night, telling him thank you for forgetting and yes I was in my feelings but would get over it. He responded back, with what I felt like was a lie. He said he send an IM to both my accounts. Funny thing is I never got any one of them and I told him this.

A few days later, he responded back with if I said I did it then I did it. Which only made it worse, I told him that it was no big deal but now I know where I stand with him. He responded back that if we were to remain friends then we needed to stop flirting.
I then responded back telling him that it was time for me to completely move on, and that I was now ready for a real relationship, and I know he could not give me it. I also told him that I did not want him to contact me, and that I did not want anything to do with him.

A few days later he emailed me saying he knows I said not to contact me, but he wanted to know something. I again emailed him back and this time, I told him everything!!!! I mean everything. How I felt about him, how much I had struggled after him leaving that day in February, and that I wanted to thank him for teaching me how to love me. I told him after the new year I was going to quietly disappear, and I prayed that he would have a wonderful future because he so deserved it.

He emailed me back with his good byes, and it was bitter sweet. It has been over a month now, and he has tried commenting a few times and I return his comments, but now have decided to truly disappear. I don't get on social networks anymore, and am trying so hard to forget him. He is happy he says, and I am happy for him. He has two kids with his wife, which he they had prior to the marriage, so I know to leave them for me, would not be a good move. I miss him dearly, and dream about him all the time still. I am trying to truly move on, but its not easy.

He was and is my twin flame/ I knew it from the first time I laid eyes on him. I am much stronger now though and know that I will never allow myself to give so vulnerably. If he comes back I want it to be wholeheartedly and not temporarily with hidden secrets.

He taught me how to love someone unconditionally. Much love to my sexy face.

Jan 09, 2012
Growing Pains
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Anon,

When you don't understand what is happening within, meeting your twin soul can be a very devastating experience. It is unlike any other relationship you have experienced. You have the ability to feel each other instinctively no matter where you are. Yes, for some the emotions that you feel in each other's presence could be too 'scary' as you say. But, you can never forget each another.

A twin soul is your spiritual twin and you cannot hide anything from him/her. You are 2 sides of the same coin. Depending on what your purpose is this time on earth, you could be here to help your twin, or you may come together once your lessons are learned.

If meeting him has helped you on your spiritual journey, then it has been worth it. Maybe that was his purpose.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Jan 09, 2012
Growing Pains
by: Anonymous

I think I met my twin soul, but the uncertainty is destroying me.

When we met it was this feeling that I've known him for a very, very long time. Later, we locked eyes from across the room. It's the most intense thing I've ever experienced. It was like for a moment it didn't matter that there was anyone else there, and time and space ceased to exist. It was so intense I looked away, it hurt because right there my entire soul was exposed, I was vulnerable.

He became like a drug to me. Being around him intoxicated me and his touch was like coming home. I think I ran because I was scared. He started to become weird around me, and when he was officially in a relationship he entirely shut me out.

Ever since meeting him I have become a spiritual person. I feel him and see him in my dreams. I think he does, too. As I undergo self growth every emotion I feel towards myself, I randomly feel towards him too. In my dreams, I encourage him to be with other people if that is what would be best for him. It is torturing me, but I guess there is divine purpose in separation. It's just odd because I barely know this person and we've talked maybe 10 times, but I feel my purpose is to guard his happiness.

Dec 11, 2011
Twin Soul?
by: BabC

Like AnonymousD, I really think I met my twin soul.

She lives thousands of miles away and either by chance, or not chance, we connected. The feelings we have for each other are so very strong. I feel her always, and her me. Sensing each other, feeling each other to the depths of our hearts and souls. We both have lives where we are struggling to balance our love and our earthly lives.

Based on this short description, is she my twin soul? And is there anything to help with this balance?

It's pain and heaven, this aching for each other. I also experienced a Kundalini opening with her chatting online. Nothing has ever felt so right and we both feel like we are finally home.

Any advice would be so grateful for us both.

Thank you!

Dec 05, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


So many twin souls/flames are meeting now. It is showing us what true unconditional love is. Once you feel it, you cannot accept anything less in a relationship.

But the main point is, everyone has much work to do within themselves and through other relationships (this is really the only way one can find out about ones self.)

It is important to keep working within, and learning and releasing what you no longer need to carry, and to have faith that when it is right, you both will be together. For example, in your relationship with another woman, once you have resolved why you are together, you will know when it's over.

The spiritual realm can orchestrate situations unbelievably well - I have witnessed this process many times. There is nothing that happens by chance.

This is a huge lesson in having faith that everything is as it should be, and to accept it.

Sending light and love,

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Dec 04, 2011
Met my twin, now what?
by: AnonymousD

I met my twin soul recently. I didn't physically meet her, she lives about 5000 miles away from me. But we 'met' via internet for business and started talking and immediately felt a strong magnetic attraction.

I didn't know anything about twin souls until later. One day, after I met her, I had the most beautiful spiritual awakening! Just like that!

I was scared because I thought I lost my mind because it happened so out of the blue. I was in another place, outside of space and time, and I could see how everything in my life was all connected and 'orchestrated' from 'the beyond' to prepare me and put me in the right spot for this spiritual awakening to happen in the first place. So amazing! I could literally see so so much, and I have taken a lot of knowledge with me from there, I am so very very blessed and happy.

But the main point is the twin soul thing. This spiritual awakening happened BECAUSE I met my twin soul! She has had a spiritual experience as well, but of a different kind. My soul touched hers, she told me, and it was so beautiful. She knew immediately it was me. I didn't think too much of it, because.. why didn't I notice that? it was my soul, right?

A few weeks later I had the same experience she had! While laying in bed at night, thoughts wandering off, thinking about her. And then it happened. She and I (or, our souls) met! Literally. But not in physical form, but in spirit. I have absolutely NO DOUBT it was her. This is a fact, some things you just KNOW. :) And that's when I KNEW she is my twin soul. She knew this after she had her experience, and now we both KNOW!

The best part is, we are now very very spiritual minded. She has always been, and for me a lot of stuff resonated deeply with me so on a deeper level I knew a lot of stuff, but after my awakening EVERYTHING fell into place.:)

To make a ridiculously long story a bit shorter; we are twin souls, both on a very real spiritual journey, yet.. why can't we be together?

Deep down we both have a feeling we are going to be together, but there's so much involved. Plus I am in a relationship for a few years which is actually going really well. So this scares me, because after I met my twin, I really knew what true deep soulful love is, and I don't have that deep bond with my current partner. This leaves me confused and not knowing what to do.

Meeting my twin feels like a gift from God and I know there is a purpose to it, but why isn't it simple as it *should* be. I mean, on the soul level it is so so simple (the truth) she and I are and have always been together and will always be. In physical life, on planet Earth, it seems a bit more difficult (distance, relationships etc.)

Any advice is very very welcome.

Dec 04, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Not Knowing what To think or Feel,

When twin souls/flames come together, the connection is very powerful and strong, and the relationships are about helping humanity, the environment and Mother earth.

For the relationship to work, you need to have worked through your own issues and to understand your connection and why you are together.

You are already doing what you were meant to do, now you just need to believe in yourself and the relationship. Together your love for one another has no bounds and you will overcome all obstacles in whatever endeavor you both decide to do.

You are very fortunate that you have found your twin soul, now go with it. Your life will take on a new meaning that you have never felt in any other relationship.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Dec 04, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Confused in Calgary,

I know that understanding the twin flame connection is difficult because we are not used to a spiritual connection with somone where we feel unconditional love...usually mothers feel this with their babies and adult children.

The new energy is about releasing old habits and behaviors that we have been conditioned to and are no longer working. We need to learn about feeling and giving unconditional love to not only ourselves but others too.

You cannot forget about a twin flame, as I said earlier he is a part of you. You have experienced the feelings of unconditional love and now can practice and learn to have that feeling with others. When you are both ready to be together, you will be.

In the meantime, you need to move on with your life since the two of you are not together at this time. Work on yourself and your relationships with family, partners, children and friends. Meditate.

Life it about learning about ourselves, growing within and accepting ourselves and others.

Live and let live!

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Dec 03, 2011
I Do Not Know What To Think Or Feel!!
by: Anonymous

We met as adults 12 years ago to do some humanitarian work for our country which was at war at the time & we were very dynamic & highly effective together.

Background – he wanted to be with me, but I didn’t because I was very overwhelmed by the feeling of high-tension electricity going thru me.

While we worked together, the weirdest thing was EVERYwhere we went folk asked us if we were together, assumed we were together or told us we ought to be together. We even had a couple of 'wise' ones tell us that what we had we CAN’T /MUSTN’T let go of.

Fast forward to now. In the last few months I had some traumatic things occur to me as an individual & was in the deepest place of despair I've ever been in my life. I had to make a week-long trip 'home' (living in the Middle East & he still in US) & an overwhelming need came over me to see him so I got in touch with him & sure enough he was arriving the day before I had to leave.

Being with him replenished me in ways words I can't express. I told him I loved him & that was just a statement of fact, that I did not need him to love me back for it to be true; also told him that I've no problems sharing him & within me I strangely have intense empathy for his wife, but said nothing about that to him.

When we both returned home there was an issue regarding his wife & I told him, "We do not need to communicate at all."

His response was an emphatic, "NO" & that he’s already had ‘that conversation’ with his wife regarding me; that I was a ‘(pause)friend’ who he could never let go of BECAUSE we have so much to do for our country!!

It’s what’s been happening since that’s driving me cuckoo!

Not too long after he told me what he had done, I came across an article on twin souls! The description fit to a T!! Beyond that in recent conversations he was insistent that our destiny will soon be upon us!!..'huh?' Said he had a very strong feeling about it & said so several times!!

I felt blown away because he also revealed that in all our years apart I have been a major issue in his marriage with some crazy accusations coming up. I’m saying... ‘huh?’ Furthermore, when I ask WHY am I an issue at all, he says it’s because of ‘the connection’ we have that his wife can also feel.

I then remember he’d told me about this ‘connection’ before when we met in the summer, but now since I have read about twin souls etc. the meaning is heavier to me.

Having said all this I am wondering, does he KNOW about the twin flame/soul phenomenon?

Please anyone out there – what do you think?

Feel free to ask me about anything to fill in the blanks.

P.S. Recently whenever I am going thru a traumatic episode I ALWAYS dream about him & an intense feeling of peace comes over me & I wake up feeling stronger to deal with my issues. I do not recall seeing his face in the dreams, but his form is present & I KNOW it’s him.

Dec 01, 2011
Twin Flame Has Disrupted My Life!
by: Confused in Calgary

Thank you so much... just a few more questions that I'm unsettled about:

I've been finding myself asking, almost begging, to see him in my dreams because I am missing him so much.

I've also been wondering about practices like telepathy, meditation, etc because I'm finding it so hard to let him go. Would any of these things be beneficial or should I work to find contentment in our separation, do whatever I can to put him out of my thoughts, and pour myself into my current life & relationship?

I want to express unconditional love to my husband and yet it hurts knowing the connection doesn't exist in the same way with him. All outward circumstances seem to say it is impossible for us to be together this lifetime and, yet, something in me is certain we will.

It's so difficult to put trust in something that is invisible in most ways. Not knowing his feelings or thoughts is really tearing me up...I'm beginning to think that I can access his thoughts and know his feelings if I just quiet myself down enough to listen... but then I second guess myself...

Nov 30, 2011
by: S.R.

I have met my twin soul and it is the most exhirilating feeling of BURSTING ENERGY and ABSOLUTE BLISS. This is the second time I met him, the first was over 18 years ago when we went out briefly over the summer. I had been searching for him since then.

He is not where I am spiritually and this causes me much pain. I'm really uncertain if he believes in the DEEP SOUL LOVE I have for him or if I am just CRAZY! Also, he is divorced and I am married, but emotionally unfed.

My soul aches for him! Even his name is a roar in the deepest part of my soul and this feeling is becoming stronger and stronger. Sometimes I wish I had never met him because this is ABSOLUTE LOVE, but ABSOLUTE PAIN once again in my life.

Nov 30, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


The rest of your story is as follows, and my response is below:

Eventually, our voices were electrifying to each other...he felt a peaceful hum and vibration and saw a white light around me. It made him want to draw me as close to him as possible. His voice created the same reaction in me.

I wrote my first song in 5 years, completely inspired by him. It began feeling more and more intimate. I started missing him terribly in between phone visits. He started to feel frustrated, like we were on a ladder to nowhere and pointed out realities: I'm married and we live 4000 km apart. He also started to feel a strong sense of responsibility and a lot of guilt.

A few days ago, he said that we needed to stop our conversations because it just wasn't right. He seemed so detached which was painful. He explained that he had come with full armour on because he knew that talking to me would stir up too many feelings and bring confusion. He said he would miss me, but that this would be our last conversation, perhaps forever.

Since our goodbyes, I have been feeling sad and almost ill, but the STRANGEST feeling of all is the sense of electricity that is running through my body at all times. It's uncomfortable and it's almost nauseating. I'm unbelievably sad that we are separated. I feel a sense of responsibility to my family to do what I can to heal things with my husband and yet I've experienced a sense of connection that has changed me...

What is the meaning of this?

Thank you :)

My response:

You have met your twin soul, and for that reason you are having such painful and strong emotions. It is unlike any other relationship.

He is the other half of yourself and you will always have that yearning for him. Twin souls only come together when they have learned the lessons they need through other relationships, otherwise the relationship will not work.

You experience a true, spiritual love with your twin soul, unlike the physical love that exists between most couples and which wanes with time.

If possible, try and be friends with him until you are able to reunite, and if not, have faith that it will happen.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Nov 30, 2011
Needing Intuition!
by: confused in calgary

Fifteen years ago, I met a guy who I had the most amazing conversations with..always spiritually focused, centring around books we were reading, things we were learning and around our dreams. He went away to Europe to travel and we lost touch. I went on with my life and honestly didn't think about him again until years later (till this year...)

Eight years ago: I went to a psychic. She said she saw two paths in my life. I would marry a guy with dark curly hair and a beautiful smile. We would have children and a lovely life together. However, she said she saw another path where I'm in New york City with a man who is 6 years older than me.

I went on to marry my boyfriend who fit the first description perfectly- we have 3 kids and, in many ways, our life has been lovely. However, I have always felt emotionally unfed and misunderstood. We are both unfulfilled in deep and obvious ways.

This year I reconnected online with this friend from years ago. I learned that he had gone on to a job in NEW YORK CITY and, as it turns out, he is 6 years older than me.

I was reminded of what the psychic had said to me and I felt kinda jolted. We started writing emails but, eventually, we started talking on the phone. Our conversations left me feeling exhilarated, happy and inspired.

He shared that he had found himself on a spiritual path that year and shared what he described as a "spiritual awakening" story. Our conversations again became centred around the spiritual and there was an ever present sense of mutual admiration and respect.

Nov 23, 2011
Twin Flame Frustration
by: Anonymous


I hope this entry helps someone out there or what I am saying agrees with someone in some way.

I met my twin flame earlier this year. We met on the internet and upon the first time we talked on the phone that same night my life was changed. There was a little chuckle on both ends of the phone from the both of us because our voices were so familiar. Moreover, when we met, his comment to me was " it feels like we have been knowing each other for years".

The relationship grew intense very fast. We both agreed that we were meant to be together and had finally met the one that we would spend the rest of our lives with. Even before I knew anything about flames, I asked him, "Are you my wonder twin?"

"Yes," he said.

Because it just seemed weird that we were so similar in so many ways. (For those who have met their twin flame, they know what I am talking about).

We got into a misunderstanding and have not talked to each other in months. My life at that point turned upside down. The depression, the constant thinking about him, the frustration (for those who have seperated from their twin know what I'm talking about.) However, I know that we both have things we need to work on for ourselves.

First of all, I have to place all doubts and fears behind me and surrender knowing that one day in divine time that we will get back together in a blissful, whole relationship.

For those out there who are going through the same situation, if the person you are willing to love, face yourself more in order to reunite with them, they are your twin flame.

Nov 19, 2011
Struggling To Understand
by: Anonymous

I met a woman in college and she took my breath away. I felt the skies open up and everything seemed possible when I was around her. It felt as if I could meld into her there was such a strong a pull. She told me she felt much the same thing and then stopped talking to me. I told her of my feelings. She found it all too much.

Now, decades later is married, has two kids and lives across the country from me. I am with someone else too and life moves on. It has been more than 20 years.

Still sometimes her name slips quietly from my lips out of nowhere. I know I will feel forever like a piece of me is gone. I went to a physic once who told me this woman had been my twin for many lifetimes and that this one was the first time in many that we were not born twins.

I don't know what that means really. I do know it hurts to miss someone so much. It doesn't make any sense I only knew her for a few years. It seems time just doesn't heal in this case. She har made it clear to me years ago that the whole thing bothers her, so reaching out just doesn't seem an option or the right thing to do. I just wish I could find peace with it.

Nov 14, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


I thought I had responded to your message. It must have got mixed and placed elsewhere within in my pages.

This man you had met and with whom you feel such a strong connection is your twin soul, he is a part of you and that is why your feelings for him are so strong. Looking at him is like looking in the mirror.

If you both have learned your lessons concerning relationships with others, you will come together in this life time. The energy on earth at this time is condusive for twin souls/flames to be together.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Nov 12, 2011
I Am Confused And I Think I Am Going Crazy!!
by: Anonymous

The first time I ever felt a connection with a man was about 10 years ago.

I was giving out candy on Halloween. I did not know what it meant so I just ignored it. A few years passed. I met him again except this time he was working on all the condos to replace all the piping, so he was here for about a week.

Every day something new happened!!! The first day his eyes ware so powerful and I felt a strong connection, so I asked him if we had met in the past? He said, "No."

I just replied, "I feel like I know you from somewhere."

The second day he told me not to leave. I felt a strong vary hot energy coming from his body to mine, but I felt like I had to run. So I left.

The third day he came an hour early at 7 am instead of eight. We talked so much and I saw God's face in his eyes!!! I also saw my eyes in his!!!

A very powerful energy came from his body, it was so strong it knocked me over and I fell on the steps. What was really strange was he was finishing my scantiness. I thought I was losing my mind!!!

The fourth day came and I felt this energy healing my body. It was so strong I felt like I was reborn!!! The last day came and again he asked me not to leave, but I left. When I came back I asked him if he was married and he said, "Yes," in a low voice. I just replied, "Ok."

Then he came out and said, "I will treat your daughter like my own." I said, "You are 5 or 6 years younger than me."

He said, "I am very smart for my age." I just replied, "I know." Then he said, "I do not want to leave you!" I was shocked when he said that, and then he said, "Here's your key."

His cell phone rang, his wife called and he just left. It turns out that he is a contractor and he also does the snow plowing in the complex.

So a few years passed and as I was taking out the garbage, he came up to me and I asked him if he was marred.

I saw a very powerful white and yellow glow that past his eyes and I mean past his eyes. I thought I was really losing my mind.

He could not look at me after I asked him that question, (are you still married?), and he replied looking away from me, "Yes and I am happy."

Then he said, "Happy is good right? I said, "Yes."

Then I said, "I respect you for trying to work out your marriage." He said, "Ya,Ii was not home that much and I do not know you."

I just left it as that and said, "I better let you go so you can work."

A Few weeks went by and he was shoveling the sidewalks and he came up to me just staring in my eyes again. He did not say anything, so I just asked him, "How are the roads?" and he said that they are not bad. I replied, "Ok thank you."

Again I felt that strong pull to go towards him. I just left it alone. Am I losing my mind?

Nov 11, 2011
We Found Each Other
by: WeFoundEachOther

I never believed in this stuff, until it happened to me.

I 100% met my twin soul. We both know it.

We are both in relationships and live far away, however we know we have important work to do together.

We are not "going there" on a physical or location level, and it's for the best. This way, we can complete our mission. We can do that in today's internet world.

We are really tender and gentle when with each other in person, and respect our boundaries. It's the most elated feeling ever!

However, we can in no way deny what is underlying our relationship.

It's tough not being near her or in her life every day, but you know, it's better than not knowing her at all.


Oct 24, 2011
11:11 - I See It Everywhere
by: Crystal


My name is Crystal.
The same thing happened to me in New York.

Do you know who Evanescence Singer Amy Lee is? I feel like she is my twin soul and I have this very deep spiritual connection with her.I have seen her twice in New York and both times I felt this nervous feeling like I am afraid of her. I am just to scared to say hi to her.

When I was young, I had a vision of a American Indian Guy. He was standing on a mountain and then he fell. He was holding two feathers and aive one to me.

After I had the vision I was so nervous I couldn't think. So I drew him the first time the way he looked in the vision. The second time I drew him, he looked more like a women with long black hair and green eyes. I didn't know who this person was at the time, but I fell in love with this unknown person.

Now going back to Amy Lee, I believe this unknown person was Amy Lee when she's older. Because I was 17 when I had the vision and now I am 34 and she is 29. Could she be my twin soul? Because I believe so.

I can I meet her without being nervous? I can also feel her spirituality and sexually at night.

Please don't think or say I'm crazy. because I'm crazy in love. I also asked God if I was really meant to meet and be with her to send me a sign.
The sigh he sent me was Evanescence Vain Center at Mount Sinai Hospital.

I can hear her call my name in her songs. I see 11:11 and 111 and 22 everywhere.

Is the time getting close for me to see her again?


Sep 29, 2011
Incredible Story
by: Anonymous


Please I need your advice. I have a very weird story to tell you!!

It was a winter night when I was standing at a bus stop waiting for the bus. I was 11 or 12 years old, I don't remember exactly. Suddenly I felt a kind of presence inside a car as waiting for someone. As it was dark, I could not see his face, but I felt a strong energy inside me, I knew lots of things about that man I have never seen before. A feeling of pureness and a very strong connection.

I know he was around 28 years old. A girl, five or six years younger than him appeared, she got in the car and they went away.

Nobody can imagine the feeling of sadness I experienced, I wanted to run behind the car and shout please don't go, stay with me. I shed some tears, without understanding such an episode. I didn't feel passion of course, I was just 11 years old.

It was something I never experienced in my whole life. A special energy, strong connection, who knows?

When I was 20 years old, I started to work in a company for a short period of time, as a substitute. I had to prepare 300 envelopes with invitations. After preparing lots of envelopes, I read a name and a surname of a man I never heard before, but when I read it I knew such a person. Really I was shocked because I wanted to realize where from, but I couldn't.

One year later I started to work in another company, a person who worked with me mentioned that name again. I knew him! I knew how he was!

One day, a meeting was going to be held, and someone told that such a person was going to attend. When he entered the room, I knew that was him, the man whose name I had heard one year ago, but even most amazing, there was again the man I "felt" when I was 11!!! I had no doubt. It was an instant connection, strong energy, really strong.

Now I am more than 30. I do not see him anymore. While working in the mentioned company we both were conscious of the strong connection. We had a little approach, but he was already married (his wife is 6 years younger than him), maybe it's that girl I saw when I was 11! They had children, and lots lots of obstacles appeared!

Now I am married with no children. I feel I am always connected with him and I suffer sometimes. I don't understand how the story will go on.

Could you please explain me all this? Sometimes I feel desperation. Thanks a lot!

Sep 25, 2011
Twin Flame Connection
by: Sonia

I have met my twin flame too. It activated my kundalini and that energy is from the chakras.

It is beautiful. He got scared and ran from me, but we connect the energy everyday whether it be for an hour or 5 minutes.

Sometimes I can feel when he is not feeling good from my heart chakra, and I will usually send him an SMS to center himself then I can feel my chakras moving up and down.

Also I see the 11.11 and the 111 and 22 master numbers. At first meeting him it was prior, then on the same nights of bumping into him then over the lst few weeks everyday, even on rego plates when I start to think of him.

I feel crazy too, and I can't stop connecting to him and I know he feels the same, but he, too, is in in a relationship and he told me he is with a very hard woman... as you say it is his journey.

Last week I wrote him an e-mail about nice things and the next day I felt his energy all day. I just kept on connecting as once you connect the energy it is powerful and very emotional.

I hope God is kind, I know that God did it for a reason as I did not know anything like this even existed. So I hope we all get that special gift God has introduced us too.

God bless you all on your journeys. :-)

Sep 15, 2011
Saw Her Once Never Again
by: JZ2

About twenty five years ago at the Hollywood Bowl, a friend casually introduced me to his date.

We looked into each others eyes. I could see in her eyes the lack of interest, the expectation of seeing just another person, nothing special. I must have been looking at her in the same way. Then we realized that we were looking into our own eyes. Her eyes were my eyes. We stared at each other with tremendous interest.

My thoughts went to my friend. I didn't want to be staring at his girlfriend too long, so I broke the gaze. I have regretted that ever since. I did get her name though. But, I have never seen her again.

Once I saw a couple that had the same look in their eyes like we did. They were amazing. It was like seeing a unicorn.

Having missed my opportunity to get to know this person JZ has been a millstone ever since.

Of course, I understand the timing thing and all of that. I have provided enough information in this post so that if JZ finds this she will recognize it. :)

Anything more direct feels improper. I don't want to disrupt her life, but if she is looking she will find this.

Sep 05, 2011
That "Energy"
by: Anonymous

I know exactly what you meant by the energy you felt. I had a smiliar experience with this woman. I had a dream about her the day before we first met and felt that energy when I awoke the next day. That entire day, I felt really good, like a certain warmth / physically cold in my heart.

We became best of friends for a couple of years, but we decided to part our ways to pursue our different life goals. Fast forward five years, I had the same dream again and awoke the same day with that same "feeling". That afternoon I bumped into her on the street after having no contact whatsoever for the past 5 years.

Not sure what it means...but I'm glad there's someone out there who shares the same experience. That woman and I haven't spoken since then, but sometimes I dream about her. One other odd thing was I had a dream she introduced me to her two children and it felt so real.

Later on I found out she does indeed have 2 children now.

Sep 02, 2011
by: Anonymous


I feel like I've found my twin flame. We've seen each other physically a couple of times, we even had an eye to eye contact, but we never got the chance to talk.

I feel like he's with me and when I went on vacation a couple of weeks ago I was depressed for 2 weeks because we were a thousand miles apart from each other. I actually didn't wanna go on vacation because the thought of being far from him made me depressed. But the thing is, I don't know if we've had telepathic connection...I strongly feel like he's my twin flame though...

I don't know, I'm confused...I feel like I'm going crazy...

Aug 11, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Cherhisinmel,

It's difficult to tell you if you will be together in this life time. As you said, I feel that he is frightened of the intensity of his emotions which are extremely strong and magnetic between twin flames.

Both of you will only be together when you are both ready, otherwise it will not work. To be ready, it is important that you resolve issues in your relationships and do the necessary work on yourself. Every relationship is a mirror for one's self, so whatever is bothering you in a relationship concerning the other, you have to go within and see if it isn't within yourself.

As for your dreams, they could be revealing to you that he needs to evolve before coming together.

You could also be helping one another through a relationship, so if you feel that you need to e-mail him, do so as a friend without wanting something from him.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Aug 11, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Sefke,

Everything happens for a reason. More and more twin flames are meeting each other and some are coming together when they are ready.

You may become good friends to help and support one another, or you may end up together. It depends entirely on each of you individually.

The love between twin flames is unconditional and that is one of the lessons for all of mankind.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Aug 09, 2011
Is This A Soulmate, Or My Twin Flame?
by: Sefke

I got married in 2005 and met my husband in 2001. He moved away from my hometown for no other reason than that in this new town we found the only house we could agree on and both fell in love with it.

I would say I have a happy marriage though my feelings for my husband are more of a friendship nature since a while now. I'm now wondering whether I had to meet my husband in order to meet my twin flame as I seem to have found him here.

The first time we met he delivered the mail to our house and we seemed to have an instant attraction. I 'forgot' about it though as i have a happy marriage.

We had a son and when time came to send him to school, I didn't go to the nearest school and not to the school that I initially preferred, but to the 3rd school. Not soon after my son had started school there was a carnival school event where the parents walk with the kids.

Again I met my possible twin flame, though I did not recognize him as the mailman as now he was not wearing the helmet, but I was drawn to him immediately. During the parade he was walking straight behind me from the pictures we took.

I notice that whenever we see each other after school when picking up the kids we look for each other, but seem to be holding back somewhat (that's unfortunately inherent to my personality, maybe his too.)

His son is about one year older than mine and there appears to be no mother as he's always alone with his son, even at major school events. Just the other day I had another event that made me believe in us being brought together by a major force.

I was taking my son to the hairdresser, but the appointment turned out later than I had thought. I decided at the last minute to take my son into the local supermarket (that I never use) and when I wanted to go, I had to wait so long before the cashier showed up.

Someone came in and I just felt I had to look behind me - there he was with his son! I couldn't say a word as I was literally gobsmacked.

We really just greeted and smiled at each other about the kids, and it felt like we didn't need words to say so much more.

I thought that maybe we are just attracted to each other, but we keep meeting unexpectedly and I feel drawn to him so magnetically like I never felt before.

I'd like to have your vision on this...

Jul 26, 2011
Need Advice, Please
by: cherhisinmel

I am still learning and was awakened a couple of years ago to my twin flame of which hit me like a rock as I had never heard of one yet alone knew what one was.

I thought I was obsessed or insane at the time - feeling him, me in him, his emotions, pain etc. I loved this man like nothing on earth from just talking before I had even seen his face. Yeah to me then madness!

But, he is still blind to this and has been gone as in run since last november. So, sadly, he does not want contact .

I know he said to leave him alone, but I seem unable to do that and feel bad at times for doing the opposite.

But othertimes, it's like I need to mail or he needs to hear from me, even though he shut me out. I just hope he does read my mail. It's all I have, to hope he may come to know of this one day and see me the way I see him.

He found me on a sight, I did think I was crazy at first with everything I feel and love about him, even though we have not met in the physical. I did not understand way back then, but since I do, it's still hard and I miss him so much - to talk with and see on webcam.

He knows how, and of this I told him things I maybe shouldn't and I know he is scared. Well, this is not logical so how can this be, but he said once in a passing conversation that we had a connection and were meant for one another. But then he backs off again. I just hope he can see past this one day and I pray for him always.

I have had a few dreams this year since he ran which are different to my older previous ones. I was normally looking for him or he would be gone and backed off like in real life, (planning to meet me but never following it through. I know he has to be ready etc.) The last three (dreams) a while ago now, but he came to me. One was when he took me by the hand and we lay bonded as one and I said i just wanted my pain to end, but I knew I was in a dream though.

In the second dream, he came and walked past me and turned and said he didn't want to be scared no more.

In the last dream, we were intimate and he asked me to marry him and without a second thought I said "yes" and we embraced.

Since then there's not not much in my dreams and I still mail and send him care and tell him I miss him, but there's still no reply. It's like I have lost him and he's not coming back this time as in no contact.

I just hope and pray he has gone before. But he always came back, but never for this long. I get confused and know it's a hard journey.

Do I let him be and not mail him, or should I keep sending him mail and hope he needs me still?

I don't want to push him further away by mailing or does he want me to, but just can't say nothing yet?

Could you please advise me and enlighten me on my dreams.

Thank You

Jul 19, 2011
If Twin Souls Have A Child
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Brian,

Your story is not unusual to me, and I trust what you say is your truth.

Many children being born at this time have special abilities, more so than children of another era.

Your child will not necessarily be a special case. It depends why the soul of your future child will come to earth again. There could be many reasons, perhaps to learn from you (the parents) or perhaps to test you, or even to teach you.

The possibilities are endless. It will be a wondrous discovery for you both.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Jul 17, 2011
At Last I Met My Twin Soul
by: Anonymous

I finally met him. It was thru an internet lead as I am a real estate agent. It should have gone to another office-It could have gone to over a thousand different people. But it didn't.

My life will never be the same again. The connection is painful. It is perfect. It scares me to death. Ive never experienced anything like this. He's from Africa, me the United Stated. It's as if everything either of us has done in our lives was to bring us to this point.

Of course, he is married. It was an arranged marriage, but to leave in that culture is huge. He told his wife about us. Oddly, that night I dreamt he told her.

He had told me previously he never believed in love. Recently, he confessed with tears in his eyes he now does. This is indescribable. I've always believed in love, but never truly felt it.

I was married for 15 years, but that too was to bring me to this point. To prepare my soul for this union. I am a strong confident woman. He is part of me now and forever. We are one. I don't have to ask if he is my twin flame. I know. What scares me is that I can't bear to consider this ending. I think about if he were to die. (we are in our 40's)and having to find him again in the next life.

It took so long this time, it has awakened my soul.

Jul 15, 2011
If Twin Souls Have A Child?
by: Brian

Hello, beloved sister of the divine,

My partner and I are spiritual path walkers, seekers of the divine heart. When we both decided to be in service of the holy spirit, the holy spirit brought us together, we were told by the holy spirit that we are the gates. That was in and around the time when we meditated together, and were brought to heaven.

We are both spiritual healers, Mother Mary, is a direct channel for my partner and her son is my main guide.. if we were to have a child, what are the probabilities?

Could this child be able to heal with one touch? I know what you have just read might be a little unusual for want of a better word, but none the less is the truth.

Many blessings of love to you.
May every breath be filled with divine love..

Jul 09, 2011
My Own Twin Flame Experience
by: Beat

As many of the comments I've read, I didn't know what a twin flame was until I realized I needed to know what that extremely weird vibration was.

It happened to me too. I met him personally by random destiny events - something I had never ever imagined that could happen with another human being, specially because every cell of your body vibrates once you get closer, and the 2 of you will immediately get to notice that's something different.

And even though I had loved deeply before, this type of love was really new to me. I didn't get to idealize my Twin Flame, I just loved him. I wasn't sure why, but it was way bigger than my mind could understand.

It took a lot of comprenhension, since I was impressed by the intensity of the feeling, and my first reaction was to run away. It happened right after breaking up from a very serious relationship, and I wasn't sure of getting into another relationship so fast.

As much as I tried to scape from it, the bond is undeniable. There is a feeling of certainty that after meeting my Twin Flame, he would always be there.

Unfortunately, my Twin Flame is million miles away, but the difference between this relationship and my previous ones is that after meeting him, I got this sensation of company at all times. Since the beggining, I just knew he would last me forever.

Due to major personal confusion, I tried just to stay away since I really thought I was loosing my mind. I mean I never missed anybody the way I missed him. His voice was constantly in my head just to find out later and confirm with him we do exchange some telepathy. At the moment I decided to stay away I could not describe the intense physical pain in my chest, it really hurt.

More and more weird things kept happening to us - coincidences, feeling what my Twin Flame felt, the vibration on the chest anytime we spoke on the phone or texted, looking at each other breathless.

Somehow after admitting to myself and accepting that as much as I tried the bond was not planning to fade away, I kind of accepted my Twin Flame in my life with unconditional love.This means, no matter if you share a romantic realationship or not, you just wish above all things your Twin Flame is happy.

I would never expect him to do anything, since the only thing that comes to my mind whenever I think of him is incredible joy and tenderness. No matter how far or how much I tried to stay away, we are blessed just by the fact we met. I appreciate that I can feel him next to me even considering the distance.

I also need to add that before all this happened, I was a bit skeptical about these type of things, but once it happens it's impossible to ignore such a phenomena.

This experience has made me feel closer to God and spirituality, and I must confess after meeting my Twin Flame, things in my life started to get smoother.
It sort of obligated me to get over my past traumas and recognize my own shadow, so far it has been the most outgrowing experience of my life.

Jun 30, 2011
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

The answer is "Yes".

You need to trust what your dreams tell you. They are not always explicit (but in this case I feel that your dream is), and you have to dig deeper and find the meaning. The images in your dream are giving you the true meaning. Hopefully, you are both ready to be together at this time.

Always trust your intuition and your dreams, they will reveal much about yourself and your life.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Jun 29, 2011
by: Anonymous

About two years ago I had a dream of being with someone when I was young, but we parted ways. As we walked down a path (not together), but always near, we aged and learned many different lessons. When I got to the end of the path he was with someone.

I remember feeling sadness. But I stood and waited on this path. Finally, the woman he was with stepped back and I stepped up and he said "I have been waiting for you." We kissed and a huge heart appeared.

About a year ago, I re-located. A man that I dated over 25 years ago is currently with someone, but separated.

Often, I wonder if this dream is letting me know that I have found my twin flame?

I have contacted different psychics, but no one can give me a definite answer.

Jun 01, 2011
Is He My Twin Flame, or Am I Delusional?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


You're not delusional, this is your twin flame and you can be different ages or even the same sex.

What you are experiencing is unconditional love, and it does not differentiate these things. You cannot stop the love that is in your heart, so you might as well accept how you feel for this man who is your spiritual twin.

Twin flames will only come together when the time is right and they have worked on their issues with others.

It is up to you and him if you decide to come together, if not you can always be true friends and will support one another (there is a close bond between you that will always be there.)

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

May 31, 2011
Is He My Twin Flame, or Am I Delusional?
by: 2old4love?

After 15 years of being single (and celibate) and 2 years overseas, I started a new job and a new life in October 2010. I work at a resort, where I also live, in a place that I would not have ever considered but for the bad economy.

I am still not sure why I took the job, except that on my very first day I saw this guy, in line for lunch, and he most definitely saw me. I don?t want to be unoriginal, was definitely the eyes. It felt like he was looking into my soul. I dismissed it, for several reasons: he was obviously a lot younger that me, and he had an arrogance that made me think he was used to having his way with the ladies. I figured he was just a flirt. I mentioned him to a colleague and found out he was living with a girlfriend. So, of course, I put him out of my mind. At least I tried.

We work in a large place and it should have been easy to avoid him, but I kept bumping into him. He seemed just as surprised as me. He ran hot and cold, sometimes he was aloof and other times he couldn?t stop staring.

I admit I liked the attention and I finally found out his name and made an effort to start saying "Hello". After that he transformed into this really sweet, shy kind of guy. He blushes, stammers, trips on his own feet, but when he tries to talk to me he can't quite seem to do it.

I saw him once at a party and he came up to me, gazed into my eyes and then shook my hand! (I think he had been drinking). I admit that I feel the same way. I am extremely nervous when he is around. There is an amazing energy that runs through my body whenever he looks at me, I ache all the way to my fingertips, but in a good way.

Whenever I see him I can't stop smiling for the rest of the day. Sometimes I run into him and he looks very focused and serious, and when he sees me he just lights up, in his eyes. It's like someone turned on a switch. This is someone that I have never even had a conversation with beyond "How are you?" & "It's really hot today?"

Last month his girlfriend left. So, that just leaves the big barrier: I'm 47 and he's 25. Most people think that I'm younger, and guess mid to late 30's. He must know I'm older than him, but just not how MUCH older.

I?ve read about twin flames on other sites and understand that it's not unusual to have twins that are many years apart. The odd thing is that when I was 21 my father and my best friend died (10 days apart). It was the worst year of my life. I was suicidal and calling out to the universe for something, anything to cling to. That's when he was born.

Am I reading too much into this?

Lately my reasoning mind has taken hold of me and has been trying to convince me that this can never, never work out. So I am back to avoiding him. But I am so, so sad. I break into uncontrollable tears 3-4 times a day for no reason. When I think of not seeing him it makes life seem so empty.

Can it be so easy to fall in love? If not, what is this??

May 30, 2011
Living Separate Lives
by: Anonymous

Typically, I'm a rational type. I analyze everything and everyone. I've tried every possible way including prayer to rid myself of this person in my thoughts, and in my heart. I really wanted these feelings to go away over time, like a normal "attraction", but it's been 30 years!

I met him in the spring of '81. We were 17 and in a strange place. Unusual circumstances brought us together. We arrived at this school trip on a Sunday. I saw him that day walking with other people and I did something totally uncharacteristic in asking him to come with me.

A mild flirtation, I dismissed it until I nearly bumped into him again the next day. He smiled and that was it. Some call it the thunderbolt; I'm not sure because I never believed in love at first sight.

The next day I flagged him down (not acting myself) and we spent the day together. I couldn't stop touching him (not characteristic), and just being around him made me feel alive and calm simultaneously.

He was very comfortable around me, and I remember a familiar feeling around him so much so that I can feel it while writing this.

When the trip was over, we had danced together and shared a kiss (not so good in technique-we both were virgins) and said our good-byes. The morning before departure, I was so sad to leave him...we were returning to separate lives. I hate crying and didn't want to in front of schoolmates But, when I saw him outside waiting for me to board the bus, I became inconsolable and haven't stopped feeling that profound loss.

We wrote for a couple of years, until I married too young and my then husband forced me to stop communicating with him.

I always thought of him and the time we were together as my "happy place". We lost touch, remarried had more children and I found him again on the internet in '08. He is happily married and I am too.

Our families are our being, as it should be. But I deeply respect the power of this thing between us. The day that he responded to me in '08 I had a buzz that lasted for days.

He is my muse. I wrote for days after that connection. We've talked on the phone, I'm tongue-tied as usual and it's too intense for me. Our communication has been respectful, and I wouldn't do anything to turn it to anything but respect for this deep connection that has lasted for a lifetime.

I considered it as a simple torch for him, but it's not that at all. I don't want sex or romance, just to know he cares for me in the same way that I care for him. I believe he does.

May 30, 2011
by: Anonymous

My question is, how do you tell your twin flame that they're your twin flame, without sounding completely insane?

May 29, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Thank you Pedro for your beautiful words of wisdom.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

May 29, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Thank you Sonia for sharing your experience in meeting your twin flame.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

May 29, 2011
Beautiful Yet Insane Twin Flame Meeting
by: pedro

I met my twin flame in May 2010, but it was only after I saw her on March 2011 that the insanity began to kick in.

I had intense telephatic connections with her, sensing she was heading to danger, very sick or in a tense situation. But before we met, I picked up very good vibes from the place where she lived as early as 10 years ago. I got damn scared after discovering that the vibes I got were all about her.

Since I am in a relationship now, I have concluded that now is not yet our time, though I can really feel the soul connection with her. But admittedly she blows hot and cold in our relationship, and may not even believe that this is a soul connection at all.

All I do now is trust in God on what will unfold in the future, and that may mean uniting years later or the next lifetime. But admittedly, I have cursed the heavens many times for the wrong and inconvenient circumstances of my twin soul meeting.

The twin flame reunion is indeed beautiful for it teaches us the purest form of unconditional love, and makes us realize that we are indeed soul beings.

Yet the experience is enough to make a person insane if the circumstances aren't right at all. It's up to us to learn from this wonderful experience nontheless....

May 25, 2011
Twin Flame Meeting
by: Sonia

I did not know there were such things as twin flames, but when it happened to me I felt scared, alive and the most spiritual I had ever felt. He did too :-)

He had to pull himself together as he was singing, and I got introduced in the intermission and he forgot his words. I just smiled to myself.

Yes, those mixed energies and feelings and activated!

Unfortunatley, he is in a hard relationship, but he can't help himself but connect. Sometimes he runs, but we also have telepathic communication too. Sometimes I laugh so much because the energy exchange is strong and tickles.

I still send him sms's and he responds with a blast of energy. It is God sent and I feel so much closer to God and I thank him every day.

May 17, 2011
Meeting My Twin Flame
by: Mynd618

When we first met we were both in relationships, and I felt this spark of powerful energy. I was honestly rather distraught because it was like the timing was off or something. I didn't think that I would ever have the chance to find out what the spark really meant.

I talked to my friends about it and everything. I really felt something strong for her and it was a hard pill to swallow. But as things always go in the Universe, it was obviously meant for us to be together, and things worked out in a way to allow it to happen.

Now that we are together we are inseparable and couldn't be happier. Talking to her about how it all worked out, I found out that she had felt the exact same way as I had and had talked to her sister about me - how she felt when she first saw me. Uncanny!

So the point of my writing this is to tell you once again "Dont give up!". It really seems like you were almost purposely trying to ignore the signs.

Listen to your gut and follow your heart and everything will fall into place as it has for us :)

May 15, 2011
Twin Flame Meeting
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


Feelings for a twin flame are unlike feelings in any other relationship. You are spiritual twins for all of eternity. You are the other half of each other's soul.

Go within and ask your heart the question, you will find your answer.

Sending love and light,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

May 14, 2011
Twin Flame Meeting
by: Anonymous

I believe I have finally met my twin Flame/soul.

We met 2 years ago, but he was frightened and confused and so we lost contact. For a year, he kept dreaming about me and at the same time, I saw his spirit.

Finally, he contacted me again hoping it would end his dreams....those types of dreams have ended and we have bonded even more.

He is over 2000 miles away, yet I can actually FEEL him physically and sexually. We think of each other and our energy is there as if we were standing next to each other.

He dreams of me and at the same time I SEE him in spirit form. If he has a sexual fantasy of me, I feel it in my body at the same time. We eat and think fact its uncanny how much we are alike.

The pull is undeniable and powerful. Never before in my life have I ever felt this with another person.

It has frightened me because I didn't understand it, AFTER ALL, I had never even heard of twin souls/flames before.

Now, I am reading everything I can get my hands on in order to fully embrace this situation. We are equally thrilled to have come across one another, and he is moving to be closer to me. We are both in love and feel we have been brought together.

Are there other ways to confirm what we believe to be true?

Thank you for providing all the information you have!!

May 07, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Hopeless,

This is definitely your twin flame. He is frightened of his feelings towards you because he cannot understand them.

You cannot intellectualize the feelings between twin flames, it just is what it is. He is a part of you and you of him. If you are meant to be together during this life time, you will be. He needs to get over and release his fears, plus he cannot control what he feels towards you.

Stay in touch, you will learn a lot about yourself through your relationship with him, and you can both help one another tremendously, but you both have to have faith in what is and learn from your other relationships.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

May 04, 2011
Feel Like I Am Haunted..
by: Hopeless

I am now 26. The first time I saw him it was as if he was drawing me in with his eyes... We had mutual friends and weeks went by. Eventually he told someone that he "liked" me.

We never spoke a word. However, a month later we were both placed in a "special" program in school and I happened to sit next to him for all of freshman year. We became instant best friends. We are both artistic...we draw exactly in the same style, our handwriting.

Although I always had this attraction and magnetism, we always remained friends. I went to a different school.

I returned bck to school junior year and things seemed awkward, we were both "in love" with other people. We did that until senior year. I remember almost a few days before graduation and 2 years of awkwardness, he sat across from me and grabbed my hands and asked,
"If you would have given me a chance to be your boyfriend in freshman year do you think we would have still been together now?"
This comes out of nowhere.

His girlfriend at the time becomes pregnant...3 months later I become pregnant. We both had daughters. We lost contact for about 4 years. I thought about him everyday. I was in my kitchen one day and his name comes up. I remember telling my friend...I could feel that I was going to see him soon.

Not even a month goes by and someone who we both know contacted me on the internet and asked me if I still talk to him, and that he asked about me and said he misses and loves me!

Weeks go by and I wake up one morning and had a voicemail from him! Supposedly, he saw this girl who contacted me online out one night and asked her for my phone number.

We immediately reconnected. Time seemed as if it never was lost. The same feelings were the same as it was 10 years before. He asked me why I never tried to find him because he was looking for me.

A year goes by and I end of being in a relationship with someone else. When I came from work one day, he left a note on my door.

He would always ask me, "Why do we still feel like this out of all these years we are still in each other's lives some way or another?" I don't know. "What's meant to be will be."

There have been times where he has called me out of the 4 in the morning after months of not speaking and I have woken up and grabbed my phone before it rings?

The last time I saw him was 6 months ago..we hadn't seen each other for almost another year and I woke up out of a dead sleep and let my dog outside and instead of staying inside like I normally would do, I start walking down my driveway and guess who is driving up as I'm walking?

We go inside and we can't let go of each other! He tells me he loves me...(he is so not like that) and I ask, "How come you keep coming in and out of my life?"

And his response was that he doesn't know what it is, but he is scared of something that makes him.

Apr 16, 2011
by: Anonymous

Hi Tanya,

Thank-you for your advice.

That's right, she is my mirror!!


Apr 16, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning?
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Blase,

Everyone comes into your life for a reason, and we learn about ourselves through others. Your twin flame is your mirror.

Observe her behavior diligently, you may see things that you, too, possess but are not yet aware. Once you realize behavior in yourself that you do not like, release it and you will see her in a different light.

If she has a tough exterior shell, it is a protection from being hurt. Underneath that hard shell, you may find a pussycat.

Sending light and love,
Tanya, Spiritual Counselor

Apr 15, 2011
I Found My TF But I'm Not Sure I like Her Very Much...
by: Blasé


How can I learn to like my TF if she's an arrogant, complacent and sarcastic stitch in my side?

We're not together and the circumstances are such that it would be extremely inappropriate to even discuss the idea. I don't even know if she believes in anything like this. But I just know.

First time I met her, it just came to me. I feel relaxed though that somehow things will happen and it will pan out. I'm just really stuck at the moment of feeling any compassion for such an impossible person.

Apr 02, 2011
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hi Nina,

Yes, all the things you are experiencing is true for you. Relationships between twin flames are not of this earth, or at least not like any other relationship that we have experienced.

This is the time for twin flames to come together.
Perhaps your twin flame is planning on returning to earth in another body - through soul exchange.

You will know when this happens.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Mar 31, 2011
I Think He Is "On The Other Side"....
by: Nina

I have had visions and thoughts, since I was a VERY small child, about a man that has been deceased since I was two years old. I am now 34.

If I am off, PLEASE correct me, but I am sincerely certain that he is my twin flame. I can hear him and sometimes LITERALLY feel him (very often, but not only, in dreams. However, his presence in my dreams is often brief.)

Any thought of him is beyond soul stirring and ecstatic in nature...I sincerely can not articulate the feeling. I have NEVER felt this way about anyone else in my life, and I have been blessed with some wonderful love from wonderful men in my life (and some tragic situations have occurred, too). Still, I have NEVER been able to get this person out of my head, heart or soul.

Once again, I have never physically met him in my life, he passed when I was 2 years old, but I "know" who he is. I have tried to make myself forget about him, and convince myself that I was out of my mind...but, it keeps coming back, and the thing is, it is not unpleasant. It is actually just makes me insane that he is not here on this earth any longer.

I am sorry to sound so crazy, but, I just KNOW he is. Is this possible?

Mar 23, 2011
I Have Found My Twin Flame.
by: Perfecto

At this point, I am very saddened and somewhat depressed. I had found or she found me...her name is Nicole and she is from Pleasant Grove, Tx.

The whole day that we spent together was like an old romantic movie - snips from Sabrina, Roman Holiday, My Fair Lady, Charades, Breakfast at Tiffanys, and parts of Casa Blanca.

I really fell in love with Nicole. The problem was that we ended up having a misunderstanding. She got angry at me and walked away. I was stupidly stoic. This was one time that silence was not golden. I am still very angry at myself for giving her the strong impression that I did not care about Her. I really miss Nicole a lot!!

I have been very emotional, I feel very lonely without her. She gave me something that made me really want her. Oh yes, I have cried a lot over Her. I feel as if a part of me has died. I really love Her very much.

I just hope that we find each other. I really feel very lonely and empty without Her. There was no sex. The fact is that we connected with each other. I told her, "I love you," and she said the same to me.

Just in case she touches upon this. Nicole, I Love You Very Much, and I miss YOU a very much.

Sincerly from the heart,
Perfecto, the guy who took You to Dennys.

Mar 17, 2011
Thank You
by: Anonymous

Dear Tanya,

Thanks for writing back. I think she's my twin. My spirits brought that to light when we would get together, they would say look they are one.

I am not losing my mind any more, but just wonder if she will ever call. My spirits say we will be married in 2 yrs. I have my doubts...when I first saw her, I called a few spirits with my divining rods - to impress her, don't think it worked.

So that night when I was fantasizing about her, she said, "I know who you are." And the rest is a wonderful love story, but not of this world. I feel like, I am changing mentally...

Mar 09, 2011
Twin Souls
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

Hello Nightrider,

Thank you for sharing your experience. It is definitely your twin soul with whom you can only have these experiences. She is your spiritual twin.

Your bond and your experience of love is unlike any other. I say this from experience. I, too, was always talking with my twin soul and I could hear his voice in my head, I knew where he was and what he was thinking all the time.

It is an out-of-this-world experience. But, on the other hand once you talk with this girl face-to-face, it will be entirely different. She may not be as aware as you are.

I have met and have spoken to my twin soul many times, but he is not at the same level as I am and once I shared specific incidences with him, he thought I was out of my mind. Actually, it frightened him.

I am sharing this so that your expectations will not be too high. Not all twin souls are on the same level. On the other hand, perhaps she is.

Let us know what happens.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Mar 09, 2011
Twin Souls...
by: nightrider

I've meet this girl at a frame shop an out of the blue she called out our names and said that rhymes. She was beautiful. I felt as if I had fallen in love for the very first time.

I thought about her day and night. I could not figure out what was wrong with me. i was going crazy thinking about her. Late one Saturday night I fantasized about her and her energy followed me home. Since then we had sex beyond description. It felt like an orgasm from start to finish.

Later we started talking to each other on the psychic plane. It was very hard at first, having another voice in my head. I thought I was going crazy. Her energy sleeps with me now, its very warm. She wakes me up to say bye, cause she works first shift.

She tells me at night its time to go to bed, early. I believe in my heart she's my twin soul, but will never know for sure til we talk. Its been a great love story but missing her is hell. I just hope it don't kill me.............

Jan 23, 2011
Trying To Be Strong
by: Anonymous


I came across my twinflame about 4 year's ago, but we haven't met in person.

He came across me on a sight off the net and from that momment we chatted there was something different. I felt I knew him like for ever and when I saw him on msn web cam, I knew i felt love for him, and felt more and more a connection.

W,e or should I say, I sort of felt like I was getting obsessed and so did he at one point. I could sense how he felt, and at times I still do.

I awakened by accident to knowing who and what twinfalmes are and my jaw dropped cause everything it said, refers to us - how I feel and what happened, age differences and different locations ect.

Sometimes, I feel as though our hearts are beating as one. I feel his loneliness and sadness too, but sadly our communication is on and off. He always shuts me out, and can be harsh at times verbally. Yet, it was him who wanted to keep meeting so much, but chickened out everytime or made diff excuses.

HE is younger and very insecure due to living a sheltered life and has hardly had any female experience.

On an off he kept deleting me. Then everything seemed to be going well as far as talking goes and he made me a promise to spend time. But then, days after he ignoried me again. He mailed me and said he started seeing someone, and so he couldn't chat anymore.

I know he isn't seeing anyone and I have mailed him a few times being polite over Xmas wishing him all the best.

Last I heard, he said he didn't want me to e-mail him and to leave him alone. So I agreed to do that.

I feel he thinks I'm just silly and crazy for caring. He did say he thought we had a connection once, and we have so much in common.

It's uncanny. So now I feel so lost with no communication, although it was mainly me doing the talking mostimes.

He is alone at home most days and nights and i miss talking with him. I am used to living now with the dull ache and pain. It's all I have to remind me that he is real.

Is this common to happen? Will he ever want to know me again?

Jan 22, 2011
I'm Sad and Lost
by: Anonymous

I'm with my life Partner for 23 years and Also a Soul Mate for 18 years and I'm losing him and I'm lost without him. Eighteen years was a lot of years not knowing he was my twin soul.

He's a Pisces and I'm a cancer girl. We are the perfect match it doesn't get better then that. We had problems for a year. But we continue to see each other more then before and sex is way better. But we continue to have problems.

What went wrong? I'm lost confused and don't know what to do. I don't want to think that Soul Mates are not made to last :(

I believe in unconditional love .... I cried for a whole Year ;( and he's like nothing NO mercy or pity ... I'm also a HOLISTIC women that believes in auras and chackras, and energy vibrations . I'm blessed with my live, life

Dec 29, 2010
Twin Flames Scenerio Is Taking Its Toll
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


Yes, the relationship between twin flames can be very daunting. You need to remember that you are both here to help one another, even if the other half is not spiritually aware. You need to take baby steps - you are learning about a new type of relationship

Dealing with your twin flame is like dealing with yourself. So, take the time to understand what is really upsetting you...whatever it is, it is within you. Perhaps, the other half is feeling the same way?

He (or she) is mirroring yourself - it is like looking in the mirror. You are both here to resolve the same difficulties even though your circumstances may be entirely different.

To look at it another way, think of your twin soul as your 'shrink'. If you are frustrated with him (or her), you are frustrated with yourself.

Sending healing vibrations,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual counselor

Dec 26, 2010
Twin Flames Scenerio Is Taking Its Toll
by: Anonymous

I made the May 25th comment. So for an update, things has not changed as far as communication with this person whom I believe to be my twin flame.

I've learned a lot in the meantime about other things that I would not have ever known about had I not been made aware of twin flames. It has made me spiritually grown.

But, I constantly think about this person as if we talked 2 minutes ago. It's the first thought I wake up with in the morning and sometimes the pressure seems too much to handle.

How should I deal with this?

Dec 12, 2010
How To Fit In Each Others Lives
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster

It is very easy for twin flames to be drawn to each other, you are like Siamese twins spiritually - the male and female side of your soul. You need to stay in touch

You are both married physically, but twin flames are married spiritually. You are both where you each need to be in order to work on issues with your mates. Once that is completed, you could end up together, but not before.

All twin flames who meet during this life time are here to help one another and humanity.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Dec 10, 2010
How To Fit In Each Others Lives?
by: Anonymous

We were in the laundry room when we met. We are both people who keep to ourselves, but there was such a pull.

For days after we kept running into each other, pretending not to see one another, or just saying a curt hello. When we finally spoke again, it was for HOURS. We literally sat stunned, looking at each other.

We both married spouses 13 years older, have the same spiritual thoughts, even though he was raised Muslim and I Christian... We both have the SAME eyeglass prescription, with the terrible left eye astigmatism. That night was charged with called me his rib...I felt I've found a missing part of me.

That screwed me up, and him, because we are both married. We did not sleep together. We began calling each other Twin; I'm just today discovering this twin flame thing.

Eight months passed before we saw each other again, and we slept with each other then. Since then we have tried to tear ourselves away, going 1-3 months without talking, but we are so drawn, and not predominantly sexually.

We live states away from each other. I had a very vivid dream a week ago, like he was with me. The next day I get an email after 3 months.

I don't know how to handle our relationship. going on year 2, and we've got the rest our lives. Where do we fit in each others lives?

Oct 26, 2010
Confused Regarding Twin Flames
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


You are not crazy when you feel that someone is your twin flame. Sometimes, you may feel like it because the feelings and sensations that you receive with a twin flame are unlike any other relationship that you have had.

You have to trust your intuition, not the judgmental voice that comes from your mind.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Oct 01, 2010
Confused Regarding Twin Flames
by: Anonymous

How does one know that it is their twin flame though.

I almost feel like maybe I'm just barking up the wrong tree here. Like I know he is, but then I feel like he's not because he's not responding the same way. I mean he always is kind to me but he's very cautious too.

Do you think I'm just crazy and he's not the twin?

Oct 01, 2010
Not Sure If He's My Twin Flame Or Not
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


I know it can be very confusing with twin flames, especially when you connect with someone very well but the person does not react in kind.

We are all here to do our spiritual lessons, and in this case you both have work to do. Twin flames do not connect unless the time is right and you are both ready for one another. There is still work for the both of you to do.

The spiritual realm is very good at doing what has to be done, and those lessons that you need are always there for you to work on. Watching what happens in life to others and myself included is like watching a symphony. Everything happens at the right time.

We are not in control. Just let go and let God do His work. Trust and have faith and if the two of you are supposed to be together, you will be.

Remember you are married, your partner is there to help you work on yourself and the same for him (unbeknownst to him). Our partners are our mirrors. How else would you be able to learn about yourself? Interacting with others is valuable information in self discovery.

I, too, have met my twin flame and we are not together. It is not time.

As I said you both have work to do.

Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

Sep 30, 2010
Not Sure If He's My Twin Flame Or Not
by: Anonymous

I have a person that I've known over ten yrs. We never hit it off because we met in "recovery" and I was not ready and nor was he.

He was more than I(?) but I knew he would not like me long term. I had so much work to do on myself, still do.

Well, his energy pulled the words "I love you" out of my mouth. I did not say that on purpose. I sorta acted crazy around him when I saw him because I was very scared of him. He was never cruel to me but just blew me off.

He remarried and I then decided it was time for me to move on. Well, I looked for him on internet and we connected, but then I acted crazy juvenille again. He finally blocked me because he asked me to stop and I couldn't.

He has this pure energy that when he walks up behind me I know he's there. Once he looked at me and his left eye sparkled. I saw it almost as approval, like he was smitten but he never acts that way.

Anyways, since he blocked me I tried to appologize and have been devastated ever since. I'm married still and he just remarried third time.

He and I have actually traveled similar paths but with different experiences. He reminds me of what I want to be. We are actually so much more socially developed and I think I'm more spiritually developed in alot of ways, although his light is very pure, total God.

I don't understand if he's my twin why he doesn't like me? Am I just crazy? Or am I confused and it's not him?

Tired of trying.

May 25, 2010
Twin Flames - Wow ! The Same Thing is Happening to Me Too
by: Anonymous

I'm having a similar experience. I've had a "find my soumate reading" and had the reader tell me they see a different kind of energy coming in for me - a twin flame connection (didn't know what a twin flame was).

It was explained to me along with what his (my twin flames) lifestyle and personality is, also what his blockages are. All I could think of was, when am I gonna meet this guy.

I've been chatting in a chatroom for years before with friends that I know personally, and had been talking to a guy who came in there a few months back. It was an instant friendship and I cared for his wellbeing more than I should have.

Then it clicked to me that he had some of the traits that the reader had spoken about, but when it came to his blockages (one of which was a inability to make up his mind etc.), I said 'naw that's not him, he's too self assured'. Plus I believed from the reading that it could not have been someone I had already met. I thought that it's gotta be someone new.

Anyway, one day in the chat room while goofing around with one of my friends, I told her she could not make up her mind about anything etc, and out of the blue he (m)imed me and I said damn! Thanks, that sounds just like me, and I rambled on about it even making one very similar comment that the reader had made about my twin flame.

I pulled away from the computer in disbelief and a bit scared. Then things got kind of weird cause I really wasn't ready for it. So I backed off trying to make sense of it, and getting all the signs all over the place.

The twist here is that the moment I said to myself that I'm ready to deal with it, he had turned away from me in some type of anger or perhaps his pride was hurt. Whatever it was, he wouldn't talk to me anymore.

But, I know it's not the end due to all the signs and crazy stuff that started happening in my life since then :)

Jul 14, 2009
Meeting Soul mate
by: Anonymous

When I met my soul mate he was married to someone else. I also received what I felt like were messages telling me to wait. Friends thought I was crazy and told me that he couldn't be my soul mate since he was married.

The messages I was receiving proved to be correct over time. His marriage eventually ended(not because of me) and we are now together. Actually I was also receiving messages telling me not to interfere in any way whatsoever until he was "free."

I've also had friends who have experienced meeting their soul mate while married to others and eventually came together later on in life.

Apr 27, 2009
Thank you
by: Anonymous

Thank you for your insight on twin flames and intuition. I feel relieved that I wasn't trying to make something out of nothing. I cannot express the "nagging feeling" I felt because there was this hidden message. I appreciate your advice and thank you again.

Apr 27, 2009
Twin Flame Hidden Meaning
by: Tanya Tkach, Webmaster


Trust your intuition. The message is definitely there with "Never Give Up".

This energy that you feel every time you meet this particular man sounds like twin soul energy. You know and are familiar with him spiritually even though you have not been together in this life time. You have known each other through many life times. You are like Siamese twins in a sense.

Most twin flames come together during a life time for a spiritual mission to heal the planet and/or mankind. It is a very evolved relationship. Before reuniting, you had many lifetimes of doing your own soul work on issues and relationships so that when you do come together, your combined energies are very healing.

Remember your attraction is at the soul level, not physical or emotional, though that attraction can be there.

In order for twin flames to be successful in their mission together, it is necessary that they both have completed their karmic work. At this level, only divine love exists between them.

It sounds like the man in question still has some soul business to finish, as in his marriage, hence the reason for seeing the message "Never Give Up". In other words, don't give up on him.

Sending light and love,
Tanya Tkach, Spiritual Counselor

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